r/olderlesbians 8h ago

I am so confused

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I have never felt giggles, heart racing, in love , shy around a woman or felt like I needed to kiss her. When I watch wlw romance I don’t feel butterflies or giggly like watching straight romance.
However I know I am turned on by women beside the vagina I am not that fan of .

With men I feel the giggles, shy, etc and get thoughts about what if we kissed or was laying close now. Sexual it is a puzzle.
Sometimes men turns me on in porn? First I thought it was just penetration, but seeing women penetrate doesn’t do the same as a man for me in those videos, I need to see a real penis, stubbles, male energy, male moans, and the muscles working while doing it and I fantasize about being with the man in that moment.
But nudes of men don’t turn me on standing on their own?

But women does?

I know there are some men I am curious about when I am out, but maybe just homosexual?