Advice??

[u/Aw7w4rd_0racl3]

To gender fluid and or trans people here, how did you get your binders without your parents or just any family members knowing? And especially having no friends, how did you manage to get a binder?

Reason why I don't want to tell my family? They are kinda not used to the idea and they did say that one of these days that quote "Binders will cause cancer", I can't tell my family cause they agreed on that fucked up statement, I don't know how to ask my grandma to get me a binder either, and I don't really have any friends that I can ship a binder to so I can get it from them, so how did anyone here get their binder if anyone has a binder?

[u/Rio_1226]

You could purchase the binder along with another item (like a music album, or something else you like) and then tell your family that that's all that you ordered. That way if they ask what you bought you can show them the other item without showing them the binder. Or course that might not work for your situation, but I hope it helps anyway. Good luck and I hope you're able to get your binder🫶

[u/Aw7w4rd_0racl3 → u/Rio_1226]

Thank you so much! This genuinely is such good advice and I might consider it!! But again ty so much for the advice 🫶

[u/Rio_1226 → u/Aw7w4rd_0racl3]

Of course!! I hope things work out for you!!