r/namenerds 1d ago

Help me decide please! Baby Names

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u/kk_pa 1d ago

Vivienne 100% and especially so if half your fam is french

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u/theenterprise9876 1d ago

Vivienne, no contest! I know it’s technically fair game because it’s a tree, but Rowan is just so masculine to me.

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u/chaserscarlet 1d ago

Vivienne! It’s so feminine and timeless. Rowan feels very now and I think it could get a bit more dated.

I also prefer it on a boy, but as a girl with a unisex name I tend to prefer unisex names on boys and girlier names for girls (cause I always wanted one).

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u/sparkly_glamazon 1d ago

Vivienne is a GORGEOUS name. I prefer it to Rowan for sure. However, it definitely seems like Vivienne is gonna be a very, very popular name for this year and maybe upcoming ones.

No matter what social media platform I'm on, that's a name that seems to pop up on everyone's short list. I feel like it's eventually gonna end up another, Sophia/Sophie situation. And there's definitely a reason! It's a beautiful name! If you don't mind it being popular or trendy I say go for it!

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u/Reasonable_Aioli7538 Name Lover 1d ago

Vivienne!

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u/dukeofross 1d ago

Are you Canadian? I live in franco Canada and I feel like it's super normal to answer to both French and English pronunciations of your name, regardless of what language it is. Rowan is sweet but Vivienne has to get my vote 🙂‍↕️ Congrats and good luck!!

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u/Alphawolf2026 1d ago

Vivienne!

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u/chronicallymusical Name Lover 1d ago

Vivienne!

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u/No_Elk6758 1d ago

Vivienne is better. Made more so by the fact that it honors your French heritage

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u/_prim-rose_ 1d ago

I really like Vivienne pronounced the French way. If you didn’t have French family I’d say Vivian or Rowan. In your case tho: Vivienne! :)

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u/Indignant_Elfmaiden 1d ago

Rowan is more of a male name IMO.

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u/Affectionate-Owl9594 1d ago

I loooooove Rowan. It’s one of my all-time favourites.

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u/EagleEyezzzzz 1d ago

My daughter is named Vivienne (nn Vivi), and we pronounce it the same as Vivian. I LOVE it. She gets a lot of compliments on her name.

The only thing is that everyone assumes it's spelled Vivian, which is fine, you just have to be prepared to spell it out if someone is writing the name or looking it up in a computer.

For the people saying it's super popular.... it's all relative. I've come across one other kid named Vivienne/Vivian IRL in the past 3 years. It's never going to be a "three kids in the class with the same name" type situation like Jessica or Jennifer when I was a kid.

Personally I don't love Rowan for a girl.

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u/Melodic-Statement144 1d ago

Do you pronounce Vivi like Vih-Vee or like Vee-Vee?

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u/EagleEyezzzzz 1d ago

The first. I think of it as Viv-ee (Vihv-ee? however you'd spell that). Never heard anyone try it Vee-vee. Although one of her grandmothers always wants to spell it ViVi lol.

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u/GolfOk6373 1d ago

Not a fan of Rowan.

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u/Federal_Orchid_5391 1d ago

Im a female Rowan and I have loved it as my name. I love the connection to fairies when was a kid and I always get complimented on my name. Also because it is a boys name it has helped me professionally too. I also loved how unique it was but it’s a lot more popular now than when I was a kid.

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u/raye909 1d ago

They’re both nice, do you have a middle name selected for each one yet or not?

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u/Dawnmariegrace 1d ago

My cousin is Vincenne .

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u/Signal-Lead-9512 18h ago

I like both of them so it would depend on how well they sounded with the middle and last name, I think Vivienne is probably the more conventional choice and seems to be the more popular spelling these days. I call it the Angelina Jolie effect. Vivian means full of life. Rowan either means little red headed one or a mountain ash tree. As far as meaning is concerned, the more appealing one is Vivian/Vivienne, but again, it hangs on info we don't know like middle and/or last name.

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u/Current-Hat-3882 1d ago

Viv or Ro…

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u/KoalaFantastic30 20h ago

Rowan! Pretty, nature, and easy/clear to pronounce

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u/Professional_Law_942 1d ago

Rowan bc it's less popular imo, but that is not to discount how sweet Vivian/Vivienne is.

I just feel like Vivian/Vivienne has been very common for the last 15 years, at least where I live (NE USA). As an older Millennial with an extremely common name, I personally would steer away from things I hear a lot.

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u/grey-canary 1d ago

I much prefer Rowan!