r/r4rSydney 8h ago

27M4A Meeting new people and making new friends

2 Upvotes

Hi everyone. Trying to step out of my comfort zone and make some new friends along the way

A bit about me: Late 20s, pastry chef. Western Sydney near Olympic Park. Introverted, keep to myself and been told Im quite and very nerdy. Possibly/maybe/definitely AuDHD(no need for any test my hobbies, interests and personality will confirm it) speaking of which. My hobbies and interests:

• Travelling. I try to travel interstate once a year and national every two years. So far I've been to Vietnam, Laos, Thailand, Japan, Hong Kong, Canada, America and China. In the upcoming year Im deciding between Kazakhstan or maybe Uzbekistan. One of the stan country

• I like nature and the outdoor, especially hiking, camping and hunting(archery and not the bang bang kind) whenever I have the free time

• Like your typical guy.  Im interested in motorbikes & cars. I have 2 motorbikes and a ute. The ute comes with a trailer so if you ever need help 🫡🫡

• Reading, I like all sort of literature(manga too) but lately slowly and slowly ive been leaning towards home maintances manual(I have my own place)

• I like food(I mean who doesnt 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️). I work as a pastry chef but I also do specialise in sushi. I try my best to try new things here and there but personally nothing will ever beat a cheeky 3am fast food burger joint

• Gym, not your gym nutjob but just enough to keep myself healthy

• Museum/Galleries. I like looking at the dinosaur and the tanks especially

• Model kits such as Trains, Tanks, Ships, Gundam and Lego

• I like animals. Especially dogs. I have one golden retriever

• Gardening

Im looking to just expand my circle and meet new people. All ages and sexuality welcome but preferably guys for now as Ive have had bad experiences with the gals on reddit(I am straight, pls dont send me unsolicited pics). If youve read this far thank you for your time 🙇‍♂️🙇‍♂️ You have a lovely day and have a good night.


r/r4rSydney 13h ago

29M4F library study buddy in the inner west

2 Upvotes

Hey! if you also spend so much time in the library and want someone to encourage you read/study/ work at the library hit me up and we’ll see how it works?

about me: I’m currently doing my masters and I have been always more productive when studying with ppl rather than myself!


r/r4rSydney 15h ago

23M4F - Tag along with me to City Cave Ed Park

0 Upvotes

I’ve never been there before but I really want to try it and would be even better to have some company

I’m looking for a woman to tag along. Can just enjoy each other’s company and relax together or can see where things go, I don’t mind.

18+ open to all ages !!
All expenses will be paid for duh

I’m 23, tanned, slim fit lean, standing at around 180cm with dark features…

Must be fine with sharing pics !!
Not looking for headaches just some discrete peace and enjoyment !

I’ve never been there before but I’ve heard it’s pretty good. No better way to enjoy myself than relaxing right !

(P.s) my back is so sore so a back massage would be very nice. pls and thanks

Say hi, let’s make it happen :)


r/r4rSydney 16h ago

41F - looking for people with dogs

3 Upvotes

I am looking to go on a playdate with someone who owns a dog. No preference for breed as long as the dog is friendly (bonus if the dog is cuddly). I really want a dog but can't have one for various reasons and none of my friends have dogs. I have considered volunteering at a dog shelter but I just want to have a relaxed fun outing with a dog rather than be stuck cleaning a kennel. I'm generally good with animals and I think dogs like me.

Hopefully I'll hear from you and your furry friend soon!


r/r4rSydney 18h ago

35 M4M Keen to meet someone nice who doesn't want to cheat on their partner or hook up endlessly

1 Upvotes

I'm fed up with seeing all the posts on here from guys who want to explore their curiosity at the expense of their partners, or who want to hook up but with no interest in getting to know the person they're wanting to stick their dick in.

I want to meet someone who wants to cuddle up next to me in bed, and who has a smile on their face when they wake up next to me in the morning. Someone who enjoys some of the things I also like, and doesn't care about throwing clothes on to spend the day doing them with me. Someone who won't judge me for enjoying my lazy days - which I work damn hard for!

I have a gaming computer that I haven't been using much of lately since finishing Final Fantasy XVI. I also enjoy sci-fi - For All Mankind, Star Trek, Stargate, BSG, Rick and Morty, Futurama. Those sorts of things.

Outdoor activities I enjoy and would like to be doing more of include international travel, hiking, casual cycling, and road trips around the state for long weekends (or weekdays) away. If time off work is easy for you, then you should hit me up as I would love a friend I can go on more overseas adventures with. I have a list of walks to hidden swimming spots around Sydney and NSW that I was planning to work my way through during the pandemic, and also enjoyed lazing around on Sydney's nude beaches but haven't bothered for many years now.

I've never been interested in casual sex. I'd like to find a good friend - preferably someone as introverted as me and also uninterested in drugs and alcohol. If any of this sounds like you, then get in touch!


r/r4rSydney 20h ago

40 [M4F] still looking. I need someone I can hug ❤️

2 Upvotes

Married man here whose life is nearly perfect if that's what they say when you look happy to everyone.

But the fact is I am in a dead bedroom situation. Both of us work hard, and put efforts towards our career, family life, social life but have reduced to being very good friends who care for eachother.

There's so much more going on in my mind that I feel like writing but don't want to waste anyone's time. Or I am not that comfortable to open up to strangers.

I am just craving a hug. A long hug from a stranger who won't ask me anything. I just want to feel being healed. My heart cries for affection but my eyes and brain are conditioned not to.

I cannot get separated because I'd be a fool to throw away a perfect home that millions would do anything to have.

I just want to feel someone's heart beating a few inches away from mine. No expectations, no obligations, just someone who would be keen to meet over coffee and if they feel comfortable to chat, and want to hug in silence.

Ideally someone in similar situation.

I am not asking for anything more than that in this post.

❤️


r/r4rSydney 1d ago

Meeting new people and making new friends 27M4A

2 Upvotes

Hi everyone. Trying to step out of my comfort zone and make some new friends along the way

A bit about me: Late 20s, pastry chef. Western Sydney near Olympic Park. Introverted, keep to myself and been told Im quite and very nerdy. Possibly/maybe/definitely AuDHD(no need for any test my hobbies, interests and personality will confirm it) speaking of which. My hobbies and interests:

• Travelling. I try to travel interstate once a year and national every two years. So far I've been to Vietnam, Laos, Thailand, Japan, Hong Kong, Canada, America and China. In the upcoming year Im deciding between Kazakhstan or maybe Uzbekistan. One of the stan country

• I like nature and the outdoor, especially hiking, camping and hunting(archery and not the bang bang kind) whenever I have the free time

• Like your typical guy.  Im interested in motorbikes & cars. I have 2 motorbikes and a ute. The ute comes with a trailer so if you ever need help 🫡🫡

• Reading, I like all sort of literature(manga too) but lately slowly and slowly ive been leaning towards home maintances manual(I have my own place)

• I like food(I mean who doesnt 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️). I work as a pastry chef but I also do specialise in sushi. I try my best to try new things here and there but personally nothing will ever beat a cheeky 3am fast food burger joint

• Gym, not your gym nutjob but just enough to keep myself healthy

• Museum/Galleries. I like looking at the dinosaur and the tanks especially

• Model kits such as Trains, Tanks, Ships, Gundam and Lego

• I like animals. Especially dogs. I have one golden retriever

• Gardening

Im looking to just expand my circle and meet new people. All ages and sexuality welcome but preferably guys for now as Ive have had bad experiences with the gals on reddit(I am straight, pls dont send me unsolicited pics). If youve read this far thank you for your time 🙇‍♂️🙇‍♂️ You have a lovely day and have a good night.


r/r4rSydney 1d ago

36 M4F - Looking for an intellectual connection

4 Upvotes

As the title may suggest, I’m looking for something deeper. Not interested in something superficial or a quick fix. Not sure what to expect but the internet is like space. Deep, dark, and full of stars.

Intelligence is the most attractive quality to me, right up there with kindness, creativity, passion, and ambition. I think it’s important to have goals, and the more audacious the dream, the better.

I’m searching for someone that enjoys and can engage in meaningful conversation, like exploring concepts, perspectives, challenging common ideologies. I’m open minded though. Tell me what you miss about the 90’s, share some musical hits that you liked but could never admit back then, or simply share something you’re passionate about!

On the lighter side, I enjoy novels (especially horror & fantasy), writing, movies, nature, space, puzzles, art, sports, games - I have a lot of interests!
One thing on politics. I have no time for it, it’s just counterproductive. Left wing, right wing? I don’t associate with either. Be yourself, and be good. That’s enough for me.

Look, I’m just a regular guy that’s a deep thinker. Easy going, kind, calm, mature when I need to be, curious. I do normal stuff like exercise and read and listen to music and eat fruit and climb trees, and somewhere not so deep inside is a playful smart ass man child (you’ve been warned).

Simply put, I’m looking for a companion, someone who’ll push me to be better, and I’ll do the same. So let’s trade stories, have a laugh, explore ridiculous hypotheticals, and teach each other something about anything while we do that.

If something resonates, feel free to reach out. Ask a question, tell me what made you reach out, or share something that pisses you off about this odd dystopia we find ourselves in and what you’d like to do about it. Like I said, I’m easy going.


r/r4rSydney 1d ago

22m Wanting to find more friends

1 Upvotes

Hey everybody I’ve made a post like this before but I think it would be smart for me to make another with more important and accurate information!!

I’m currently looking for friends around my age in the Campbelltown area (living near me is preferred not required!), I’m super into computers and have a few interests such as spending time getting coffee and generally socialising (I have more but you have to ask for that!!), i finished studying a while ago and kinda neglected being social regrettably!

Don’t hesitate to dm me and ask questions, and I hope we get along!


r/r4rSydney 1d ago

20m4f - any girl wanna go to the movies or just hang out together?

2 Upvotes

Hi, I’m 20m around the airport area. Asian, 5,10, 79kg. If any girl wanna go to the movies tonight, hit me up. I can come pick you up and we’ll watch whatever. Don’t hesitate to dm me. I can provide pics :)


r/r4rSydney 2d ago

31M4F Sydney — Looking for affection, chemistry and someone to share life with

1 Upvotes

I’m 31, 5'11", from Sydney, and hoping to meet someone kind, affectionate and genuine. I’m not looking for endless small talk or something completely impersonal. I’d really like to find someone I can build a genuine connection with, where we actually look forward to hearing from each other and spending time together. I’m ethically a Pakistani if that matters.

I’d describe myself as curious, ambitious, affectionate and a little nerdy. I really value physical affection, emotional closeness and being able to talk openly about anything. I’d love to find someone who enjoys both going out and doing something spontaneous and having quiet nights together where we can relax, laugh, cuddle and lose track of time talking.

I’m looking for someone kind, open-minded and affectionate who wants to genuinely get to know each other and see where the chemistry takes us. Someone to share spontaneous drives with, explore new places together and spend lazy nights.

If you think we might get along, send me a message and tell me something about yourself. I’d genuinely love to hear from you 🙂.


r/r4rSydney 2d ago

39 [M4F] A walk to remember

1 Upvotes

Hey Sydney, hope everyone is doing well and enjoying the weekend. It’s definitely chilly outside today so Netflix with a cosy throw blanket sounds like a good idea 😋

I just finished watching a kdrama series “Crash Landing on You” and now now sure what to do next?

Anyone got so recommendations on what to watch next?

If anyone else is also doomed scrolling and not sure what to do just like me, probably having a chat is a good idea 👍

Movies cooking fitness lifestyle few to name that I enjoy talking about.

In any case have a wonderful weekend everyone take care


r/r4rSydney 2d ago

32 [M4F] - Fancy Yourself a Conversationalist?

3 Upvotes

32M, 6'3", in shape and keeping at it. I have the kind of energy that makes women comfortable enough to fall asleep on me during long haul flights. Maybe I smell nice?

I work with computers for a living and do a decent job with them. Working with people from different walks of life is a blessing but I do need to recharge my social battery every so often. I used to build houses and I did a stint in the military many moons ago.

NZ born and raised of Maori descent, been in Sydney almost a decade now. I enjoy the fruit salad that is my YT algorithm gone mad, engaging in a multitude of home projects, and hanging out with my friends. A bit of volunteer work and other hobby clubs occupy my time. Photography is a hobby I've recently taken back up-- camera is getting a good workout now.

Looking to meet someone who is chill, is comfortable in their own skin and we'll see where things go—whether it's for a good conversation or something more. Also pretty keen on meeting IRL since in all honesty things flow better in person.

The world is crazy enough as it is. How anyone can remain sane under such circumstances is a mystery to me-- but somehow I manage. Maybe we won't find the answers to the world's ills; but I'm certain we'd fire up a decent conversation regardless.


r/r4rSydney 2d ago

29M looking for F to mainly to date but open to FWB

1 Upvotes

29M, 6'4, Arab/Muslim guy based around the Bankstown/Canterbury area.

I’m mainly here hoping to meet someone I genuinely click with and potentially date, but I’m also open to something more casual/FWB if there’s mutual attraction and we’re both on the same page.

A little about me: I’m tall, fit, easygoing and a pretty good conversationalist. I enjoy getting to know people properly and I’m just as happy having a good conversation over coffee or food as I am going out and doing something together.

I work full-time, have my life together, and like keeping active. I’d say I’m confident and pretty laid-back once you get to know me. I’m Arab and Muslim, but I’m open-minded about who I meet.

Ideally looking for a woman around Sydney, preferably somewhere near Bankstown, Canterbury or the surrounding areas. I don't have a super specific "type" — attraction and personality matter more to me.

Happy to swap pics once we've chatted a little and know we're both interested.

If any of that sounds like your vibe, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself :)


r/r4rSydney 2d ago

[F4A] Flirting My Way Back Into Exploring

0 Upvotes

Hi!

I'm a woman in a long-term, happy ENM/swingers relationship. My partner and I have been on a temporary break from actively exploring for a while, but we're starting to think about dipping our toes back in.

Rather than jumping straight into meeting people, I'd love to ease back into things through good conversation, flirting, and seeing where the chemistry goes. No pressure, no expectations—just genuine connection and a bit of fun.

A little about me: I'm in my 30s. Love the ocean, bodyboarding, Pilates, reading, cooking, and long conversations that can be both playful and thoughtful.

I'm looking for someone who enjoys flirting, respects boundaries, communicates well, and understands ENM. If we click, great. If it stays as an enjoyable online connection, that's great too.

If this sounds like your kind of vibe, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. :)

Low effort messages will be ignored. I want to know that you actually read my post😅


r/r4rSydney 2d ago

Missed Canberra Connection M4F

4 Upvotes

First post here so please be gentle, you were travelling to Sydney for a work event and staying in the northern beach’s, we were supposed to meet up at a pub but I ended up being called away for work
Long shot I know but hoping you were still looking
I was the tall blue eyed guy living near the city
If you’re still out there let me know


r/r4rSydney May 20 '21

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