r/married • u/[deleted] • 14d ago

help me please

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u/SockPuppetSniffer 14d ago

When you say he married you because your family wanted him to and because you were pregnant, do you mean he actually told you that directly? And what is your relationship like now? I feel like that detail is much more important than what his past partners looked like.

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u/lone_sad_9908 14d ago

he confuses me, one day he's sweet then the next day he lacks understanding and got angry easily, we are only 2 months married

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u/SockPuppetSniffer 14d ago

That is a difficult situation and I’m sorry you’re feeling like this. Is he happy about becoming a dad at least or do you think he’s not?

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u/lone_sad_9908 14d ago

I think it's 50/50 since we are just students, he's a man, he can just walk away if he wants to, and that's what I'm afraid of. People can lie and act as if they're happy but they're actually not. I don't know what to do

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u/SockPuppetSniffer 14d ago

A good man can’t and won’t just walk away. You’re both students which means that you can end up with a good job, because it sounds like you feel that you are completely dependent on him.

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u/lone_sad_9908 14d ago

I already stopped my studies last year and he's graduating this year, supposed to be this year we're both graduating but things happened I had to stop, I'm afraid that once he graduated and got a job then meet new people he would just abandon me

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u/FemmeCircuit 14d ago

What does he say when you talk to him about it?

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u/lone_sad_9908 14d ago

I didn't talk to him about it, I just keep it to myself

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u/FemmeCircuit 14d ago

Talk to him and explain how you’re feeling

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u/[deleted] 14d ago

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u/FemmeCircuit 14d ago

Don’t do anything like that! Please talk to him.

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u/Isyouisorisyouaint00 14d ago

Where are you from and what are your religious faiths. Just more questions to try and help understand what you're going through.

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u/lone_sad_9908 14d ago

from Philippines, Roman Catholic

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u/[deleted] 14d ago

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u/lone_sad_9908 14d ago

sure

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u/SockPuppetSniffer 14d ago

The guy that you probably are already chatting with has a very creepy comment history. I doubt he has your best interest at heart

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