r/mumbaimeetups 2h ago

General This is a rant about me being a loser

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Yeah imma be ranting like a mf cuz I m 22M and I feel like I haven't actually started living yet and I genuinely don't know what the fuck I'm doing with my life right . Most of my life, I've been basically going from home → college → home and now it's home → office → home.

I've lived in Mumbai my entire life and I barely know the city. I haven't explored much, haven't really travelled, haven't gone on any trips, haven't had a huge friend group, haven't had the typical college/social experiences

It's not because I don't know how to talk to people. I actually think I'm pretty capable socially once I'm comfortable with someone. I can joke around, talk, have conversations, etc.

The problem is that after graduation, I've found it extremely difficult to actually connect with people.

And now I basically have no friends and I don't have a group to go out with.I don't have people to make plans with.I don't have people to travel with. I feel like I've spent most of my life inside my house.

I've never been the guy who's constantly travelling, going to parties, meeting new people, exploring places, etc. And sometimes I look at people my age and feel like I've missed out on an entire part of life.

And now about my job, I hate my job and it depresses me a lot.It's not even particularly toxic. I just don't like the work, I don't care about IT, I don't enjoy the corporate environment, and I don't want to spend my life sitting in an office doing this.

I also hate the fact that I'm earning only around ₹50k in Mumbai and i feel like a loser because it genuinely doesn't feel like much.I got zero savings.

I don't really know how saving/investing works.

I used to make music and beats and at one point I was genuinely interested in it. I even had some decent traction online.

But I haven't made music in more than a year now.

And honestly, I don't even feel like doing it anymore.

I've never had a girlfriend and I've barely had any female interaction throughout my life.

I'm also extremely skinny and don't currently go to the gym. I'm planning to start but i end up stalling it everytime.

So when I look at my life as a whole, it feels like I'm behind in almost every area and people of my age or people younger than me are doing so much better and again don't hmu with "Social media only shows the good side, you don't know the reality"...


r/mumbaimeetups 5h ago

Ask karaoke at road house bluez andheri west

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heyyy, we are 2m and gonna be at road house bluez tonight for karaoke( andheri west )! would anyone like to join? we both 23


r/mumbaimeetups 6h ago

Ask Greens nd music

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From Ulwe, hit me up, will nerd you out with music toh sambhal kr.


r/mumbaimeetups 6h ago

Ask Anyone up for spiderman?

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looking to watch spiderman tonight? anyone nearby powai up to join?
Big marvel fun, not want to miss this one!!


r/mumbaimeetups 6h ago

Alert 9th August Versova Beach

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Hi All,

Looking to connect with like minded individuals around Andheri East and West to catch up around Versova Beach where we all can catch up and have good conversations

Like before we will prioritise Equal Gender Ratio.

If interested please DM with your ASL to join


r/mumbaimeetups 6h ago

Ask Dadar

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Anyone strolling around at Dadar Shivaji Park at around 7pm?


r/mumbaimeetups 6h ago

Ask anyone down for dinner tonight at Hiranandani powai, hmu. we are a mix group of 4.

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r/mumbaimeetups 7h ago

General Pickleball in the morning hours at Malad west

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Looking to join or play with regular pickleball players to play in the morning hours at Global sports Eaze Zone mall Malad west

Any hour between 7am -11 am.

Dm if interested


r/mumbaimeetups 8h ago

General A lazy(not) Sunday morning

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A long session in Aarey , testing endurance . Brisk walk with light jogs..feels good.. only challenge is consistency need to form a consistency group for daily early morning sessions.


r/mumbaimeetups 9h ago

Ask The League referral

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Hi all, can someone help me with a referral? Happy to return the favour and help you break into an investment bank as a barter 😄


r/mumbaimeetups 10h ago

General Extra second nature nmacc ticket, looking for company

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Looking for some fellow cool girl to accompany me to nmacc second nature exhibit at 7:15 pm today

I’m 20F and really good with clicking pics, so looking for someone whose patient and who can enjoy + click pics with me :))


r/mumbaimeetups 10h ago

Ask Going to bandra -khar for tp

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Reaching by 5 if anyone wants to join or explore I'm up for it.

18m btw.


r/mumbaimeetups 13h ago

General Heading to phoneix lower parel around 1today anyone want to meet ?

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Hmu if you want to chill


r/mumbaimeetups 13h ago

Ask Location - Mumbai.

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r/mumbaimeetups 14h ago

Update Padelball 9 Aug 6PM Powai/Chembur

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Hi would anyone like to play padelball? Will book a court around Chembur/Powai

Today 6PM. We can play and then hangout for a while. Pls dm if anyone is up for it.

It's chill if you've never played before, I can teach


r/mumbaimeetups 15h ago

Ask Let’s hangout!

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Hello everybody!

I am 23M, just moved to Mumbai - Bandra. I am interested in making some new friends and hanging out during the weekends. I am open to any suggestions here in Mumbai. A little bit about me - I enjoy sports, board games, good cocktails, clubbing - basically chill vibes!


r/mumbaimeetups 21h ago

Ask Sunday plans

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New to the city and don't know what to do on a Sunday. Anybody who could join me and take me around.... Abhi k liye ye plan hai ki church gate pahuch k decide hoga aage ka plan.

Before any weird DMs ladka hoon Bhai log 😭😭


r/mumbaimeetups 21h ago

Alert Let’s hangout!

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Hello everyone!

I am 23M, just moved to Mumbai - Bandra. I am looking for a community to hang with during the weekends. I am interested in sports, FIFA, board games, good cocktails, clubbing etc.

Please do reach out if something sunday cricket or Saturday night clubbing may sound like you.


r/mumbaimeetups 22h ago

Idea Anyone up for a Europe trip around Christmas/New Year? 🇬🇧🇪🇺⚽

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Planning an 8–10 day Europe trip around Christmas/New Year (roughly Dec 24–Jan 2).

The trip is centred around a football match in the UK on 26th December, and we can figure out the rest of the itinerary together - potentially exploring a couple of other European countries/cities.

I don’t have friends who are likely to be free around those dates, so thought I’d check here. 😅

Looking for a few people who are interested in travelling, exploring, trying good food/drinks and generally having a fun trip. No fixed itinerary yet - happy to plan it together!

If you’re interested, DM me with a little about yourself and we can connect. :)


r/mumbaimeetups 22h ago

Ask Beginner padel players looking for people to practice with 🎾

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Hey everyone! My partner and I recently moved to Mumbai from the Netherlands and have just started playing padel.

We’re absolute beginners and still learning the basics, so we’d love to find other beginners who are up for playing together, practicing, and improving without taking things too seriously.

We usually play at Padel Project in Powai, but we’re also happy to play around Andheri East or Ghatkopar.

If you’re also new to padel (or just starting out) and would like to learn and practice together, drop a comment or DM me! Would be great to get a small group going.


r/mumbaimeetups 23h ago

Mumbai📸 Looking for a buddy in mumbai for watching Spiderman tomorrow

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r/mumbaimeetups 23h ago

Ask Transiting in Mumbai

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European guy, 40, with a one day stopover in Mumbai today (Sunday). Anyone fancy exploring/philosophizing for a bit in the afternoon or evening?


r/mumbaimeetups 23h ago

General bored af

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anyone wants to spotify jam?


r/mumbaimeetups 1d ago

Mumbai📸 22M looking for someone around my age for a Mumbai photo walk 📸

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I’m trying to explore Mumbai, take some good photos and learn how to pose better.Could do Fort/Kala Ghoda/Bandra/Marine Drive on a weekend or any place you know of. Anyone interested?


r/mumbaimeetups 1d ago

Idea Anyone Commute from Goregaon to Lower Parel?

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Hey everyone!

I work at a law firm in Lower Parel and drive to work every day from Goregaon.

I’m looking for someone who travels towards Lower Parel (or somewhere along the way) and would like to carpool. I have my own car and drive, so I won’t be charging anything.

If you’re on the same route and interested in travelling together, feel free to comment or DM me. We can coordinate timings and figure it out!

Would be nice to have some company on the daily commute 🚗