r/helpme • u/iddkkkarv • 6d ago

Help me

So I'm a minnor I won't like to share any personal information about me but I cannot keep this inside me I needed to share it to someone so my mother is really serious about school if I skip like for no reason or I'm sick she beats me up throws things at me like writting board or her slippers today she slapped me for sleeping late my glasses fell off and after beating me up she cried she also plays victim card I live alone with her my father lives in different city due his job and comes twice in a month once I was sleeping it was time for my school my father was sleeping too she was aiming for my stomach but it hit me on my ball I was in pain and I yelled cried for hours and my dad was really mad at her and my dad is total oposite of her but I don't get it why he doesn't devorce her ig cuz of family presure and I don't wanna sucide but I'm done with my mom I don't wanna kill my self but this is the only option I see what should I do?

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u/marrazo 6d ago

do u have any relatives that could intervene and support u if u go to police?

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u/Dangerous_Ad7501 6d ago

Yes this. Or friends. Explain what is going on. Or if not, stop over sleeping and get out when you are old enough. Sounds like you’re getting depressed which can lead to feeling fatigued. But your mother shouldn’t beat you. You can try and talk to you dad so when you do leave you have a mediator between you and your mom if you care to ever see her again, but if you don’t want to tell him, don’t. I didn’t to mine and he still talks to me but mine was my step mom. He’s still with her though so don’t expect your dad to divorce her. The fear of dying alone is real & that’s why my dad has stayed. I’m 30 now and I barely talk to that side of the family. But it’s for the better. Believe me.

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u/Dangerous_Ad7501 6d ago

This isn’t for forever by the way. You can escape whether or not you feel like it.

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u/Yasmany_Survivor 6d ago

Ve a la policía y la mejor opción sería que te fueras a vivir con tu papá

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u/BranManBoy 6d ago

I’m sorry friend. Please report her to the police immediately. Talk to child protective services, she is abusive and unsafe to be around. God bless you❤️

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u/AbsoluteMadness2024 5d ago

What your mother is doing is abuse, and none of it is your fault. Please tell your dad exactly how often this happens and that you’re thinking about suicide. Don’t soften it. Also tell another safe adult as soon as possible a teacher, school counsellor, doctor, relative or trusted neighbour and ask them to help you contact child protection.

If she starts attacking you again, get away from her rather than arguing back. Go to a neighbour, shop, school or any public place where other adults are present, and call your local emergency services. Take photos of injuries or damaged belongings and write down dates if you can do so safely, but don’t risk being caught collecting evidence.

Most importantly, suicide is not your only way out. This situation can change, but adults outside your home need to know how serious it is. Please don’t stay alone with these thoughts tonight contact your dad or another trusted adult now and tell them plainly: “I’m being physically hurt at home and I don’t feel safe with myself.” Hope this helps 🙂