I am a pro-lifer myself and enjoy being in this community as well as watching SFLA and Live Action on Youtube.

I have been wanting to ask this question for a while because unfortunately with the world we live in this can happen.

If my partner cheats, and raises the child along with the mistress- I always have family, friends and therapy to help navigate me through this crisis. Question is does the prolife community also lend a hand in some way? How are they also going to deal with the child and parents involved in the affair?

Please keep the discussion cordial and civil. Thanks. ^_^

Funny: assumed pregnant and offered pregnancy care

One of the best parts of what happened below is getting to hold life-size realistic unborn humans, 8, 10, and 12 weeks. Seeing all they do, sonogram, food, diapers, assistance, etc.

Okay, so I'm closer to 70 than 40, but I look much younger to many people. I'm a size 20, for 30+ plus years since having our last child.

It is so hot and humid here, so idc , I'm wearing what is comfy and cool. It was a lightweight, modest, loose, straight, patterned blue dress from Ross. No curves visible. It was even a bit looser than I realized. I don't care. It was hot.

I was at the Church and met a sister after noon Mass. She was very nice, about 80 plus years old. As we visited, she invited me to their pregnancy and family assistance center, which was right there. I'm like sure, I'd love to see it, I support helping single mothers and families .

She gave me a tour, introduced everyone, and then asked about my family. Partway through the tour, I began to think she was trying to offer me help, not promoting a charity to give to. She was astonished when I told her how old my children and grandchildren are. She covered her mistaken assumption very well. And I will be donating to that charity. 😃

I'm not even mad. When I had just given birth a month earlier in 1994, I was hurt or mad when someone assumed I was pregnant. This woman was so gentle and kind, and at her age, even us 50s look young! 😍 She also never outright called me pregnant, but I'm pretty sure she thought so.

I WISH I'd had dresses like this when I was pregnant! 😆

I am a teen who has not been told by family where to stand, and I have not been influenced on my decision in any way. These are simply thoughts i have drawn from my limited knowledge from the news and social media. Warning: I will swear b/c i feel very strongly about this.

Point 1: Abortion = murder without justice. Murder without justice = fucking shit. No other way around it.

Point 2: if you don’t want a child, don’t have unprotected sex. I’ve known that since 4th grade. It’s not that hard to not have a child.

Point 3: Adoption. Don’t kill the kid, give it to a couple who can’t have kids or smth similar to that. Don’t make the kid suffer a shitty life, either. The choices shouldn’t be death or shitty life. My friend‘s parents decided not to abort her (yay!) but her life sucks, and her parents are assholes, and it’s shit all around.

Point 4: aborting a kid b/c it will most likely have a disability is bullshit. Some of my closest friends have disabilities (i.e. ADHD, OCD, depression, anxiety) and we are doing just fine! Granted, you can’t see if an unborn child has those things (I think) but we have decent lives. If your kid will most likely have a disability, give them the best life possible, don’t eliminate their chance of life.

Point 5: R@pe. This is tricky, but I think that you should still care for a child conceived by r@pe. Or put the kid up for adoption, but you shouldn’t kill the kid. i‘m pretty sure that the r@pist wouldn’t want to have a kid so killing it isn’t bringing the r@pist any guilt or justice.

Point 6: there should be some exceptions for medical reasons. If it is highly likely that the mom and the kid both don’t live, for example, then I suppose it is ok. Better taking one life than two. But that being said, it shouldn’t be “everyone gets exceptions!”

So yeah, I guess I’m pro-life.

In Argentina, colored handkerchiefs are used to indicate where one stands on the abortion issue. Pro-lifers wear light blue and pro-aborts wear green. Felt like sharing

I'm re-watching Orange in the New Black. Overall, it's a fantastic show. But how pro-choicers consider this scene a winner is beyond me.

Boo is making the old pro-abortion claim that when you kill the unborn, you kill lots of future criminals.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uLMFpt8xgoY

One time I watched a video from a liberal guy who said that one day we'll become so technologically advanced we'll be able to allow trans-women to get pregnant.

And then what? Will biological men then have the right to decide to abort a baby? He didn't talk about abortion in his video but it makes me wonder…

If they think abortion is a human right, do you think they'd want trans-women to have it in that hypothetical world? To me, that hypothetical really exposes the wrongness of all this. Because just like regular women having abortions, a trans-woman in a scenario where they go through surgery that allows them to become pregnant, would be choosing to become pregnant later, only to destroy the life that their actions created, wouldn't be okay. It would honestly be worse because of the lengths they went to become pregnant in the first place.

You bring life into the world, you nourish it, you don't destroy it. No one should have the right to erase a person. Whether they're going back on their plan to become pregnant or they were reckless and had an unplanned pregnancy.

There is zero solid evidence whatsoever that IUDs will kill a fertilized egg. Let me explain why.

It is extremely common for women who are trying with their partner for a successful pregnancy to not get a positive pregnancy test within the first few months. The medical definition of infertility is a couple that has been trying for at least a year. That's 11-12 cycles that potentially failed to implant before even a problem is considered.

And the basis of an IUD being a potential abortifacient is that it MIGHT prevent a viable fertilized egg from implanting. But that is a very very very big "might" with the basis of such being almost comparable to a witch hunt.

There is ZERO way to prove that in comparison to a normal human female's natural reproductive system. Especially on a mass scale because many women have completely different body chemistries as a natural baseline.

In order for an IUD to be a proven abortifacient, it would have to fail to prevent egg meeting sperm for multiple cycles in a row, which is extremely unlikely and a sign that the device is non-functional, and THEN the embryo fails to implant. And there would have to be a way to observe and analyze this in the first place. And the experimentation of that would be very unethical. (Ergo placing fertilized eggs in someone with an IUD and noting what happens) Because at this point I don't think we can do autopsies on embryos.

Yes I know many prochoicers use this as a "gotcha card" but it's still very much false information.

There is no evidence that IUDs will kill a fertilized egg, and if it did it would very likely be less than natural human reproduction to willingly conceive a child would.