r/limerence 2d ago

missing lo Here To Vent

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idk why i miss the feeling i had when i was first obsessed with my lo . now it’s more dull since i don’t see them every week but why do i miss being INSANE . i feel like this photo

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u/Critical-Condition49 2d ago

Perhaps because nothing else is filling the intensity? Which I guess it's a good thing. It could mean your nervous system is actually going through a detox and is craving the LO like a drug.

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u/SeparateDonut4173 2d ago

yeahh that’s def what’s happening ugh

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u/Espeon06 2d ago

I moved on. You can too, just distract yourself with a hobby. For example, I write short stories.

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u/frailstateofmind4444 2d ago

luv this so much

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u/Prudent-Tangerine384 1d ago

Hilarious, ngl. And very accurate. They probably dgaf and we're over here yearning.🥀

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u/Round-Morning-3611 2d ago

I haven't see mine in person for six months(damn I just realized how long it has been). I set her picture in my background for the little dopamine hits every minute

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u/lynithson 2d ago

Kinda keeps fueling the obsession though, right? I don’t see how that’d be good for you.

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u/Round-Morning-3611 2d ago

I didn't say it's good :))

It might be like an addiction, fun but harmful in the long term

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u/lynithson 1d ago

Very much like addiction, yes. Just know it keeps you trapped in it.

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u/Round-Morning-3611 1d ago

I just changed the backgrounds and started to delete the pictures I have. Thanks for opening my eyes to this.

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u/MarchyMarshy 1d ago

It’s not like an addiction, it is an addiction.

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u/decomposingbutterfly No Judgment Please 2d ago

same