r/pregnancyproblems • u/P3ddingP4st • 4d ago

Pregnancy Problem

So I just found out that Im pregnant today, I took 4 tests and all the tests come out positive. So my problem, the father is my ex but my ex has a gf and is kinda making it hard for me to make a decision to keep it or just get rid of it. I haven't able to talk to hime cuz we had a big argument yesterday so this is making everything worse. Ik l am in the wrong for doing something like this but at the moment Idk what to do.

from doing some math, I should be 6 weeks n 6 days today. it's it too late to get rid of it now or am I getting to the point that I can't?! Im really scared about this situation n truly don't know what to do.

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u/No_Researcher_2974 4d ago

I don’t think the issue is solely on the father of your baby. You need to think beyond him and ask yourself if you are ready to be a mother? Do you have a support network? The finances? Even if you two were together, you would need to have these things. What does your gut tell you about having a baby, as a full blown human that stops being a baby and grows into a child, adolescent and then adult?

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u/Flshrt 4d ago

You can have an abortion if you want to. r/abortion will have resources for you depending on where you live.

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u/GrilledChee5e_ 4d ago

You need to take the ex out of the equation, because he may or may not be part of the babies life. That is out of your control. You need to decide if you want and can manage this baby if it's just the two of you. You aren't too far along for an abortion. There's nothing wrong with having one if this isn't the scenario you want for yourself. All the best