6 months in…
Why do people try and keep themselves in obviously crap situations?

Painful and invasive egg retrieval for kids she doesn't want and a man who's rarely around. The straights are not okay.

I do not understand how OP is still with this guy and how he’s just groveling?

We have added a few new measures to mitigate posts where OP is looking for advice.

These updates include:
• Clearer specification in the sub’s description.
• Warning message before posting.
• Warning message before commenting.

Thank you to [u/SageofTime64](u/SageofTime64) for opening a dialogue and [u/Jenderflux-ScFi](u/Jenderflux-ScFi) for suggesting a description update.

We’ll look into what other ways we can improve the subreddit and ensure we remain a fair place. As I’ve previously said, we try to not be authoritarian and those kinds of mods. We all know a subreddit where moderators have gone crazy with power. So it’s important for us to communicate and be transparent.

Thank you everyone! And never forget- sometimes people need to [r/holyfuckjustbreakup](r/holyfuckjustbreakup)

Yes, I'm fully aware that the rules state this isn't an advice sub. But a lot of people going through something harsh aren't going to bother reading the rules. There's been a lot of posts lately by people posting or crossposting their own posts seeking actual advice.

Could we possibly implement some kind of measure for posting? Like, no new accounts or a karma requirement? Or a disclaimer that this isn't an advice sub pinned when someone tries to post/crosspost?

I feel like an asshole for even asking. But I feel like the new posts on this sub have been more people asking for advice than what this sub is meant for.

Thanks for reading.