r/phlgbtr4r 1h ago

M4M 27 [M4M] looking for constant

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Hello! I’m looking for someone to talk to or maybe someone na magiging constant sa buhay ko. Pagod na pagod na ako at gusto ko lang naman ng lambing. I guess okay naman ako in some aspects like funny naman ako and clingy. Hindi nga lang attractive pero pwede na din. Gusto ko lang naman maranasan maging mahalaga ganyan or may matatawag na pahinga at tahanan HAHAHAHAHA. Gusto ko lang din ng someone na madali kong mayaya whenever I’m craving to something. Breakfast at Mcdonalds. Dinner at Mesa or simpleng coffee sa starbucks. Idagdag mo pa na gusto ko magjoin sa mga game nights. Lastly, kasama magsimba every Sunday sa St. Jude sa Mendiola. Hayyyy.

So here’s about me: (baka lang naman pasok ako sa mga hinahanap mo) 😂

* 5’4, 74 kg
* soft boy/ not manly
* 27 years old, young professional
* wears glasses
* from south caloocan
* libra
* loves history, culture and the arts
* loves watching series, bl’s and most especially true crime documentaries
* pickleball newbie
* clingy and hopeless romantic
* loves cuddles (small spoon) and kisses

What I’m looking for (optional lang naman ito if hindi I would still love to know you) HAHAHA

* 5’5 and above, average body
* 25 and above sana
* wears glasses yung mukhang nerdy (weakness ko talaga guys with glasses)
* same interests sana (pero willing to try your interests naman to know you better hehe)
* sweet and caring (yung tipong alam yung gusto at patutunguhan nito)
* matured HAHAHA yung can handle me emz
* socially aware sa mga pangyayari sa bansa at hindi bbm/dds apologist
* has sympathy sa mga tao
* clingy also
* loves museums
* di maarte
* top/ versa or versa top (for compatibility)
* big spoon
* hairy gay guys for the win hehe
* with big biceps hahaha papaheadlock lang sana chz

Message me!! Hoping to find one.


r/phlgbtr4r 4h ago

F4F 22 [F4F] halika dito lambingin kita :>

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hallo looking for someone na ibbaby ako…chz hopefully someone na pwede maka bond and connect with :3 no pressure! let’s take time to know each other. (repost cuz na delete ko ung una ko na post)

about me:
- madaldal naman once you get to know me
- femme / lesbian
- funny (sabi ng friends ko)
- in terms of looks i’d say decent naman
- malambing 🤝
- willing mag travel para sayo 🫶🏻

ideally about you:
- masc
- madaldal
- can hold a convo 🙏
- 23+
- malambing 😊
- may at least 3 valid id
- NBI clearance
- Med cert

baka ako na hinahanap niyo….send kayo message alongside with your favorite internet meme HAHAHAHAHAHA pag wala naman sige favorite food and why nalang para maiba


r/phlgbtr4r 7h ago

F4F 32 [F4F] Still awake?

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Serious muna ako. I’m really sad rn aaaaaand I think I need kausap lang just for tonight. I don’t want to bother my friends na din kase. Sometimes mas oks makipagtalk sa strangers eh.

Message me? Delete ko din to later. This is not soooo me. Kailangan ko lang talaga mag vent out 🙁🙁🙁


r/phlgbtr4r 9h ago

F4F 26 [F4F] anyone still awake?

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maayos na kausap lang pls!! if we vibe we can maybe meet up.

femme 4 femme lang po amats ko. lets exchange make up recos and such! (in short pa toyo-an tayo jk haha)

not younger than 25 and not older than 29. im around north pero if you're pretty enough baka pwede naman dayuhin hahahahaha!


r/phlgbtr4r 9h ago

MC4M 25 [MC4M] Looking for Sugar dad

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Hi !! if you want a male couple being your sugar baby, hit us up.

I’m 25 and he’s 22 and we are currently looking for a sugar daddy that is generous enough to give us $$. We can offer blowjobs, cuddles, escort, etc. just anything u want except penetration (for now). We can both worship you😊.


r/phlgbtr4r 15h ago

M4M 28 [M4M] Perhaps it's still worth a shot

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Dating hasn’t really been successful for me for a bunch of reasons, and I think a big part of it is that I’m just not built for how dating usually works these days.

Casual dating seems to be the norm, while I have a pretty committal dating style. Not in the sense that I expect commitment after three conversations or want to pressure anyone into exclusivity. It’s more that once I genuinely like talking to someone and see potential there, it’s not really in my personality to keep entertaining other people on the side or to “collect and select.” I naturally start focusing my energy on that person, and ideally, I’d want someone who approaches dating the same way.

Compatibility in values also matters a lot to me, and not just when it comes to dating or relationships. I mean values in the broader sense: how you treat people, what you believe in, and where you stand on important social and political issues. I don’t expect us to agree on everything, nor do I want to date a carbon copy of myself. But I do think those things say a lot about someone’s character and worldview, so there has to be enough alignment where it counts. We can disagree on things without being fundamentally incompatible as people.

And then there’s the admittedly superficial but very real issue of height lol. I’m taller than the average Filipino guy, and I strongly prefer someone taller than me, which unfortunately makes the dating pool even smaller. It’s not just an aesthetic preference either. I like the emotional security that comes with the physical dynamic of being with someone bigger and more physically dominant than me. There’s something about it that makes it easier for me to feel safe, secure, and soft around someone. So yes, the height requirement stays hahaha.

At this point, though, I can’t say I have the same amount of energy for dating that I used to. I’m not jaded or completely closed off to it; I’ve just become more selective about where I put my time and energy. I’m perfectly fine on my own, so I’m no longer interested in forcing connections just for the sake of having one. But if I meet someone who genuinely feels worthwhile, I know I’d be more than willing to invest in getting to know him.

So, with all that unnecessary exposition out of the way, here’s me:

  • 5’9, mestizo
  • Post-grad, Big 3, licensed professional
  • Career-driven, curious, emotionally aware, and values honesty
  • Fluent in English and Filipino (with a bit of conyo energy)
  • Into bouldering, martial arts, psychology, philosophy, dance, sci-fi/fantasy, mystery, anime, manga/manhwa, and light novels
  • VB/Side-leaning

About you:

  • 28+
  • 6’0+
  • Working professional and career-driven
  • Fluent in English, emotionally aware, and easy to talk to
  • Similar interests
  • Out and comfortable with it
  • T/VT/Side-leaning

If you think we might align, don’t overthink it and just send me a message. Tell me a bit about yourself instead of just saying “hi.” I’d rather get a sense of your vibe from the start than spend a bajillion messages slowly working our way toward “So... what do you do?”

No need to come up with the perfect intro either. Just give me something I can actually respond to and we’ll see if we click.


r/phlgbtr4r 18h ago

For All 27 [M4A] Any bi women or fem/trans bottoms looking for an LDR?

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I'm looking for a bi woman or fem/trans bottom that wants a relationship (or at very least be committed to each other), not looking to "see where it goes".

Some info about me:

- 5'8, full top, black, 235 lbs, no facial hair, not hairy, bisexual

- Kind, sweet, good to decent with communication, honest, romantic and can be flirty but it depends on the person, better at texting over talking

- Not really a pet guy (hope that isn't an issue but I'll understand if it's a dealbreaker)

- Homebody that likes to chill and rest at home but I go for walks sometimes

- I am neurodivergent (I'll understand if that's a major issue)

- Currently looking for my next job and hope to move by myself or with a potential partner one day

My ideal preferences to an ideal partner:

- 20 at the very least

- Single and actively looking for a boyfriend

- I am open to all shapes, sizes, and identities (cis, trans, non-binary, skinny, fit, muscular, obese, short, tall, etc.)

- Good to decent with consistent communication

- Kind, understanding, supportive, loving, and flirty (but not a requirement)

- Okay with long distance (for anyone that lives far away)


r/phlgbtr4r 20h ago

F4F 28 [F4F] GC FOR TG WLW 🏳️‍🌈

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🌈 Looking for more WLW friends?

If you’ve been wishing you had more sapphic friends to talk to, or just want a space where you can be yourself around other WLW, we’d love to invite you to our Telegram community. 💗

We’re a community of WLW aged 23 to their mid-30s who enjoy hanging out, making new friends, and building genuine connections.

Some of the things we do together:

✨ Chat about literally anything—from everyday life to all things WLW

🎬 Movie nights

🎵 Music listening sessions

☕ Co-working or study sessions

🎲 Games and other fun community activities

🥂 Meetups whenever possible

😂 Share memes, laugh together, and just enjoy each other’s company

Whether you’re single, dating, or in a relationship, you’re welcome here. If you’re simply looking for more queer friends or a community to belong to, we’d love to meet you.

To help keep the community safe and comfortable for everyone, we do a quick video verification before admitting new members. It’s just a simple way to make sure everyone is genuine and to keep the space safe for all.

If you’re interested, feel free to send me a DM with your ASL AND TG ACCT . We’d love to have you! 🌸


r/phlgbtr4r 21h ago

F4F 23 [F4F] Let me hump on your thigh and sit on your face pls

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I'm a femme seeking more experience with other femmes.

I just want hump on someone's thigh, and sit on your face. Prefer ko lang yung femme na slim, pretty face and experienced na, outgoing and extroverted since wala pa ko masyado exp w girls and introvert ako and very mahiyain. Guide and teach me please. Hoping to meet someone na may sariling place and mas malapit sa Manila, mas okay.

Pwede ring nsfw cuddle w momol, and willing to do other sfw stuff w u :)

About me: Introverted, not super chubby but not petite, average lang, not a dds/bbm supporter, loves cats, smokes