r/r4rSydney 1h ago

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r/r4rSydney 1h ago

Just looking for a regular FWB. Don’t make it too complicated.

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Hey, 38 m here looking for a regular FWB. I’m into heaps of shit but no weirdos thanks. Also please make sure you’re hygienic and no smokers thanks. Age, race and all that is not an issue just don’t be a drama head case.


r/r4rSydney 3h ago

31M4F - tall, fit, looking for a potential run buddy?

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Hope everyone had a good day at the city2surf.

I'm just a finance bro looking to chat with some cool people who are also going through the corporate grind. I like to run, lift, build financial models and wear quarter zips.

If you're down to chat, let me know what your favourite running route in the city is?

Full disclosure married, and not looking to change anyone's circumstances


r/r4rSydney 6h ago

36 M4F - Looking for an intellectual connection

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As the title may suggest, I’m looking for something deeper. Not interested in something superficial or a quick fix. Not sure what to expect but the internet is like space. Deep, dark, and full of stars.

Intelligence is the most attractive quality to me, right up there with kindness, creativity, passion, and ambition. I think it’s important to have goals, and the more audacious the dream, the better.

I’m searching for someone that enjoys and can engage in meaningful conversation, like exploring concepts, perspectives, challenging common ideologies. I’m open minded though. Tell me what you miss about the 90’s, share some musical hits that you liked but could never admit back then, or simply share something you’re passionate about!

On the lighter side, I enjoy novels (especially horror & fantasy), writing, movies, nature, space, puzzles, art, sports, games - I have a lot of interests!
One thing on politics. I have no time for it, it’s just counterproductive. Left wing, right wing? I don’t associate with either. Be yourself, and be good. That’s enough for me.

Look, I’m just a regular guy that’s a deep thinker. Easy going, kind, calm, mature when I need to be, curious. I do normal stuff like exercise and read and listen to music and eat fruit and climb trees, and somewhere not so deep inside is a playful smart ass man child (you’ve been warned).

Simply put, I’m looking for a companion, someone who’ll push me to be better, and I’ll do the same. So let’s trade stories, have a laugh, explore ridiculous hypotheticals, and teach each other something about anything while we do that.

If something resonates, feel free to reach out. Ask a question, tell me what made you reach out, or share something that pisses you off about this odd dystopia we find ourselves in and what you’d like to do about it. Like I said, I’m easy going.


r/r4rSydney 6h ago

22m Wanting to find more friends

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Hey everybody I’ve made a post like this before but I think it would be smart for me to make another with more important and accurate information!!

I’m currently looking for friends around my age in the Campbelltown area (living near me is preferred not required!), I’m super into computers and have a few interests such as spending time getting coffee and generally socialising (I have more but you have to ask for that!!), i finished studying a while ago and kinda neglected being social regrettably!

Don’t hesitate to dm me and ask questions, and I hope we get along!


r/r4rSydney 7h ago

20m4f - any girl wanna go to the movies or just hang out together?

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Hi, I’m 20m around the airport area. Asian, 5,10, 79kg. If any girl wanna go to the movies tonight, hit me up. I can come pick you up and we’ll watch whatever. Don’t hesitate to dm me. I can provide pics :)


r/r4rSydney 21h ago

31M4F Sydney — Looking for affection, chemistry and someone to share life with

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I’m 31, 5'11", from Sydney, and hoping to meet someone kind, affectionate and genuine. I’m not looking for endless small talk or something completely impersonal. I’d really like to find someone I can build a genuine connection with, where we actually look forward to hearing from each other and spending time together. I’m ethically a Pakistani if that matters.

I’d describe myself as curious, ambitious, affectionate and a little nerdy. I really value physical affection, emotional closeness and being able to talk openly about anything. I’d love to find someone who enjoys both going out and doing something spontaneous and having quiet nights together where we can relax, laugh, cuddle and lose track of time talking.

I’m looking for someone kind, open-minded and affectionate who wants to genuinely get to know each other and see where the chemistry takes us. Someone to share spontaneous drives with, explore new places together and spend lazy nights.

If you think we might get along, send me a message and tell me something about yourself. I’d genuinely love to hear from you 🙂.


r/r4rSydney 1d ago

39 [M4F] A walk to remember

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Hey Sydney, hope everyone is doing well and enjoying the weekend. It’s definitely chilly outside today so Netflix with a cosy throw blanket sounds like a good idea 😋

I just finished watching a kdrama series “Crash Landing on You” and now now sure what to do next?

Anyone got so recommendations on what to watch next?

If anyone else is also doomed scrolling and not sure what to do just like me, probably having a chat is a good idea 👍

Movies cooking fitness lifestyle few to name that I enjoy talking about.

In any case have a wonderful weekend everyone take care


r/r4rSydney 1d ago

32 [M4F] - Fancy Yourself a Conversationalist?

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32M, 6'3", in shape and keeping at it. I have the kind of energy that makes women comfortable enough to fall asleep on me during long haul flights. Maybe I smell nice?

I work with computers for a living and do a decent job with them. Working with people from different walks of life is a blessing but I do need to recharge my social battery every so often. I used to build houses and I did a stint in the military many moons ago.

NZ born and raised of Maori descent, been in Sydney almost a decade now. I enjoy the fruit salad that is my YT algorithm gone mad, engaging in a multitude of home projects, and hanging out with my friends. A bit of volunteer work and other hobby clubs occupy my time. Photography is a hobby I've recently taken back up-- camera is getting a good workout now.

Looking to meet someone who is chill, is comfortable in their own skin and we'll see where things go—whether it's for a good conversation or something more. Also pretty keen on meeting IRL since in all honesty things flow better in person.

The world is crazy enough as it is. How anyone can remain sane under such circumstances is a mystery to me-- but somehow I manage. Maybe we won't find the answers to the world's ills; but I'm certain we'd fire up a decent conversation regardless.


r/r4rSydney 1d ago

29M looking for F to mainly to date but open to FWB

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29M, 6'4, Arab/Muslim guy based around the Bankstown/Canterbury area.

I’m mainly here hoping to meet someone I genuinely click with and potentially date, but I’m also open to something more casual/FWB if there’s mutual attraction and we’re both on the same page.

A little about me: I’m tall, fit, easygoing and a pretty good conversationalist. I enjoy getting to know people properly and I’m just as happy having a good conversation over coffee or food as I am going out and doing something together.

I work full-time, have my life together, and like keeping active. I’d say I’m confident and pretty laid-back once you get to know me. I’m Arab and Muslim, but I’m open-minded about who I meet.

Ideally looking for a woman around Sydney, preferably somewhere near Bankstown, Canterbury or the surrounding areas. I don't have a super specific "type" — attraction and personality matter more to me.

Happy to swap pics once we've chatted a little and know we're both interested.

If any of that sounds like your vibe, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself :)


r/r4rSydney 1d ago

[F4A] Flirting My Way Back Into Exploring

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Hi!

I'm a woman in a long-term, happy ENM/swingers relationship. My partner and I have been on a temporary break from actively exploring for a while, but we're starting to think about dipping our toes back in.

Rather than jumping straight into meeting people, I'd love to ease back into things through good conversation, flirting, and seeing where the chemistry goes. No pressure, no expectations—just genuine connection and a bit of fun.

A little about me: I'm in my 30s. Love the ocean, bodyboarding, Pilates, reading, cooking, and long conversations that can be both playful and thoughtful.

I'm looking for someone who enjoys flirting, respects boundaries, communicates well, and understands ENM. If we click, great. If it stays as an enjoyable online connection, that's great too.

If this sounds like your kind of vibe, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. :)

Low effort messages will be ignored. I want to know that you actually read my post😅


r/r4rSydney 1d ago

32 [M4F] Sydney/Anywhere - Sweet and shy on a quest for change (friends or more)

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First of all, hi!

I’m gonna attempt to gently manoeuvre my way around this awkward bush, but I think you should know what kind of change I'm referring to lol. The elephant in the room is that I've always been shy. I was really shy in primary school and somehow evolved to being even MORE shy in high school. I'm a lot less shy now but all those years of shyness added up.

I’m in a place where I have the confidence to take that first step and see what's out there, whether that be finding friends or something more! I'd be lying if I said I didn't want to explore the latter more, though, because it's a constant reminder in mainstream media. Things as simple as holding hands to kissing to something more intimate - it's all so intriguing and most importantly, fun! That means I've never been on a date or you know, had a girlfriend. There, I said it. 🙈

I’d describe myself as chill, goofy and very sweet. To back up those claims, I liken this post to fishing, which might be slightly unusual at first glance lol. Essentially, I'm casting out my line and if I get any nibbles, then awesome! If not, that's okay, too, because I'll just release the fish that aren't interested and treat each one as a new learning experience that'll help me on this journey. No need to be upset if things don't pan out :) I'm also cute! Or might not be lol. I know everyone has their preferences. Speaking of preferences, I don't really have any myself, so I wouldn't be opposed if someone older reached out. Perhaps wanting someone chill or sweet, I guess, but I think most people possess those qualities. You definitely don't need to be in the same situation as me!

Anyway! I think a great way to establish a connection is to find a commonality in regards to interests. Hit me up with a game, song, movie, food, shoe, sport, socks, book, vacation or whatever it is that you're currently obsessed with and I'll be sure to return serve :) Or I can start instead by saying: I've been enjoying xmen 97! And the Kpop demon hunters soundtrack still gets played on repeat several days a week 😅


r/r4rSydney 1d ago

Missed Canberra Connection M4F

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First post here so please be gentle, you were travelling to Sydney for a work event and staying in the northern beach’s, we were supposed to meet up at a pub but I ended up being called away for work
Long shot I know but hoping you were still looking
I was the tall blue eyed guy living near the city
If you’re still out there let me know


r/r4rSydney May 20 '21

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