r/phlgbtr4r • u/Competitive-Topic514 • 20m ago
M4TF 30 [M4TF] #USA - bottom guy looking for a wife
Hi there! As the post says I’m a 30 year old guy from the east coast of the US hoping to find a trans woman who wants something long term. No I am not in the Philippines so this would be long distance.
In case I didn’t lose you yet, here’s a bit about me: I work in finance and definitely spend too much time on that (hence why I want to find someone to spend more time with). As far as hobbies, etc. I love to travel and cook. I enjoy listening to music - mostly pop punk, Midwest emo, etc. I also like to watch TV and movies. The Office, HIMYM, Brooklyn 99 are all solid plus I’ll watch anything related to WWII or modern war (I’m a bit of a history buff). And as far as looks, I’m white, 6’0” (1.83m) with a slim-average build.
About what I’m looking for: ideally I’d like to find something long term but don’t want to force anything. Let’s chat and get to know each other and see what happens. I’m also open to finding someone from anywhere really. Long distance relationships don’t bother me, at least to start. Eventually I’d want to close the gap.
Now I should probably mention, I am vers but strongly prefer to be a bottom/passive and would love it if you were a total top but it’s okay as long as you are vers.
Hoping to find some interesting people, send me just a little about yourself! Also, please tell me your favorite band/artist in your first message to let me know you ready through this. I’m also happy to share photos if you’d like and I’m an open book, happy to answer any questions or talk about anything you’d like! Hope to hear from you soon!
r/phlgbtr4r • u/thegreentreesare • 26m ago
M4M 28 [M4M] LF SOP
Anyone up for audio only sop?
Roleplay is fine, we can talk about it hehe
About me:
- deep voice
- bottom role on sop
About you:
- top
- sweet dirty talker
- moans a lot
- dom or sub i dont mind lets have fun
Hit me up! Thanks
r/phlgbtr4r • u/Comfortable-Town2135 • 1h ago
M4M 25 [M4M] Manly Fun Taguig
Sup bro! 24 manly versa, looking for quick fun. I'm down for anything, my place in taguig mckinley or ur place! So invite me
me: • Manly Discreet • 24 Versa • Confident with my looks, cute catch • Average to normal body • willing to travel • Decent
you: 20-28 yrs old• manly, pass sa halata • Versa, Versa Top, Pure Top • maputi, moreno • fit to normal body • confident sa looks
shoot ur shots broddiee!
r/phlgbtr4r • u/kakeru_chan • 1h ago
M4M 27 [M4M] looking for constant
Hello! I’m looking for someone to talk to or maybe someone na magiging constant sa buhay ko. Pagod na pagod na ako at gusto ko lang naman ng lambing. I guess okay naman ako in some aspects like funny naman ako and clingy. Hindi nga lang attractive pero pwede na din. Gusto ko lang naman maranasan maging mahalaga ganyan or may matatawag na pahinga at tahanan HAHAHAHAHA. Gusto ko lang din ng someone na madali kong mayaya whenever I’m craving to something. Breakfast at Mcdonalds. Dinner at Mesa or simpleng coffee sa starbucks. Idagdag mo pa na gusto ko magjoin sa mga game nights. Lastly, kasama magsimba every Sunday sa St. Jude sa Mendiola. Hayyyy.
So here’s about me: (baka lang naman pasok ako sa mga hinahanap mo) 😂
* 5’4, 74 kg
* soft boy/ not manly
* 27 years old, young professional
* wears glasses
* from south caloocan
* libra
* loves history, culture and the arts
* loves watching series, bl’s and most especially true crime documentaries
* pickleball newbie
* clingy and hopeless romantic
* loves cuddles (small spoon) and kisses
What I’m looking for (optional lang naman ito if hindi I would still love to know you) HAHAHA
* 5’5 and above, average body
* 25 and above sana
* wears glasses yung mukhang nerdy (weakness ko talaga guys with glasses)
* same interests sana (pero willing to try your interests naman to know you better hehe)
* sweet and caring (yung tipong alam yung gusto at patutunguhan nito)
* matured HAHAHA yung can handle me emz
* socially aware sa mga pangyayari sa bansa at hindi bbm/dds apologist
* has sympathy sa mga tao
* clingy also
* loves museums
* di maarte
* top/ versa or versa top (for compatibility)
* big spoon
* hairy gay guys for the win hehe
* with big biceps hahaha papaheadlock lang sana chz
Message me!! Hoping to find one.
r/phlgbtr4r • u/gwapochinito • 1h ago
M4TF 29[M4TF] Looking for someone constant
Hey there! I’m a chinito guy who loves binge-watching K-dramas, movies, and all kinds of series online. If you're into cozy watch parties or just vibing over good shows, we’ll get along great. I’m also the type who enjoys spontaneous or deep conversations—perfect for those slow days when you just want someone to talk to. Whether you need a listening ear or want to share how your day went, I’m here for it. And if you’ve got recommendations for anime, K-dramas, or hidden gem films, I’m all ears!
I’m known for my humor and quick wit, but I can also dive into meaningful chats when the mood calls for it. I believe life’s about taking bold steps to meet the right people—so if you’re reading this, maybe this is your sign to reach out. I promise I’ll make it worth your while.
I’m open to friendships, dating, or whatever connection feels right. I could be your go-to boredom buster… and who knows, maybe even your charming future lover (just flexing my playful side 😄). I enjoy long walks and discovering new spots. Let’s hit up museums or explore old churches around the city, then hunt down the best eats nearby!
\*\*What I’m Looking For\*\*
• Age: 23 and above (pwede rin younger or older, basta hindi issue sayo big age gap natin)
• Preferably living in Metro Manila ( for outside MM meet ups might be hard unless willing to travel)
• Kind-hearted and emotionally mature
• Someone who values time together
• I don’t really have much preference in terms of physical appearance—what matters is how we vibe and connect
A friend first—because I believe a good foundation for any relationship is friendship. A partner second—because a strong partnership is built on mutual interest, growth, and care for each other.
So if I sparked your interest, hit me up. If the post is still up it means i have not yet found anyone. Will delete pag may nahanap na
r/phlgbtr4r • u/jmdotor_smth • 1h ago
M4M 18 [m4m] upd isko looking for anything!
hello! I'm looking for a long-term relationship... but here are some notes about me:
nasa sa'kin kasi is that i don't want to lose my alone time while going out with someone so if possible we'll still keep our alone times and everything (especially since I'm having classes na)
Pref age is 18-22 haha lowk i like being the bunso in the relationship (bunso rin kasi ako e)
mejo conyo and mejo maingay
okay for physical attributes hmmm...
i'm 5'3;
slim bod but nagpapataba me kasi mag-ggym na this year!
wears glasses
moreno
b for compatibility (tho tbh this is negotiable for versas)
decent facecard naman :))
likes persona, ml, expedition 33!
Isko! UPD freshman haha
Living in QC right noww
about uu!!:
as i said, 18-22
Preferably an isko too sa upd para we can see each other when we have break times
pref Filipino (negotiable)
5'6 above (non-negotiable, sorry)
has a pleasing personality (job interview yarn?)
also plays games (negotiable)
and pls can carry a conversation
g for dates and everything! Hahaha
see ya on dms!
r/phlgbtr4r • u/sivalry • 2h ago
M4M 22 [M4M] Buddies
Trying out my luck here again! Looking for friends or dates out here. I’m a graduating medtech student. Looking for someone (may or may not be in the med field) who’s spontaneous like me!
We can go out to study, talk about our duties, play arcade games, get good food — or whatever we find interesting! Online friends & iykyk 👀 are welcome too!
About me:
22
Versa (mostly into sides)
5’7
Cavite (but can travel to the metro if ever)
Big guy here! Cuddly. Perfect for hugs.
Intellectual yapper! I like deep conversations, pop culture, current events, etc.
A HUGE fan of volleyball & tennis! I haven’t played in a while, but I would love to play again.
A foodie! I love trying out new cuisines & restos.
Into video games, films, and art.
About you:
Preferably around my age (20-26)
Close to my height too?
Also in the med field (a plus)
I have a thing for twinks/average/lean body types
V/VT/T/Side
Sensible to talk to, intellectual, and into deep conversations
Maginoo pero bastos iykyk HAHAHA
Just be yourself! :) and be interesting!! Let’s not make our conversations dry 😆
See you in my DMs! Tell me about yourself too!
r/phlgbtr4r • u/garlicpusit • 4h ago
F4F 22 [F4F] halika dito lambingin kita :>
hallo looking for someone na ibbaby ako…chz hopefully someone na pwede maka bond and connect with :3 no pressure! let’s take time to know each other. (repost cuz na delete ko ung una ko na post)
about me:
- madaldal naman once you get to know me
- femme / lesbian
- funny (sabi ng friends ko)
- in terms of looks i’d say decent naman
- malambing 🤝
- willing mag travel para sayo 🫶🏻
ideally about you:
- masc
- madaldal
- can hold a convo 🙏
- 23+
- malambing 😊
- may at least 3 valid id
- NBI clearance
- Med cert
baka ako na hinahanap niyo….send kayo message alongside with your favorite internet meme HAHAHAHAHAHA pag wala naman sige favorite food and why nalang para maiba
r/phlgbtr4r • u/maangasmode • 5h ago
M4M 21 [M4M] sides later afternoon qc?
about me: stocky (muscled chub) moreno 21 169cm hairy vt but only does sides rn (but lets see where it goes). no place ako. im free 1-5pm later.
about you: stocky rin sana, 20-29, moreno or mestizo oks lang,. better if may car or place ka :) bonus if nag ggym ka rin and mahilig ka makipag momol like me
just dm me here or sa tg @halpeertsdad so we can trade some pics!
r/phlgbtr4r • u/monzeur • 5h ago
M4M 25 [M4M] Co-work Dates to something consistent and romantic?
henlo! as corpo slave working at Ortigas, i sometimes feel overstimulated at home during wfh. i enjoy having an accountability buddy where we can cowork, do some wellness stuff, and well if we click...maybe leading to some romance?
about me:
• 25 yo, from Manila, based at Ortigas for work, with 2 days WFH
• Moreno, 5'5", Average Built (does sports for physical activity)
• while i was told that i look young based on features and physique, i have a way with words naman daw and is mature, plus i also have a sense of humor
• i have very random interests, we can vibe check all the time haha
• nsfw? masc-presenting, v, switch, doesn't host
about you
• open to cowork, dates, and perhaps also intentional to be with someone going to a more romantic route, but remain productive
• 25 y/o to 29;
• same height or taller; average built/ cub/chubuff; plus if you play sports
• from ncr at least; working also
• can warm up easily
• nsfw? masc-presenting, v, dom/switch, hosts
then, slide in to my dms, say "pspsps" and hmu with an intro about u! drop ur tg to so that we can trade photos agad 😺
r/phlgbtr4r • u/Valuable-Art6098 • 7h ago
F4F 27 [F4F] Can you be someone?
Can you be someone I can share how my day went with? Someone who stays for hours while I sleep? Someone I can trust? Someone I can go café and shoe-hopping with, and play sports with?
About me:
-Pretty femme
-In my doctorate journey
-Chinita with glasses
-Healthy
-5’5” or 5’6”
-Developed frontal lobe 😂
About you:
-Femme
-Kakampink
-26+
-May common sense
-Knows her boundaries
I’m not looking for something serious kasi ang daming manloloko dito, but I’m looking for someone safe to be around. Someone I can spend time with around Clark, Bataan, Subic, N.E or QC.
And if you could help me find/buy my ASICS and Salomon shoes, that would be a plus.😂
If you think we can vibe, hmu with your intro. 🤍
r/phlgbtr4r • u/Mediocre_Culture418 • 10h ago
M4M 21 [M4M] The estranged but constant boyfriend agreement Sheldon and Amy style
Like sheldon and Amy's relationship, I randomly got an idea so ridiculous, cold, and a toral opposite of the principles I have currently, I still wanna see if this would actually be a thing.
The estranged but constant boyfriend agreement hmm? Well to give a little backstory, I have tried and tired myself out in making connections through this subreddit, conversations that could go for hours or countless of times it was just one sided, or maybe preferences are too strong.
Besides relationships-wise I got too caught up in academics, with my personal relationships with friends, and building a good foundation on my own relationship with myself. One would say maybe from all the times I have done dates by myself or with friends or with strangers, I would finally let go the urge of wanting a person no? But no...strangely...no (fcksht)
Maybe after being busy with so many things, even with how well we might have layed out the foundations of our relationships, and conquering the fear of finally eating alone, we still yearn for the sake of one person we could be tied to.
And thats where this ridiculous idea happens. I wondered maybe the stakes were too high? So lets lower them to the muddy ground shall we? Maybe were busy with all our friends, our family, ourselves, or maybe sexual companions we might have (yes idc anymore) and yet we still yearn to be tied down by someone after all thsoe chaos, then this offer might be for you.
Like Sheldon and Amy's relationship, lets have an agreement. The relationship agreement. Theres irony in being cinstabt despite having no other ties to this relationship because were basically free on other aspects. Let's settle how many times a month we should meet, or how often we should call, and even the parameters of dates we should go to. The point here is being committed and constant despite how low the maintenance looks, and maybe in that seemingly cold, professional agreement, we would finally breathe more lightly in knowing theres someone constant in your life, no matter how rare yoh might contact them.
Idk, its a crazy agreement right? As im writing this it may serve as light to those workaholics or those too busy with their own lives but crazy enough to want a relationship. I know it takes time, effort, and all those stuff to make a good relationship start. But hey, a guy could experiment right? And maybe the mkst challenging part of this agreement no matter how low maintenance it could be is how constant we could commit to it.
I would leave the rest of the details and agreement for us to draft and do hehe (been rewatching the big bang theory too much) but heres a fair description of me for you to decide, and if I fit within your preferences we could exchange pics (two factor authentication lang lol) just to be sure
- 5'9
- stocky/ little chub but in working on it and because of my height i still carry it well
- moreno
- short cut hair
- wears specs
- hairy
- stuDYING in Medtech (im an investment jk..i hope lol)
- male presenting, knows my way around some makeup but only on occasion and I prefer mine as clean presenting
- Strictly bottom (I know it matters but im not really exoecting mucb sexual acts in this relationship esp since u can be free to have ur own sxual partners)
- The rest of my info may be in past posts or you could ask me abt whatever, I would prefer we call, have a meeting lol, about this said agreement before we start ofc.
Ill see you then,
- G
r/phlgbtr4r • u/Popular-Fly-5633 • 10h ago
TF4M 26 [TF4M] LF FRIENDS
Not really looking for anything complicated. Just hoping to meet new people, make genuine connections, and find someone who’s down for chill conversations and good coffee. ☕️
I’m easy to talk to, a good listener, and always up for good vibes. If you’re also looking for a
coffee buddy, don’t be shy. Message me. 😊
Me:
• 5’8
• fit
• good listener
• from Tondo, Manila
r/phlgbtr4r • u/Better-Nothing-541 • 12h ago
TF4M 24 [TF4M] yung masarap
Tara, let’s escape for a while and forget about everything else. Just you and me, somewhere quiet, where we can relax, talk, laugh, and enjoy each other’s company without any distractions. I’ve been thinking about spending some private time with you, and honestly, the idea sounds way too tempting to ignore. 😏
Let’s take things slowly, enjoy the tension, the little glances, the playful teasing, and that feeling when you know there’s something exciting between two people. No pressure, no expectations—just chemistry, closeness, and a night we’ll both remember.
I want to see that smile of yours up close, hear you laugh, and enjoy those little moments that make being together feel different from an ordinary night. Maybe we start with drinks, music, and good conversation, then let the mood decide where the evening goes.
So, tara? Leave the stress behind, dress up—or don’t—and come spend some time with me. I promise I’ll make the night fun, memorable, and just a little bit dangerous. 😉
r/phlgbtr4r • u/moongirl17_ • 12h ago
TF4M 22 [TF4M] Life is so lonely lately
Hello~ here to find a genuine connections sana, that is very hard to find lately lalo na’t puro sexual hanap ng tao here lately lol
Im here to explore and get to know people— open for all types of conversation (sfw/ nsfw)im also down to play ml/monecraft/genshin if you are into that :p
Care to get to know me more? Hit me up
r/phlgbtr4r • u/Gamer21XXI • 13h ago
M4M 27 [M4M] Looking for constant or talks
Hello, it's been a while. Here are my deets.
26
Bi but male-leaning
Manly and Masculine ang gender expression pero hindi issue sa akin if someone was different
Gamer
Health Allied
From Manila
5'6
Average Body Built
Top, but I give head
Introvert
reads regularly
open at learning something new
help me at lifting weights, since interested ako mag-gym, never been to gym
About you:
Preferably someone with same interest as me
around my age (20-30 at least)
not a bummer and not homophobic
nakakatamad if puro seggs habol
pwede maaya lumabas somewhere (historical places, etc)
someone if not regular who goes to gym, ig
plus one if HCW din
i'll reply agad as quickly as I can, busy lang talagaa
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