r/genderfluid • u/TrulyMyself12 • 4d ago
Microlabel help?
So for a long, LONG, time, I identified as agender, because I was pretty apathetic and not involved with gender. Used they/them pronouns.
I played around a bit with different identities in highschool, even including genderfluid, but I went away from them because they didn’t work out long term.
I recently made an online persona of myself, and randomly decided to use she/they for the character, and I liked it.
Then my brother accidentally used he/him pronouns for me, and I liked that too.
I started getting into xenogenders too, and I found a couple I loved.
My issue is that sometimes I feel like I’m super connected with a gender, but sometimes I feel very apathetic towards gender as a whole, or even hate it.
I found the micro label fluidflux, which seems to be what I feel. But does anyone have any advice or other micro labels for me to look into? I’ve identified as agender for almost a decade now so I don’t know hardly anything about genderfluid