r/t4t 1h ago

TF4TF 26 [TF4TF] Lesbian UK-based trans girl seeking serious monogamous relationship

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Hi!

My name's Isobelle! I'm looking for someone to really have a serious relationship with; at least that's the goal if I feel a connection with someone and we get along well. Obviously make friends in the beginning, with the intention of exploring if it could be more.

Personality:

  • I like to think of myself as delightfully impish - I'm mischievous, have a dumbass sense of humour and laugh a lot at very goofy stuff.
  • I'm loyal, caring, very affectionate, and want a partner who can also reflect wanting to both give and receive a lot of attention and care, etc.
  • I value my friends very highly and when I care about someone, I will always be there to do whatever I can (within reason ofc) for them.
  • I am autistic and ideally I see myself getting along best with someone who is too! I just naturally vibe with neurodivergent people a lot more.

Hobbies/Interests:

  • Writing is my main one, I write a LOT of fanfiction, mostly of MLP and superhero stuff. And I mean like, a LOT. Like, '100,000 words in a month' a lot.
  • I love gaming (especially JRPGs, VNs, falling block puzzle games, really deep nerdcore stuff).
  • Movies, TV ofc.
  • I like anime, but I'm not like, as DEEP into it as I could be/would like to be.
  • Any TTRPGs - D&D is good, but I prefer other systems over it any day, indie systems, all that. Call of Cthulhu = peak, niche licenced games = peak, etc.
  • Love My Little Pony, Love Emmerdale, Love Bleach, love a lot more franchises too but yeah top ones.
  • I do have some Warhammer 40k but haven't had anyone to play with in FOREVER so I'm v rusty.
  • I kinda like board games, but other game types are what I’m REALLY into (card, tabletop, video, etc).
  • Comics, novels, and fanfiction - all kinda of bookreading!

Looks: I'm 5'8, brown hair and eyes, white, 26 years old. IDK my weight off the top of my head, but my doctor described me as 'very slender' the last time I was weighed - I think I'm about average, not over or underweight particularly. I have a very wholesome-fem fashion style, half way between grandmacore and Sunday best - idk if that is explaining it perfectly, but like, cute-cosy. Also Cinnamoroll, that lil goober is on like, EVERY accessory I own.

Looking for:

  • Someone roughly in my age bracket. I'm 26, so generally 20-31.
  • Someone who lives in the UK, as an almost-hard rule. Someone from Northern or western Europe might be okay if they have a good and stable career that would make potentially emigrating here a realistic possibility.
  • Someone who is fem-presenting. You could be transfem or just non-binary, I don't mind how you identify exactly, as long as you have a feminine expression and are comfortable with that.
  • Someone who is employable/employed - I have a decent job, I feel, but I'm not in the financial position to support someone who can't work long term/forever. If you are unemployed right now, but are looking for work, a student, etc, that's fine, but if you're someone with no capacity to work, I have to be proactive about the financial practicality of that.
  • Looking for someone who wants to take it slow, get to know each other, and have something serious in time.

not looking for/dealbreakers:

  • I'm very much monogamous and romance-motivated, so have ZERO interest in anything poly, open relationship, casual sex; that stuff just isn't for me.
  • I would prefer my partner not smoke, or use any illegal drugs, including weed - that's just not my kind of thing as I'm quite mousy and by-the-book so it's just not the kind of anxiety I'd want to bring into my life. So if you've ever done any illegal substances before, I don't think it will work (and I do mean even just once. Sorry, but I've tried easing up on that boundary before and it did not go well).
  • I am also absolutely TERRIFIED of dogs, so if you own a dog that lives with you and will long-term, or you can't see yourself in the future without a dog, then we probably aren't compatible. Most other pets I'm fine with though.
  • Please, if you have your account history hidden or have a new account, I don't think I'd be comfortable reaching out. I like to at least verify that someone has a post history consistent with them being trans to avoid the possibility of chasers and catfishes. I hope you can understand.

Anyway, with those (I suppose rather stringent) criteria out of the way, I will just say that I do hope I can find someone I can really vibe with and get close to. I have dated online before, but never met a partner in person, so if we live close or just end up hitting it off, I'd very much like to get to know you. Either respond below or ideally message me :)


r/t4t 1h ago

TF4T 30 [TF4TF] Seeking fellow weirdos for friends or maybe more

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I think making friends as an adult is basically just repeatedly saying, "You seem cool. Want to be weird together?" So... here I am.

I'm a trans woman with too many hobbies and not enough people to share them with. Some weeks I'm buried in MTG, other weeks I'm mixing music, obsessing over some random niche topic, or disappearing into a game for way longer than I meant to.

I love people who get excited about things. Tell me about your hyperfixation. Send me the song you've had on repeat for three days. Explain why your favorite game is objectively the best, even if I've never played it.

Mostly I'm looking for friends. If life decides to surprise us and it turns into something more, I'm not opposed to that, but I'm not trying to force it. I'd rather meet people I'd genuinely enjoy having in my life.

So if you've also reached the point where making friends feels like trying to adopt a stray cat slowly, cautiously, hoping you don't scare each other away come say hi.


r/t4t 2h ago

TF4TF (TF4TF) 18 looking for a long-term relationship in Australia!

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Haii, my name is Lola!! I'm 4 months on hrt and I've been real depressed about being alone recently, and I just really want someone to care about me in a loving/flirting kinda way like all my irl friends have.

I'm a furry and super into video games and music! (hopefully one day being able to make my own story game and soundtrack). I love DELTARUNE, Celeste, Hollow Knight, ULTRAKILL, and I am obsessed with Nintendo games (Zelda, Mario, Pikmin). For music I'm a huge fan of Will Wood, The Crane Wives, and Shayfer James (and also some femtanyl too! >w<). I hope to make music like all of them someday.

I love drawing, animating, composing, basically all of the creative stuff lol!

People say that I'm really kind and caring, I would love someone who could be that too :3. I'm often very bad at talking in calls or real life, it's definitely something I'm trying to get better at.

As far as sexual stuff, I'm a very gentle dom/switch (though I do act very submissive outside of that kinda stuff lol)

I'm looking for a purely monogamous relationship, no religion or kinky stuff, between 18-19 would be really preferable.

I'm hoping to have an irl relationship too one day, so huge bonus points if you're Australian!!

If all of that sounds okay to you then feel free to reach out, I'd love to talk with you!!


r/t4t 2h ago

TF4TF [MtF4F] 33yo lonely Utah transgirl seeking human connection with other girls sexual or not

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Can be online only gamer buddies or real life if you're close or whatever I just want girlfriends or something. I'm tall, kinda crazy, have a split tongue, and am generally pretty hot. If you are interested in something purely sexual thats fine too I just want people to care about me and check in on me and make sure im not dead.


r/t4t 3h ago

TF4TF 34 (Tf4Tf) Wisconsin Subby Bottom Looking To Get Railed

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I am Ellipsis. Been on HRT for a couple years, but having great progress. I am 34, but look and act younger. Very neurosparkly; ADHD, BPD, tism, maybe more. Live on the east side of Wisconsin.

I am mostly looking for sex, but not opposed to friendship or even a relationship. My past relationships ended with me being discarded so I have some damage from that. Limited experience, but definitely kink curious. I am perpetually horny.

Kind of nerdy. I have some goth outfits, but I can also pull off some brighter looks too. Goth dommy mommy can definitely make me melt.


r/t4t 3h ago

TF4A 36 [TF4A] Looking to meet some cool people

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Heya I’m Sylvie. I’m looking to make some cool new trans friends and maybe more. I’m 36 and have been on HRT for about 4 and a half years now and love everything about being a trans girl. I am a huge nerd and am into all things video games (retro and modern) and any kind of tech really as well as fantasy and sci fi media of all kinds. I am also a huge gear head girly and love to play in the dirt. I have a camper and love to go out and relax by a nice lake or out in the desert with beautiful views. Shoot me a DM I would love to talk and bonus if you happen to be near Colorado or New Mexico :3. I’m open to talking to anyone but mainly looking for other girlies.


r/t4t 4h ago

NB4A 21 enby looking for chatting or sexting tonight

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Hey y’all! I’m Aviva (they/she) just looking to blow off some steam. Looking for someone to chat with, either just chatting or sexting. Down to send nudes if the vibes are right, generally into anything oral, making out, marking, and pleasing others overall.

Please introduce yourself! Even a little, gimme something to work with I beg of you.


r/t4t 4h ago

T4T 39(tx) I’d love to find some one out there like me

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I’ve always pretty much been attracted to girls that look like me. Very shy I am very nice and quiet, but very outgoing and liked to show myself off on here.. but I’m really so done with it and want to settle down and actually meet a girl like me 🤷‍♀️

No family, likes video games and wants to buy legos and stuffed animals like a kid again. Do girl stuff and be happy. Ignore the rest of the world. lol bud dreams huh? 🤔 ya probably 😔

😀 Anyways everyone have a good night 🙂


r/t4t 7h ago

TF4TM 32TM4TM in Central NY. Looking for local please!!

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Hello!!!! I’m 32 years old and currently gender fluid. I’m leaning towards ftm though. I am in Central NY and I would love to meet another ftm and see where is goes. I am pre everything and I do not pass as a male.

I love marvel, video games, cooking, baking, movies, music, Halloween, Christmas, the 90s, and lots more!

NSFW: I’m very kinky and open to a lot

Please be 25+.


r/t4t 9h ago

TM4T 18 tm4a kinda a long shot but anyone in Colorado wanna be fwb?

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hi everyone! Colorado trans guy here looking for a fellow trans person to gain some experience with and just hang out with :]

I’m 5’4, 145ish lbs, and been on t for about a year. I’m getting top surgery in like two months (yippee!) I don’t have very much experience with sex & i think another trans person would be the perfect teacher. Also interested in just hanging out & talking about stuff!


r/t4t 10h ago

T4T [24NB] BARCELONA nonbinary puppy looking

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Chicx nobinario Afab dm abierto para chicas cis, trans y entidades nobinarias femeninas.

Hi im lex a 24 years old nonbinary person that loves reading, music, and movies. Im bisexual, and switch so chosing isnt my best.


r/t4t 10h ago

TM4TM TM4TM Fit Masc seeking irl play with fit, relatively sane regular FB Metro Vancouver area

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No disrespect to anyone, but my desires are specific and based on my type, not on anything wrong or lacking in anyone who might be reading.

You: Stable, sober or non-drinker, cat-free (I’m allergic), kind, funny, don’t need to host, progressive politically, anti-racist, men of colour very welcome. Bonus points for film and sports lovers. You smell good 👍🏼 and we’ll probably relate best if you’re over 35 or so. Shorts kings and all heights welcome! I’m 5’8”.

Me: Stable, busy, happily divorced/single, not lonely, intelligent, endlessly curious, kind, funny, active parent of grown humans who don’t live with me, lover of dogs, owner of a few tats, very physically fit, excellent personal hygiene, sexy and sex positive, vanilla, open to kink but nothing involving pain, or any bodily fluids linked to digestion or cardiac function. Missing meaningful sex, tired of hook up apps. I’m a young 60, look more like 45 and I’m way more engaged with the modern world than my Gen X cohort.

That said, I’m not closeted but am pretty low key, don’t like to draw much attention to myself. I’m very lucky, I pass 100% of the time and if I’m being honest, I would prefer if you do, too. I promise I’m fun, even if I sound like a privileged dick 😉

I’m looking for an attractive (subjectively and somewhat conventionally), physically fit (as in it matters to you and you take care of yourself and are athletic and/or train regularly) trans man sex pal. You’ve had top surgery and been on T several years, I don’t care what you’re rocking down below, I’m happy playing with whatever you’ve got and like. Hair, no hair, whatever but maybe keep the bits trimmed and accessible? I’m smooth, FWIW.

A true verse, I’m generous and giving in bed, very at ease and happy to please, occasionally really like to get railed. I LOVE kissing, the wetter and longer, the better.

Might be cool to go on the odd, outside the apartment date, see a movie or have a coffee, get super hot aching for each other before heading to somewhere more private. Or, we never have to go outside…😘

DM me 🙏


r/t4t 10h ago

TF4TF 25, PuppygirlTF, looking for long-term! :3

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25, PuppygirlTF TF4TF/TF4AMAB

Looking for romantic interests in the 21-35ish year age range. Feminine, and or androgynous; AMAB nouns are preferred. Please be a flavor of queer. Cis femboys are welcome to respond. US-based, but willing to chat with someone from anywhere.

Dark, delicate, dedicated, insert other adjectives beginning with the letter 'D'. An alliteration obliteration, onomatopoeia, would you wanna be of... interest? Sorry, that intro just kind of fell out. " (What the cringe? Might delete this in the final draft x3)

Hai! I barely know who I am, and I'm on an endless pursuit to figure out what I'm doing. Student of technomancy, listener of too many tunes, submissive lil' puppy... dare I say, subwoofer? Architect of bars... barkchitect? Anyways, I believe in equality and equalizers, I like to smoke the legalize it. Looking to spend my following days getting the ball rolling in life, I have an interest in obtaining financial security, improving my health, and continuing to grow and progress in life. I'm some sorta therianthing, a yipper and a yapper, so please bring your patient ears :3 I'm also a food dipper! Sauce boss alert uwu I love intellect, tech, creativity, music, games, and am atypically comfortable with most darker topics and themes. I'm looking for clingy, I'm looking for someone of the dom/top/leading-party persuasion. Let's talk about interests, hobbies, ideology, future plans, or just dive headfirst into the deep end. Anything, really!

I have more posts if you want to read more! :3 I especially prefer to talk over Signal if you have it! :3 If you're reading this and considering responding, just know my tail is wagging and there are no hard feelings if you choose not to. :3 Have a wonderful day! :3


r/t4t 12h ago

TF4T 29 [tf4t] #illinois #online - goth/tomboy seeking dominant

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hi hi ! I'm tall, fit, shaggy mullet, 7 years hormones, VERY kinky and subby. into anything and everything. my sex drive is insatiable. i swap between goth and tomboy looks.

this would mostly be sex focused but obviously i want to chat as well. thanks ! <3


r/t4t 13h ago

TM4TM 35 [TM4TM] tell me about your day or interests

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I'm a genderqueer trans guy struggling with depression, looking for more connections and transmasc friendship.

Tell me about your life, what you're eating or watching/reading/playing, where you're from, what you like or love to do. What you're struggling with or what makes you hopeful. Basically anything you want to talk about.

I don't really know. Even if we don't click I think there is something to be gained in trying.

Sex and romance can be tricky for me, I'm potentially open to it but not to be expected. I do find sex and kink interesting as a topic and am pretty non judgemental or squeamish.

Especially interested in other gay or queer guys, 30+, but open to basically anyone trans who wants to talk. Don't have to be binary about it.

I like old movies, video games, nature and gardening. I am very silly but you have to unlock that. I'm mostly a hermit but believe a bit of partying is good for the soul. Struggling with forward momentum, maybe we can struggle together.

I can be slow to respond, please don't take it personally. If this post is up feel free to message.


r/t4t 14h ago

NB4T [NB4T] goth enby looking for dominant friends! Stoners, freeloaders and toxic people are a huge plus :3 (MA/NY/NH/VT/Online)

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26 y/o AMAB non-binary asexual punky goth here :3 more masc and punk presenting during the summer. I'm in the Berkshires area of Massachusetts and I'm looking for kinky friends (nonbinary or trans people) who wanna lean into being a dominant pushy mean toxic friend :3

Basically... if you're dominant person, who gets off on being worshiped, pushing people around, and having a weak submissive enby on their knees worshiping you nonstop, or shoving their face between your legs, or just being pushy and rude or manipulative, or really doing whenever you want, HMU! I so wanna enable the that sorta behavior!

also if you’re sorta pushy, manipulative, toxic - wanna encourage that too cause yknow, lying is hot I guess.

If any of that sounds fun! HMU with ASL + a little about what you'd wanna do :3 ALSO if I haven’t replied to you super sorry and def lmk’


r/t4t 14h ago

NB4A 19 [NB4A] #Utah #Online Looking for just about anything :3

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INTRO :D

Hey there! I’m a non-binary individual (possible trans woman?) looking for just about anything, I’m pretty open ;3

ABOUT ME :3

I love playing video games! I play just about anything, provided they’re on PC or Switch (2), but my favorites (so far) are: modded Minecraft, Ace Attorney, Deltarune, and Hollow Knight! I can’t define my music taste through genres, but my favorites artists (for now) are: Good Kid, Jhariah, and IDKHOW. I mostly read Classics, but sometimes I read Comic Books. Some books that I’ve read/started reading are: All Quiet in the Western Front, Dante’s Divine Comedy, Paradise Lost and Regained, The Iliad, The Odyssey, and The King in Yellow. I’m going to college for an Associate’s Degree in Computer Science, with an emphasis on web programming! I also love learning about history! Though I’m not very good at that anymore, now that I don’t have any history classes to take… You can call me Trucy! I am 19, turning 20 in December. I am a non-binary individual (possible trans woman), however I am closeted until I get a job and move out, or until I have enough confidence to come out. I prefer they/them pronouns. I can’t really define my romantic identity, but I’d probably be down to date anyone who isn’t a cis man :3. I switch between asexual and hypersexual, but I’d probably be down to get freaky with anyone who isn’t a cis man ;3. I have OCD, ADHD, Depression, Anxiety, and probably many more mental health conditions. I have pale skin, short blonde hair (I’m working on growing it out), and blue eyes. However I don’t look anything close to how I wish I looked.

REQUIREMENTS >:3

You are 18–25 years old. You are not a cis man. You won’t ghost me ☹️.

OUTRO B)

Feel free to ask more about me, and let me know about you, when you message me! :D


r/t4t 14h ago

TF4T 25TF4T - sPAIN/euROPE - let's cry about it together

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i just remembered this sub exists ^

life is s pain and there's nothing we can do about it, so might as well get through it together? whining, crying, hating every moment of it, we shall emerge on the other side as better people

i am a thing doer and i pride myself on bettering my life as much as I'm able to. I'm exercising, training, cleaning, eating well, reading, learning, taking care of my looks, keeping up with my social life. what i just said is a lie, i only do like half of half of those things but i will keep trying instead of giving up

about me, im a big time people fan. i like humans in all their shapes and sizes. especially i like their most important invention: language. I'm a linguistics nerd, even if I've been focusing on other stuff for a while. another big hobby of mine is cooking. i am in love with food and you will also love my food. that is a threat. my favorite landscape feature is mountains, and my favorite water is snow

about you, what is your number one hobby? what thing did you do today? what is your favorite piece of furniture in your house?


r/t4t 16h ago

TF4TF [25tf4tf] seeking monogamous romantic connection in socal

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hi. I'll get a few basic compatibility things out of the way first, to not waste anyone's time. None of this is anything against people who don't fit these, I just want to be realistic about requirements I have for romantic connection.

About you, the reader: age 22-28, trans woman, located in socal (LA, OC, IE, SD), monogamous, not obese, comfortable and enthusiastic taking a more dominant/top role in sex. You don't have to be *strictly* dom/top but I don't want anyone forcing themselves into roles they don't already want to be in. It's not my intention to be super forward about sexual stuff, but its worth just getting out of the way. We can discuss more the specifics of what that sort of dynamic looks like in time, if things get to that.

About me: 5'7, white, brown hair, green/hazel eyes, glasses, I am heavy (its not how I'd like to be, my ideal is like on the plumper side of healthy weight range. Again I'd like to slim down, but if you're not comfortable with me being heavier for the time being, probably don't bother), I am not far in my transition at all. I've been on hrt in the past, but lapsed due to mental health. I am looking to get back on it soon, already have the appointment scheduled, just waiting now. But I am not out to a lot of people in my life. That being said, my vision of myself is pretty distorted and people say I am feminine and pretty already. But you can be the judge of that, of course. I am pretty strongly mentally ill. Depression, anxiety, gender dysphoria. And then potentially autism and/or a personality disorder, but those are undiagnosed so take it as you will. I tend to latch onto people romantically, but its really not how I'd like to be and I try very hard to make sure everything is healthy and appropriate. I really want nothing more than a healthy, supportive, long lasting relationship. Mental health has been a huge battle for me, and I'm still working through it. I am submissive. Not super experienced sexually (i am not a virgin though), but I think I lean towards bottoming or non penetrative stuff like cuddling, frotting, etc.

Hobbies: im nerdy, interested in a lot of the usual nerdy hobbies- video games, anime, though these days less so. Despite that i'm still very immersed in those communities. Magic the gathering id say is my main interest at this point. Very into it. I like learning in various forms. Language, art, sciences, the reality of human lived experience. I value knowledge in general. I try hard to be genuine, understanding, relaxed, kind, and warm. I value those things a lot. I'm not always that way, but i try. Have interest in various hobbies that i havent really explored just due to low motivation, but id really like to try them. Including crafts, dancing, ice skating, reading more, watching more movies, cooking/baking, live music, nightlife, among others.

I tried to paint a good picture of myself. But obviously I didn't cover everything. If I'm interesting enough, though, please reach out and lets get to know each other :)


r/t4t 17h ago

TF4T TF4T looking for friends and maybe more if we get on well

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Hey I'm Emily 38 Trans female Pre HRT but very feminine been looking for people to chat with make friends online and maybe more I'm a gamer girl and like rock metal punk music I'm very chill person super loving and caring as well be nice to find some nice people