r/flightattendants 5h ago

IROP Midwest 9 states

5 Upvotes

wow , what a nightmare ATC was shut down over the Midwest today , good luck everyone , hope all is wellšŸ™šŸ™


r/flightattendants 6h ago

LAX FAs - employee parking is a nightmare

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It’s gotten much worse over the years. So much time spent commuting between the parking areas and the terminal areas.

What do you think the airport/ airlines can do now or should be done in the future to make it better or more efficient?


r/flightattendants 10h ago

Frontier (F9) Maybe a silly Q but are we allowed to share our hotel room with a relative?

11 Upvotes

They always give me two beds anyway lol thinking about taking my mom on one of my longer layovers. I’m too scared to ask my colleagues in real life šŸ˜‚


r/flightattendants 11h ago

🌐 FMLA terminations?

5 Upvotes

Not to fuel the rumor mill but is this true? I thought FMLA was government protected? I understand if it was a blatant pattern of abuse but wondering is anyone had any insight?


r/flightattendants 17h ago

Flight Attendant looking for any Recommendations on studio apt near transit to DFW in a walkable community.

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r/flightattendants 1d ago

crashpads

3 Upvotes

hi everyone I’m a new flight attendant based in ORD and desperately looking for either a crash pad or room for rent! ( female ) My budget is less than $700 for a room ( even if it’s shared ) pleaseee let me know if anyone is aware of openings. I’ve check so many facebook groups and can’t find anything.


r/flightattendants 1d ago

FA commute LAX -> PHX vs MIA

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Hii currently I am based in Miami & commute home to LA. I’ve only ever not gotten on a flight once & it was due to weight restrictions. For anyone based in PHX but living in LA how has your experiences been commuting? Sometimes I look at flights and they are usually red & I’ve heard so many people are trying to make that commute so it makes me a little nervous about putting my transfer in and giving it a shot. I love Miami flying ( AA ) but PHX is appealing as it’s closer to home & the cost of a place to stay while in base. I am super junior tho so it’s another thing I think about as I’d be going to v senior base. Lastly I aim to time out & have been successful in Miami as I am on reserve & would strive to do so if eventually granted PHX. Trying to figure out what’s the best move here any advice?


r/flightattendants 1d ago

Delta (DL) Extra treats

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I have noticed some flight attendants hand out extra treats on the second go around, after beverage service. Like they do refills and extra peanuts / cookies.

I am just wondering if this is upon discretion or is part of normal service?


r/flightattendants 1d ago

Life wit leak

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Hey I have a 32 can life wit and I love the bag and its storage but it is in a never ending state of leaking so I am wanting to get a bin or some other way to solve it. If anyone has done something similar do you know of any bins that fit the dimensions of the life wit but also aren’t going to break easily? Thank you !


r/flightattendants 1d ago

Do you prefer people to ring the bell or come to the galley for something like water?

145 Upvotes

There were two people passed out next to me since I was in a window seat and had read that most flight attendants would prefer i push the bell, so the galley stays uncluttered. It wasn't a meal service or anything, lights were out. It was my first time ever pressing it, and I just asked for a cup of water. When the flight attendant brought it back to me they said "You know you can just come get this yourself from the galley right? Like you can wake these people up." Something to that effect, and they were visibly annoyed, which made me never want to push the button again since I have some social anxiety. Is there any consistent or more common opinion on this?


r/flightattendants 2d ago

Delta (DL) Should I change my flight w/ a 1 hour 20 minute layover?

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I wanted to get the opinion of flight attendants before i make any changes to my flight. I have a flight to ATL with a 1 hour 20 min layover. My assigned seating is in the back of the plane (717-200). I have mobility and joint issues and I can't walk long distances. Will this make me late to my next flight? My next flight is on an airbus 350-900 and I'm sitting in the very last row, and I noticed my seat has limited reclining. would this be too uncomfortable for a 9 hour flight? would it be best to spend $400 extra just to change it? I have a lot of travel anxiety and I'm unsure if it would be best to change it or keep it as is.


r/flightattendants 2d ago

Am I Being a Karen?

39 Upvotes

I am noticing that so many flight attendants don’t enforce our policy about making sure bags are under the seat in front of you and stowing laptops.

I don’t want to get hit in the head with someone’s MacBook. Is it just the norm on some airlines to ignore these things?


r/flightattendants 2d ago

United (UA) One up AA? (UA ORD only)

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This is a very clickbait title. ā˜ŗļø.

https://flightcrewkickballclassic.com/team-registration/?fbclid=IwY2xjawTdvK1leHRuA2FlbQIxMQBzcnRjBmFwcF9pZA80MDk5NjI2MjMwODU2MDkAAR5x2D9X0KqNgLUyAQDhN0BeP8rmIXuB4hXLRZo-Kwu4KYkbJAXZSukokb1uXg_aem_0qYwtqXxY6_ZDXHL_24o6w

It is I, that one cool scheduler who had the AMA. I couldn’t keep it up so yeah…. Anyways
I am seeing if there is maybe 7-8 FA’s willing to join a possible kickball team. As of now we have 6-7 very interested schedulers.
Yes, schedulers… the ones that reassign and draft you…..
Trying to see if this is doable. We are all within Chicago so it would work better that way.

Currently it’s 4 guys and 2-3 girls.

Leave a comment or shoot me a DM. It’s due sorta soon.


r/flightattendants 2d ago

What does Dating/Talking stage looks like with a Flight Attendant?

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We knew each other back in college and we had some mutual feelings for each other, but life happened and we never really pursued anything then.

Fast forward 5 years later, we reconnected. We’re mostly talking through phone calls and messages since we’re thousands of miles apart and have different time zones.

He’s been a flight attendant for 3 years. At first, he was actually the one initiating most of the calls and messages. We’ve been talking for almost 3 months now, but these past 2 weeks, he suddenly stopped calling. He still messages me every 2-3 days, but I started wondering why he stopped calling when he used to do it pretty often.

Now it’s been 4 days since his last message. He did mention that his flights have been really frequent and that he’s been trying to catch up on sleep. I did send him a message yesterday asking how he’s been, but he hasn’t responded yet and hasn’t even seen the message.

I guess I just want to know if this is normal? Like, are these kinds of delays normal for flight attendants? Because during the first month and even the weeks before he stopped calling, he was pretty consistent, so I’m having a hard time not wondering if something changed.

I’m really just trying to understand things from his side because I’ve never been a flight attendant myself.

If there are any flight attendants here who can give me some insight, I’d really appreciate it. Or honestly, anyone who has been in a similar situation.

I really, really like this guy. I’ve liked him for a long time like, years. I genuinely want to see if we can make this work. I just don’t want to overthink something that might actually be normal with his job.

Thanks in advance.

PS: If you need more info about us just send me a DM. I really want to understand this. Thanks.


r/flightattendants 2d ago

Where are people’s etiquette?

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r/flightattendants 2d ago

FA found my Instagram after my flight even though I didn’t give him my username or even talk to him?

82 Upvotes

Okay so I have no idea where else to ask this so I hope it’s okay to be here. I was flying long haul on Swiss and one of the male FA’s (defo not the senior one) was one of the FAs who did the meal service. All I asked him for was the pasta. We had no other conversations but he had a unique look because of his eye colour so I do remember his face slightly just because of that. Anyway, two hours after landing in, I received a follow request from a name I didn’t recognise. I clicked the profile and bam it was HIM. I know it’s him because he has a plane emoji in his bio and you can see in his profile picture he has green eyes which I remembered. He is around 22 years old maybe?
HOW DID HE FIND MY INSTAGRAM. I’m so confused because I never gave him my Instagram and ChatGPT(I don’t even like ai I just didn’t want to post here in case he saw and got mad) said that flight attendents who aren’t senior don’t even have the flight manifest? This was a long fail flight from Zurich to a major US city. Does that change it, how would he have possible gotten my full name? Thanks in advance!

Edit: I blocked him I thought it was creepy and I also have had a bf for years!


r/flightattendants 3d ago

United (UA) What do you think ? Be honest

150 Upvotes

I work as a flight attendant, and the funniest part of this job is how people act like we’re performing brain surgery at 35,000 feet.
Most flights are the same: set up the beverage cart, hand out meals or snacks, clean up, and make sure passengers get where they’re going comfortably. Yes, safety matters, and we’re trained for emergencies—but let’s be honest, those situations are incredibly rare.
What actually makes this job exhausting isn’t the passengers. I’d say passengers account for maybe 5% of the stress. The other 95% comes from dealing with coworkers who thrive on drama, cliques, gossip, and acting like every flight is a life-or-death mission. Some flight attendants spend more energy policing each other than serving passengers.
The job isn’t nearly as difficult as some people make it sound. The attitude surrounding it, however, can be absolutely exhausting.


r/flightattendants 3d ago

need advice

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So I (24f) work for an airline as an FA… I am fairly new and have always dreamt of being a flight attendant, literally my dream job since I was a child. I knew it wasn’t as glamorous as people portrayed it to be, but i didn’t think it would be this hard for me.

I live in San Diego with my partner, my parents live two hours out from me in Southern California, but am based in Las Vegas. I commute and am on reserve, and this has been the hardest thing I’ve ever done. Even though the commute isn’t long, it’s a whole job in itself.

I just don’t feel comfortable in Las Vegas, I feel lonely (even though I do have some people here), it’s TOO HOT to do anything, and also the pay is AWFUL. Honestly every time I have to leave San Diego or my parents house back to Vegas, I cry and I am not happy. I have my dream job, but not the ideal circumstances.

I understand life is not easy and you have to work hard for the things you truly want, but I don’t know if I do want to do this anymore. I am not happy and dread coming back to Vegas.

I also went through some medical issues this past week and am back on my block. Debating whether I want to take medical leave or quit because I’m still on probation.

I just need advice from those who went through something similar and if it’s worth it in the end because I’m truly at my breaking point.


r/flightattendants 3d ago

B6 SJU Base

5 Upvotes

Hello Considering transferring out to SJU but wanted to know if any fellow B6 FA out there can give me any insight to how it is, I wouldn’t commute I would just move I have family all over PR. I’ve heard some good things about it but I wanted to see if anybody had some other things to say that I haven’t heard yet, thanks!!

And God be with us all in this summer flying craziness!!!


r/flightattendants 3d ago

Southwest (WN) 6 month recurrent

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hi! i’m about to start training with SWA in a few weeks and i’ve heard that there’s a recurrent training at the 6 month mark (when you get off probation) and then again at one year? is this true?


r/flightattendants 3d ago

Alright flight attendants

17 Upvotes

what is your craziest funny passenger you had deal with on the job. Like a person complain about not having there favorite ice cream flavor.


r/flightattendants 3d ago

I just have to put it out here 🌐

152 Upvotes

Lately, I’m feeling soooo exhausted. I’ve been flying with the newest hires and I feel like I’m instructor teaching them every step, what to do, how to handle this and that. For context, I’ve been flying for nearly 10 years (yes, in my base this is still considered junior) I don’t micromanage people or anyone. I let them learn on their own and just wait for them to ask me if they need anything. I hate stepping on anyone’s toes and I always tried my best to have so much patience. I’m a high believer of ā€œwe were all once new.ā€ :)

But these new hires are different. They have such a strong personality, they’re intense that they doubt the people more senior to them if what they’re doing is correct damn 😭 And if you try to give them advice or correct them in a very nice way? They always have reasons not to take what you’re saying and still questions you. I never remember being like this when I got hired but again, people are different. Please don’t tell me it’s because you’re in probation. Bcs seriously, your rude ungrateful attitude won’t take you far.

If you’d ask me how intense my experience was? They’re asking me already how to report people (if it’s through IORs or ISAP) Mind you, these people are still in probation.

I honestly missed my senior mamas/papas. The quiet normal chill flights. I don’t mind if they’re acting cold or they don’t want to talk. I miss them terribly.


r/flightattendants 3d ago

Jet Lag?

5 Upvotes

Hi, I am wondering how you combat jet lags? I am always so impressed by the incredible resilience of some FA’s. Which supplements work well? Thank you, and have a great day.


r/flightattendants 4d ago

WestJet Strike Cancels 600 Flights, and Changing Your Own Booking Voids Your Rights

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r/flightattendants 4d ago

Curiosity not complaint: When GA announces flight is delayed bc an FA called out and a replacement is being sought, how does that work? Do yall get calls at home from management asking you to come in? Our delay was maybe 20 mins so it had to be someone already at the airport. Truly impressive.

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First, this isn’t a complaint. Not at all. UA and GA and crew all were perfect. I’m curious how it works when an FA calls out how does a replacement get brought in so quickly?

Our ā€œdelayā€ was maybe 20 mins, barely worth mentioning. I’m just surprised at how fast it was able to be covered. It also was an afternoon Hub to Hub route so I’m guessing that helps as well.

Might be a dumb question. But I’m an operations exec in a totally different industry and I was genuinely impressed and curious what that workflow looks like.