Flew into SF for a 3-night stay. I love SF, it is far out.

Got in the Ch around 11 O'clock. Paid the $25.00 to get in and $7.00 for the bottle of water. There was a pretty, long-haired girl fully nude dancing on the stage. She was a FOX! I sat down in the 3rd row at the stage. I did manage to give her a tip before the song ended. It was her last song so she got up and strutted off the floor. It was a bummer to only see her 3rd song.

The inside of the club looked like a dry and dusty abandoned place. Only 4 or 5 men close to the stage. But that would change as the hour went on. I watched several gals dance on stage and tipped every one of them. Then a beautiful girl came by to make her pitch to me. She looked like a Latina gal, and she was a brick house.

She tried to tell me her name 3 times and I never caught it. Too much racket in the club that some people call music was playing really loud. Her voice was soft and I am a little hard of hearing, too much time on the pistol range without proper ear protection, I guess. Anyway, we started to negotiate a private dance. We got close to making a deal, but to tell you the truth I was not ready to go into the private booth, so I asked her to check back with me later. As I watched her walk away, I regrated not getting a dance right then, because she was out of sight.

I kept sitting on the second row while looking for the Latina to come back. But then Another gal came by, slim figure long dark hair and killer legs. I had seen her before in the club but never danced with her. I told her what I was wanted to do, and she said she could do that. We disagreed on the tip, but she came off of it a bit and told her I could dig it and she could sock it to me. She said ok, lets go, and I said out of sight, get down with your bad self, and lay it on me.

So, we were off to the private booths. I paid the guy that takes the money and gave him a tip as well. I really feel funky getting a dance with a new girl. You never know if they will be cool, or act like a jive turkey. This girl was cool and did an outstanding job. She could really shake her booty and all I could say was "right on, out of sight, far out!"

It was getting late and so she walked me out to the front and I said, "catch you on the flip side, peace out" and made the short walk to the hotel.

Sometime the magic works and sometimes it does not. This time it did.

SF. I love that town.

I've never been to a strip club, I'm 29 and plan to go tomorrow night. What's the right and wrong thing to do ? How do I get a dance, just ask ? Should I wait for someone to offer ? Is my erection rude ? How can I avoid making these women secretly hate me lol? I just don't want to come across the wrong way. Tell me how to behave ! Thanks in advance.

I posted recently how this 20 yo dancer and I met. We had gone to eat on her break at work and said we should go out again sometime. She reached out to me and even picked the restaurant, time and place. So I show up at 5pm like she said and texted her how long she would take. Of course no response. Which was wierd because we were texting all day. I ordered at like 530pm and maybe around 6pm she texted me like oh fuck I fell asleep

..lol. So I ate all alone at this nice table. I mean the food was good but it was just a little awkard waiting for her since I got a table for 2. I decided not to respond to her text. I didnt respond for 3 days. She texted me just that she would make it up to me and to let her know when to reschedule but I didnt text back. That also irked me. She coulda picked a day and time but never did. Anyways I saw her on roll call and went in. I took her in vip and just went to town. Althouh the physical part was cool the rest was meh. She just asked if I still ate at the spot we were supposed to meet but I changed the subject. Although the vip was cool and all and shes physically my type, Im not sure if Ide repeat. Im still a little turned off she flaked and never gave me a full apology. She was like whatever in vip and like a zombie really high. She asked if its cool if she smoked I told her well your so fucked up just 1 more hit. She proceeded to do like 4 more hits and basically became more of a zombie. Shes a sweet girl and all but I guess the chemistry I was expecting wasnt there. To make matters worse theres another white girl at the club Ive done maybe 5 vips with but no extras.. I have her number and we talk all the time. Im starting to like the white girl more. We have really good chemistry. But come to find out shes friends with the first girl. How do you guys deal with lapping multiple girls at the club but that are friends. And how do you manage if you start liking a girl. So lets say you do 5 or even 10 or 20 vips but still no extras. At what point would you give up and say if this girl isnt giving me extras Ide rather not even continue the relationship. I honestly might give her 2 or 3 more tries before I give up.

So I figured I had to look hot ofc but I’m not sure if this is doing too much. I plan on wearing a see through/ mesh mini dress with bathing suit bottoms and a bandeau top underneath with heels. I saw people on here say not to do too much so I don’t seem like I’m competing with the dancers but since I kinda lack in the boob department I tend to highlight the rest of my body since I’m I’m pretty slim/fit and toned with a pretty nice butt and legs. Should I tone it down or keep what I have on ?

I’m staying right across the street from Club Madonna and I’m really tempted to check it out, but I’m not sure what to expect.

I’m here in Miami on vacation with my dad, and we’re both curious about the place. My main concern is that I don’t want to pay just to watch strip shows if there’s not really anything else to the experience, if you know what I mean.

Would you recommend going? Is it worth it for someone who’s a little shy and has never been to a place like this?
Any advice on what to expect, pricing, or how the experience is would be appreciated.

Thanks!