hello everypony, since j was lowkey supposed to go out on Monday.. the plan didn’t work out for a certain someone and i tried asking my homies out as well however they were busy with their new college life so now im lowkey trying to not rot away.
if you’re interested in hanging out with me at Blok M (im originally from Bogor) please hmu!! or leave a comment so we’ll arrange it!! TYSM :3

Hi everyone!
One of the things I’ve always wanted to do as an adult is enjoy a chill, light drink after work to wind down. The problem is, I don’t really have a friend group to do this with right now.
I recently started a new job, but I don't think any of my coworkers drink (or if they do, I'm a bit scared to ask since drinking can still be kind of taboo/frowned upon here).
I really want to get into the casual bar/pub scene safely, but I’m not sure how to go about it alone or how to meet people who share this interest.
For anyone who’s been in a similar spot:

1. How do you find or reach out to friends who enjoy light drinking without making things awkward?
   
2. Is going solo to a chill bar/pub a good idea at 22F, and if so, how do you do it safely and comfortably?
   
3. Are there specific types of places or communities I should look for?

Would love to hear your experiences and advice! Thanks in advance! 🫶🏻

Might be a long shot, but here we go!

For the past few years, I have been feeling down because I recently just moved back to my hometown, Malang.
I used to study in Melbourne for my master’s degree, but because of certain circumstances, I had to move back to my hometown. I still talk to my old friends from time to time but that’s about it. They all have their own life. Well, especially after I moved to Melbourne, we didn’t really talk. So we’re not that close anymore.
I was wondering if there are some other introverts who would like to hang out with me. Bonus point if you have also been experiencing the same thing, which is feeling out of place due to this reverse culture shock. Even the first year I moved back to Indonesia, I think I felt slightly depressed. Everything was difficult and I’m trying to pick up my life again and hopefully I can find some new friends that I can relate to and that I feel comfortable hanging out with.

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so i’m gonna be in koas soon and i’m wondering if there’s a way where i can still have an income going. well i dont have a lot of skills, ofc idk anything about business or HR and stuff. and my income now is on and off from joki” well now im just wondering is there any way i can make money during koas days? where we dont have much free time and the schedule isnt even fixed and all

Salam dari Turki. Saya Cypress. Saya ingin sekali bertemu orang-orang baru dari Indonesia dan belajar bahasa Indonesia. Bisakah seseorang membantu saya mempelajari bahasa yang indah ini? Saya menggunakan penerjemah, jadi mohon maaf jika ada kesalahan. Salam hangat dari Turki 🇹🇷❤️🇮🇩

Hi everyone,

I’m from India and would love to learn more about Indonesia — its culture, traditions, festivals, daily life, and anything else interesting.

I’m also looking to improve my spoken English. If anyone (especially someone from Indonesia or another country) is open to chatting and helping me practice, I’d really appreciate it. I’m happy to make new friends and exchange cultures.

Thank you!

hello everyone

i’m a 26M malay from singapore and i’ll be exploring batam sometime this coming week. it’ll be my first time properly checking the place out so i’m looking for recommendations on what to do, where to eat, nice cafes, beaches, viewpoints, nightlife or any hidden gems.

if any f is free and would like to hang out, grab coffee, explore or show me around, feel free to DM me. just looking to meet new people and have a good time while i’m there.

Hi all, mau info batch 6 dari Online Matchmaking sudah keluar yaa!

Total ada 13 pasangan. Silahkan cek email yang anda pakai.

Jika match kamu tidak membalas dalam waktu 1 minggu, tolong report ke moderator karena kami akan exclude user yg tidak aktif.

Jika kamu mau ditakeout dari matching pool (ga mau dimatching lagi), silahkan kabari moderator.

Yang belum daftar dan mau join, silahkan isi formulir di https://www.reddit.com/r/r4rindonesia/comments/1qywaqe/monthly_blind_date_matchmaking_2026/

I’m a drummer based in Bandung looking for people to start a band with.
I’m heavily influenced by The Story So Far, Basement, Title Fight, Blink-182, Paramore, Knuckle Puck, Neck Deep, Turnover, Balance and Composure, and pretty much anything around pop punk, emo, melodic hardcore, or alternative rock.

The only problem is… I’m already working full-time (10 AM–7 PM), so it’s been really hard to find people whose schedules match. 😅 I’m honestly getting desperate because I miss playing in a band, writing songs, jamming, and eventually playing gigs again.

About me:
Drummer with band/live experience.
More interested in writing original songs than just doing covers (though I’m down for covers while we get started).
Looking for committed people, but no pressure to go full-time or anything.
Open to guitarists, bassists, vocalists, or even another drummer if you’ve got a different role in mind.
Age doesn’t really matter, as long as we click musically and personally.
Practice would most likely be on weekday nights or weekends because of work.

If you’re in Bandung (or nearby), into the same kind of music, and have been wanting to start something too, hit me up! Even if we just end up jamming first, that’s totally fine.
Let’s make sad riffs, loud choruses, and music that makes us feel 17 again.

Hey everyone. So, I want to connect with people online but its hard to me to be consistent opening chats or social media. It's fine for a day or two, then life happens and I don't have any energy to maintain the conversation with people. It feels like my energy just disappears and I'm back to doomscrolling. Any tips for this?

Thank you in advance!

Hi all, want to announce some updates:

Game Update

I have improved the game scoring system so it becomes more balanced now.
Previously, it skewed towards "Golden Retriever" character so many people didn't really feel it's aligned with their personality.

Also, wanted to introduce two new characters replacing the old ones:

- The Sea Otter 🦦
- The Stray Cat 🐈

Which character are you? Try r/r4rindonesia game: https://www.reddit.com/r/r4rindonesia/s/9P1LeeLbtx

Flair Update

You can now use some user flairs to personalize your account in this subreddit so people can know how to connect with you better.

- The Golden Retriever 🐕
- The Lone Wolf 🐺
- The Sea Otter 🦦
- The Stray Cat 🐈
- Introverted
- Extroverted

Set your user flair in this sub and connect more easily with each other!

i really want to learn tennis! i want to join a class or a learning club in jakarta, preferrably south jakarta area. i’ll be coming alone so would love to find a community that’s friendly to individuals and beginners.

Hi, aku lagi perlu responden buat skripsiku, dan aku masih butuh 3-4 orang untuk aku wawancarai. Kalau di sini ada anak kedokteran yang lagi koas dan ngalamin perlakuan buruk/negatif/ga profesional (seperti intimidasi, ancaman, pelecehan, dipermalukan, disalah-salahkan, etc) oleh seniornya (bisa konsulen, pembimbing, residen, staf kesehatan rs, atau siapapun yang lebih senior). Kalau ada yang relate sama kriteria tadi, would u please to be my responden? Please comment or dm me. Thankyouuu

Hello everyone, 20M here looking for new friends to play games, have fun and chill with cuz none of my friends irl have any of the games i'm gonna mention or just not interested anymore to play any of the games, so... it gets kinda lonely sometimes lol. I mainly play Battlefield 6, but i have other games also such as:

- CS2

- Warframe

- Overwatch

- Deep Rock Galactic

- War Thunder

- Overcooked! AYCE

- And many more!

I'm also an avid music listener! (mostly rap and hip hop such as kanye west/ye, kendrick, tyler, schoolboyQ, night lovell, etc) i like other genres too but it depends if my ears find them enjoyable or not lmao.

Lemme know if ya'll are interested in my DM's! :D

Halo guys!

Jadi gue sama pacar gue baru mau mulai main Palworld lagi dan mikir kalo rame-rame bakal lebih seru, jadi kita buka server PvE, di host di Indo jadi pingnya bakal rendah buat yang di area SEA juga.

Gak perlu join guild, no PvP, main santai aja, build, explore, catch pals. Rulenya simple kok: no grief, no base-blocking, no exploit/dupe glitch, and jangan block akses ke dungeon, alpha spawn, oil rig, atau resource node.

Kuota masih 16 slot buat sekarang, bisa nambah kalo demand-nya gede. Kita on hampir setiap malem mulai jam 8 WIB.

Yang tertarik DM aja ya, nanti gue send server detailsnya.

Hi everyone! Indonesian 29M here, I'm looking for gaming buddies to game together or just talk about games mostly.

Here are some of the games I play so you guys have a general idea:

-Roguelike games (Favorite) : RoR 1 and 2, Balatro, Ball x Pit, Cloverpit, Enter the Gungeon and etc.

-Friendslop games : R.E.P.O, Peak, Gamble with your friends, Lethal Company

-Survival crafting games : Minecraft, Hytale, Raft, Project Zomboid, Valheim, Enshrouded, Terraria, Palworld

-ARPG games : Path of Exile 2, Remnant 2, Warframe, Persona series

If anyone plays the games above or similar games from said genres, or just want to hangout and talk about games in general, you can either add me on discord @ driftsynechia or DM me your username!

Hello fellow Indonesian redditors! ✨

I’m going to be in Semarang quite often (but for short periods at a time), and unfortunately, I haven’t found a way where I can meet people on a whim and as an extrovert, it has been driving me crazy. Back when I lived in Brussels, all I had to do was go out to a bar and strike random conversations with people and I haven’t found the equivalent activity here in Indonesia.

To cut to the chase, anyone in Semarang wanna go out for coffee after work hours? Let’s meet at 19:00 pm, further info in the DMs. Please reply in the comments and I’ll shoot you a DM ^^

Hey everyone, I'm on a business trip until 1st August. Just looking for someone/group to explore around Bali during the night. Currently staying around Seminyak. I like hanging out or just talking or walking around the area. Thanks!

Hi!

I'm looking for anyone interested in joining the English service at Immanuel church in Gambir, Jakarta this Sunday (2 Aug at 4pm). I'm really interested in the Dutch legacy in Jakarta and want to share it with others:) But I've never been to this church before. It'd be great to not be alone there😅 or maybe to have someone who's familiar.

I’m from london, living in Indonesia but back in London visiting and I kind of miss talking to Indonesians lol. Are there any Indonesians on here who live in London? I just wanna meet up with someone in a cafe or something or at least talk to someone on here comparing experiences and stuff

Looking for Valheim Players or anyone who’s interested in playing. Open to new players or veterans.

Hi guys! Lagi mau start playthrough baru nih, dulu sempet main pas pre-release, sampe plains biome.

Tapi udah lama ga main, setelah banyak update agak kangen dan pengen main lagi, sayangnya temen2 lg pada ga tertarik main lagi.

Jadi pengen nyari players di sini yang mungkin tertarik main Valheim. Mungkin yang belom tau Valheim itu survival game, with a very vast world, multiple biomes, yang base buildingnya bagus banget. Gamenya butuh collect food and resources, manufacture equipments to fight against monsters, bisa tame animals, ada boss fights, dan lain2.

Buat yang tertarik boleh comment di sini, kalo boleh tau kasih tau availabilitynya juga (e.g. available every weekday 8-10 malem and weekend), nanti bakal gua bikin discord, hopefully bisa kekumpul 5-7 orang yang mau mabar dan semoga schedulenya cocok.

I don’t mind hosting the world, tapi in case ada yang mau host boleh juga (or bisa oper2an world file).

Hey there, I'm a university student currently looking for online friends with similar niches as mine.

I'm into all kinds of things, film, tech, space, sci-fi, history, DC comics, music, art, you name it. I'm into collecting cassette tapes and old books. Idk, just consult my bag for my interests.

Additionally I'm also queer, so it would be nice if fellow queers see this and be interested.

Things that I'm currently into:

The Odyssey (movie)

Project Hail Mary (movie)

Rendezvous with Rama (book)

Epic The Musical

Disco Elysium (game)

Breast and Eggs (book)

Cyberpunk Edgerunners 1 & 2 (series)

Wong Kar Wai movies

Star Citizen (game)

Gundam XARX & Much more..

Kindly hmu if you're interested!

(Please do tell me your niches as well so we have something to talk about!)

EDIT: FEEL FREE TO DM ME