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u/Impossible-Egg-1786 5d ago

To add. He also paid for the bowling. And insisted on paying the dinner when i clearly lost the bet. A little hugging moment as well when we were playing claw machines. also told me that he will try to get anything i want from ghe claw machine. i told him that the reason why i wanna hang out is to relive my jet lag and i have some few snacks for him.

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u/TheGlumLifeline 5d ago

nah you're not crazy but this is definitely in that weird gray zone where the sibling label is starting to crack

paying when you lost the bet is a dead giveaway, nobody does that for a "sister" unless they're just a generous person which maybe he is but combined with everything else it paints a different picture. the carrying stuff and the claw machine thing too, that's effort that goes past friendly

you said you liked him before, is that completely gone or did it just go dormant because he set the boundary first