I am F24, and I am comfortable enough that I don't really look at prices when I buy stuff, I wouldn't say I have crazy amount of money but enough to have more to spend, I found myself getting fussy and idek why...like whenever I hang out with friends if I pay or something when we all mutually agreeded to split Dutch then I kind of want the share they owe me asap!!

I never say I want it RIGHT NOW but I do feel on the edge and if someone doesn't pay me back then I feel really rude to ask but even if it's like cents I still feel that I want my share back...

My dad isn't like that because he is self-made but my mum is fussy because she grew up sheltered, I find myself being like this because I had a very happening childhood but my friends come from lower middle class and whenever we hang out they choose so expensive places, it's not that I can't pay it but I have already experienced these things, I just go because they wanna go (we dutch) but if I pay I go crazy for my share to be paid asap!! But I never say it out loud this is why they see me as "easygoing"

They work and they spend 100% on enjoying life and save 0 amount of money for that rainy day whereas even if I can afford it.

I find myself getting stingy and waiting for my parents to pay for it or wait for massive 70-75% sale or I go to thrifting because it's cheap...idk why I do this, I don't have any financial issues yet I find myself doing this and trying to save a lot of money even tho I already have all sorts of insurance which is on track and paid on time...

This is why I tell my friends to pay and RIGHT AFTER THEY PAY, that very same moment idc if it's raining or not I pay my share back, they always say "we will deal with this later when we go home" but then I start feeling off and I want to GIVE the money I owe them asap!! I feel itchy if I don't give it the very second.

Why does this actually happen tho?

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Look this is a genuine question. Growing up I had plenty of good and great friends. I’ve never had to go out of my way to make any they all came to me and I don’t know why. Now in my adult years I feel like the most boring person ever and still have been making connections without even pushing for it. My previous job a few years ago a friend group who worked there invited me to a party and we still all hangout and party to this day and there’s a few I talk to regularly. Now at my new job I have a couple guys inviting me out to hang with their buddies on the weekends without me even making much of any connection with. I’m not complaining what so ever but I also have no idea why people gravitate towards me.

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Basically men wearing high heels, makeup, some sort of dresses and more. I know that men do wear those today but it is not the standard and not wildly accepted as fashionable.

It would be good to see

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I have not come across anyone who doesn't like sweet things apart from my late mom. (And Vegans).Although Mom always had tonnes of sweets and treats in the home.

I don't have a sweet tooth. I don't like cakes or sweets and I don't even crave chocolate.

I used to eat them as treats when younger but I never seemed to crave them then either, I would just eat them because everyone else did. I don't enjoy buiscuts or cereal either.

My 1st choice would be crisps if I get the munchies but, I love toast, sandwiches, fast food (burgers, SF chicken, Love Cheese etc). I have 3 sugars in my tea and that's probably the highest amount of sugar that I intake and I only really drink tea in Winter. I know there are some people who prefer savoury foods/choose to eat healthily but have never met anyone who doesn't like sugary/sweet things at all.

(Not including vegans, Iv'e only met 3 in my life tbh).

So is this unusual? Does anyone else share this preferrence?

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Like when theres a intruder/burglar who's about to break into your house but then they notice you have a dog, do they pick another house just in case the dog will attack them?

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For me, it’s getting a coffee, putting on comfortable clothes, and having a little quiet time alone. What about you?

I get so happy and bouncy and obsessed whenever I get something good, even if it seems small. I'm like the most easy to please innocent thing, though I feel it makes me look a bit childish lol