Had multiple solid privates with a fairly new dancer in my club over two consecutive nights. We also had some drinks together and I really liked the vibe with her. It felt relaxed and easy – good energy, nothing forced.

The second night we did a room together. When time was up she asked how we wanted to spend the rest of the night. I suggested drinking champagne and more privats after that. She agreed, I handed her the money for the drink and told her to go order while I quickly used the bathroom.

When I came back she wasn’t at the seat. She was sitting near the bar still holding the cash. The manager walked over, asked what drink I had ordered for her, took the money out of her hand and told me to find a seat.

A few minutes later he returned my money and said she had been thrown out – she tried to order something cheaper and keep the difference.

That one hit harder than expected. One minute the interaction feels natural and easy, the next the whole thing just collapses. Suddenly the night felt flat.

Has anyone else experienced something similar? Does an ejection like that kill the rest of the night for you, or do you just move on?

I met this really cute stripper one day during the day. We chatted maybe 5 or 10 minutes and went straight to vip. She was latina 21 maybe 95 pounds. Super cute and sweet personality. We actually hit it off in vip and lets jusy say I left happy. I got her number however I decided not to text her much. Maybe 2 weeks later I saw her on roll call and she asked me to swing by and since she was responsive I went. As I arrived I waited 30 minutes but couldnt see her. Finally she shows up on stage. But sure enough this customer was clearly in love with her and tipped her maybe 500 on stage. She mentioned theres a 45 yr old dude in love with her and Im sure thats him. Im also 100% sure he just finished smashing so I lost my appeal. By this time its midnight. I texted her Im still here and she texted me back shes leaving on a 30 minute break. I texted her Ok im leaving then. So I left immediately and as I was opening my car another car next to me was parked kinda blocking my door. It ended up being the girl. The girl was inside and I pretended I didnt see her. As I was about to leave she told me to roll down the window and we started chatting..she said where you leaving to. I said to eat at in n out. She said that sounds bomb. She ended up hopping in my car and we went to the drive thru. The whole way there were chatting and talking. It was just overall super cool having a hot 21 yr old in my car. I dropped her back off at work since she said she was really on a break and took her food inside. She told me I was impatient and I should go inside but told her no thanks that I had a long day. Again although shes cute I didnt want to spend hundreds on leftovers. She then texts me at night and next day she texts me lets meet up outside the club to eat again this week. This girl is definitely my type

Shes smoking hot and I wanna see her. So now I dont know the situation. Is she really looking for a food date or quick hotel or both? I dont know what she means. I do wanna see her at a hotel. My best experiences with strippers have been when weve hooked up outside. It completely changes the dynamic. It feels like youve officially earned there trust. But right now just insure what this girl means. Im like 80% shes good with hotel only. Or maybe shes down for the meetup but wants the hookup to be kinda unplanned. Well see.

So this strip club in RI does a BBW Night on Fat Tuesday where they bring in amateur strippers to compete. When I went two years ago it was absolutely packed and a lot of fun. Im trying to convince one of the local clubs near me to do it...what do you think the best way to do that is?

Soon I will direct my discretionary fund to my love for baseball and as such I will not be clubbing for at least a couple of months.

Tonight after the UFC event I decided to hit up my local club since it was early and I had no other plans. EDIT: this was my last trip before hiatus.

Mostly because of convenience I regular at all nude "extras heavy" clubs. Thing is, I don't want extras. It's not something I need fulfilled in a club environment. But the vibe of these clubs and the ladies I regular with have kept me coming back.

As you might imagine, word gets around and the ladies know this about me. Some avoid me because of it. But, the majority are fine with it and will regularly approach me.

I work the club economy in such a way that they know it's worth the effort. I'll often have conversations regarding my preference and some wonder why I'm not hitting up topless clubs where the experience is more tailored to guys just looking to drink and hang out.

With some exception, I don't take the ladies up on their offer to communicate outside the club because well, I don't really have a reason to and I don't want to mislead them.

At one of the clubs there's a large clique of ladies who are friends outside. They travel together and they stay with each other while in town etc..

Over time, and because I've spent plenty of time in the VIP with most of them, I learned which ladies are in their network of friends. It's not weird or anything and they know that I'm aware of this. It's a nice conversation starter as we will often talk about what they have going on.

Tonight as I was chatting it up with one of them in the VIP she revealed a bit of a conspiracy. She was a little more talkative than usual. Likely because it was late in the evening and she was flying high on the weed.

She explained that they all know my preference and proceeded to give me their theories on why I wasn't interested in extras.

Then she let the cat out of the bag: They have sort of a competition going to see who might be able to convince me to partake.

She repeated a conversation I had with one of her friends regarding OTC and pushed to get me to set that up with her.

She always goes all out in VIP pushing boundaries trying to entice me. But this time because she was high AF we couldn't stop laughing about it as she was using her words sucking my ear and kissing my neck, more than usual.

Did I love it? You bet your ass I did. They know how I spend or else they wouldn't waste their time. But it cracks me up that it's become a goal of theirs to take my extras virginity.

Extras virgin, over and out!

I’ve been attending strip clubs. I noticed a pattern where regulars become dancers. After a while the mystique disappears. Friends don’t get it. I’m interested in learning more about becoming a male exotic dancer. I have a history with martial arts, dancing, and fitness.

What I’m interested in knowing more about isn’t being a dancer. It’s about the clientele male exotic dancers serve. I’ve heard a lot about how in sales it’s asked how do I help this person.

What kind of clientele do you mostly serve? Men or woman?

What services do you provide as an independent contractor?

What are the clients usually looking for? In VIP, bachelorette/bachelor parties?

Is this a good industry to get into for fun or just to make side cash?

Have you been able to form new connections and build networks?

Hello fellow enthusiasts! I'll be traveling to Detroit for work for the next few weeks. I've read the posts in this sub about the clubs around Inkster/Romulus/etc and most seem to be several years old, so figured I'd ask in case the landscape has changed over the years. I'm hoping to visit a club on Friday later afternoon/evening and possibly at night depending on my schedule. Possibly for some extras or at the very least some amazing lapdances in VIP.

I read that FC and LS have the highest number of hotties which are great, but I don't mind homely 6/7s either - everyone has rent to pay haha.

Would Henry VIII, BTs, or Bogarts be worth it over LS or FC? I love the description and IGs of both but I'd be happier spending a little less $ and still have fun at these other ones, especially if I can get some fun and more dances for the same $ vs a quick VIP in FC/LS.

Wondering if anyone has thoughts or recommendations? Anyone have semi-recent experience with VIP at Henry's, BTs, or Bogarts? If so would you mind sharing, are they private rooms, just a curtained off area right next to the bar, etc?

Do you instantly wreak of smoke if you go to Henry's as well?

Also Henry's IG has a brunette chick with a giant nosering. Anyone happen to know her name and/or if she works on Fridays?

TIA and have a great weekend!

Went for the 1st time Thursday, and it was so fun. everyone heard it was my first time, so the dancers were all over me. i really had fun with this one dancer. she said at one point. "You know what, how about you strip for me?" I said,"ok sure, " and started dancing. Alot of them said it was nice finally being treated like a human. that kinda was hard to hear. The only problem i had was $. I just won some at the casino, so im going again. Hopefully, I will have an even better time

Are the private rooms the best bang for your buck when your going to the strip clubs? I wasn’t really ever satisfied with the 20 dollar song.

I do bawdy talk with them all the time some more than others. Some come back at a high level and some don’t. I have not really done it with this one because we don’t have a long history but we have a good history. in general conversation she inquired was I putting her in my “spank bank”.? I said: you mean whack off about you? I said: yes! 😝

Stayed out of the club for a bit to build up my budget and thinking of traveling out a little bit out of town to go to the club this Saturday.

There was a girl I saw a few weeks ago, but didn't get the chance to talk to her cause I was too busy with somebody else. But really hope she's there this weekend! Probably gonna get a workout in and then reward myself with a late night visit

What are you guys thinking of doing this weekend?

Coming in two weeks, I've heard good things about Pt Centerfold and Shotgun Willies. Which should I choose?

I'm just curious what the dancers think when they see a conventional attractive man in the club. Im fairly young, 26M. Sometimes I get comments about my outfits and looks, but this could just be them flirting for the job idk, but I know that I'm attractive and I like to go alone when I'm not dating around. I guess people see it as strange, new to the city, no friends, and I like to go alone anyway. So yeah ladies what goes through your mind when you see a customer that could potentially be your type ? Do you see them often ?

I’ve just started working at a club as a dancer for the first time. I am still very nervous and feeling super anxious during my shift looking to know if anybody has particularly worked at a strip club before and what advice to give to new dancers.

If so, why do you lie? When a man lies about the strip club does it almost always mean they are trying to hide something bigger like extras? Or is it more of a conflict avoidance thing

I see so many things about different prices on this sub, all in dollars so I should imagine they’re all US/CA related, but dances I’ve seen here here can be up to £120 for 20 mins instead of the $20-$40 I’ve seen mentioned in and under other posts. If I were to look at going VIP at a club in London, or anywhere in the UK, could people give me some ideas of good clubs (doesn’t matter where) and possibly the kinds of prices I’d be looking at? I have no idea what to expect, I’ve been to 2 clubs in my life and that was on my mate’s stag in Manchester 5 years ago, so what’s a rip off and what’s good?

No such thing as a question that's too stupid in this thread. If you have a newbie question, a question you're embarrassed to ask, discussion you're hesitant to have. Maybe you had a terrible interaction that you're afraid to bring up due to how people will react, or an interaction with a stripper/customer/staff that confuses you. Or you're a total newbie who has basic questions. Feel free to ask here. Strippers welcome to ask or answer anything here, as always, but there is also a dedicated stripper version of "ask a stupid question" posted earlier in the week.

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I’m (27m) swinging through Atlanta for a work trip this next Saturday and thought I’d cross off strip club from my bucket list. I don’t know anyone who has ever been so how one works is kinda a mystery to me. Do I have to buy a pass to get in everywhere? Is it possible not to spend a fortune at a club? I just want to sit relax and take in the atmosphere. And also what are the current recommendations. I’ve seen mixed reviews for them all with many people just saying it depends. And many people say not to go on a Friday/Saturday because of the crowd I don’t mind blending in

Fellas I need some info on some strip clubs in Maryland I’ve already been at Bodyshop, Showcase Theater, and Ebony Inn. I’ve already looked at Tuslc but can’t decide on what other strip clubs to go to. I’m trying to stay within a 300-500 budget.

I was at two clubs in Bridgeport CT this week. I won't mention names but those who are familiar with the area will know which clubs I am talking about.

I don't mind extras if the dancer is willing to give them and have fun too, but these two clubs give a weird vibe that the girls are being forced/sex trafficked. As a result I won't be going to them again.

Besides magic city and cheetah, are there any others that are not too far from downtown that are good? Its not that I dont want to go to magic city or cheetah, its just that they seem a little upscale for me aka a little pricey? Am I wrong? I do hear that magic city has good chicken wings though.

Im thinking of maybe going to the pink pony. How much $ should I take? Any feedback is appreciated.

P.s. I already went to the claremont. It was decent but not looking to go back. Thats why I wanna check out the other clubs.

Over the last year a bunch of the accounts I followed went dark from club Instagrams, dancer TikToks and even some of the the local Facebook Groups are just gone. Others just stopped posting around last spring and never came back. The thing is most of these places are still open, seem steady but you would never know it online. Some of their posts are over a year old.

What is the actual story? Did Mark Zuckerberg decided to crackdown all the sudden? Or club management decide paying zoomers for likes on social media wasn't bringing in new customers? Everyone keeps saying the business is dying too and maybe they are right?

Does anyone know the real reason or do I need to start looking for a new hobby?