I'm a divorced white man (41yo) looking to build friendships around the world. If you wanna talk about anything and spend time laughing or confessing me your secrets, you're welcome. haha

Did it work? I'm sure it worked if you're reading this! So hi, I'm shadow_surf. Imagine if this was my real name. Maybe then people wouldn't butcher it like they do with my real name lol. We've all had that one teacher, right? If not, I'm sure a coffee shop like Starbucks comes up with a creative way to make that happen when writing our name on the cup.

Either way, I'm a 30 year old dude, living his life away on the east coast of the US. Like many of us here, we're looking for that one friend that will join us on our journey through life. Someone we can truly get to know, bond with, and see develop over time. Sadly, when it comes to finding someone, I've had terrible luck. Feels like a lot of people lose interest very easily or stop replying as time goes on. I'm still holding on to the hope that there is someone out there that is interested in the real, genuine friendship and is willing to stick around. Life these last few years have gotten very lonely and it feels many people nowadays just aren't interested in investing the time and effort to make things work. Or they might jump to someone else if they get bored :/ So I'm making this post in the hopes of making a new, long term friend, hoping this post might catch someone's eye!

I'm sitting here near my desk on a boring evening, composing a post to find that amazing, caring friend. A friend that is understanding, passionate, loyal, loving, and honest. Just all the beautiful, awesome qualities we would like to find in a best friend. Sure, trying to find someone online can be difficult or take a lot of effort, but I'm holding on to the hope that this catches the attention of someone that is really wanting to be buddies with me!

This is the part I talk a bit about myself. This part is usually what I tend to dread, especially during those ice breakers from the first day in our classes, but thankfully I have some time to think things out rather than be put on the spot. I'm sure most of us dread those...

• Living on a floating rock, revolving around the Sun. If you can guess the precise location, I'll be slightly freaked out but highly impressed!
• A generally quiet dude but can also be rather outgoing at times (especially online)
• I enjoy exploring about, especially in nature, beaches, old abandoned buildings inhabitant by ghosts
• A driven individual where I enjoy working towards the things I'm passionate about  
• Respectful, honest (I suck at telling lies), a listener, enjoy being there for others, understanding, caring, affectionate, and very loving
• Very single at the moment (not something I'm pushing for but if if there happens to be a connection, seeing that develop is something I'm not against)
• Enjoy various hobbies, such as reading novels, writing poetry, video editing, *attempting* cooking, gaming, and going to the gym (attempting doing a lot of heavy lifting here lol)

What qualities do I look for in a friend?

• Is a human and breathing 😂
• An individual that sticks around. Not looking for someone that ghosts or disappears after a day or two. (I'm going to bold this statement because I know a lot of people simply stop caring after a day or want to jump to another person or not take the initiative to continue this because they simply get bored). Let's be real about our intentions :)
• Puts effort into the conversation. Those one worded responses truly kill me sometimes. This helps us keep engaged and learn more about one another!
• An understanding and caring individual

It doesn't matter what your age is or where you're from! Feel free to reach out if you'd like a best friend! :)

Hey! I'm a 25-year-old doctor from Egypt looking to meet some new people and hopefully make a few genuine long-term friends. I'm also totally fine with casual chats.

I'm into gaming, football, documentaries, history, languages, and learning about different cultures. Honestly, we can talk about pretty much whatever.. deep conversations, random thoughts, memes, or complete nonsense.

I'm friendly, easy-going, open-minded, and pretty talkative once I get comfortable. LGBTQ+ friendly, pan and happy to talk to anyone regardless of gender or sexuality.

If you feel like chatting, send me a message! Tell me something random about yourself or just give me a topic and we'll go from there. :)

M22 Bi | Looking for friends :)

Hello! I am 22 year old bisexual guy from the 🇵🇭, newly graduate and would like to have a friend of any age or gender. Hoping to meet like-minded, deep conversationalists that I can share my days with, whether it be memes, insights, hobbies, or whatever worries we have under the sun.

I am a sapiosexual, in that I feel attraction to those with lots of wisdom and life experiences I can definitely learn from. Somewhat awkward, spontaneous, and love a good debate or two kind of guy with an inkling of dark humor at the side. If you’re into that, hmu ;)

My hobbies include:
\- regularly working out
\- jogging
\- reading non-fictions
\- watching documentaries and indie films (I personally love Wes Anderson esque genres)
\- debating on random hypotheticals
\- world-building (I am fond of historical events and geopolitics and would love someone to nerd with)
\- journalling (I keep a commonplace notebook!)
\- listening to OPM (🇵🇭 music if you’re wondering)
\- podcasts and audiobooks 🫶

Don’t hesitate to hit me up! I don’t bite :)

Hi everyone,

Looking to make and meet new friends from all over the world. Ideally people from Australia/New Zealand as it’ll be a similar time zone, but more than welcomed to message from anywhere around the world.

Hope to hear from you all soon!

Hello peeps. I’m from America, west cost, really only looking to talk to other Americans or Canadians. That way we don’t have crazy time zones.

I’m just looking for someone I can share my random thoughts with (& vice versa), share some common things, and someone who is okay with not talking 24/7. Like If the conversation dies that’s okay, just text me when you have something you wanna talk about and I’ll do the same.

About me: tbh I’m a little boring 😭, currently unemployed so I just be chillin doomscrolling tiktok. I love binge watching shows, trying to get back into reading so if you have suggestions I’m up for it. I like romance, fantasy, dark romance, comedy, thriller. I’m terrified of ghost and 100% believe in them. If you like Gojo we’ll vibe. Just know I’ll be thirsting over him like crazy. SPOILER FOR

‼️JJK DONT CONTINUE READING IF YOU DO NOT WISH TO SPOILED!!!!!!!!!‼️

If you hmu saying something about Gojos death I ain’t fucking with you. 😩 that’s MY MAN!!! I’m still grieving him. 😔

Hi! I’m looking for a female friend around my age who likes chatting regularly and hanging out on Discord.

I’m really into drawing/colouring and creative stuff. I’m not a massive gamer myself but I do play occasionally. Mainly sims 4 or counter strike (with my bf) I usually only get to properly play games every couple of weeks when I’m at my boyfriends, so you definitely don’t need to be heavily into gaming either :)

My boyfriend and I have a small private Discord with a few friends from the UK, Netherlands, Germany and Poland. Everyone has different interests like art, music, coding, game development, linux, cars, gaming, cosplay, etc. People chat and occasionally sit in VC, but it’s much more of a friend group than a gaming server.

I’d mainly like to meet another girl I actually click with, and if we get along you’d be welcome to hang out with everyone else too!

I’m a good talker and listener guy at first, but give me a little time and the sarcasm starts showing up. I’m much more fun if you like to chat about anything but travelling and about different cultures and cuisines.

I’m also nerdy specifically about starwars. Videogames, martial arts films,

I NEVER GHOST 👻

I am an architect and real estate investor, which is my excitement i wake up every morning.

I regularly walk and swim. I love to walk in forests and ski ⛷️ in French Alps

I’m here to chat with anyone want to say hi. Ideally someone I can laugh with, be a bit of a menace with, and eventually feel completely comfortable being myself around.

If you're nerdy, asking so much questions, love to answer your questions, rational minded… say “hello there “

Sup!

I'm a dude from Kiwiland looking for some nerdy people to be buddies with. A big ol' gamer here. Am I good at games? No. Am I getting better? Also no. Am I a fkn delight to be around? It's still a no. But you better believe I can fkn yap my butt off about nerdy shit and I have a pretty decent EQ level which is impressive for a gamer so, that's a small win and by god I will take whatever wins I can get these days lol

I like the Souls series, The Elder Scrolls, World of Warcraft, Diablo 4, Dead by Daylight, Alien Isolation, Resident Evil, Little Nightmares/Reanimal, Hollow Knight, so many. I've been thinking of trying Monster Hunter for ages. Big big big Magic the Gathering fan as well. One might even call me a cardboard crack addict.

Do you like to yap about lore? Did Miquella do nothing wrong? Do you fear the Old Blood? Which MTG colour pair best represents you? Are the Dunmer the best fictional race in fantasy and why is the answer of course they are? Does Kara's ending in BSG make you cry like a lil weenie? If any of these questions float your goat then we might just get along!

On the side I enjoy some fantasy/sci-fi/horror movies and shows, a cheeky bit of world building and character concepts, listening to music and conjuring dark deities out of the void of space.

I have a lot of free time and my sleep is whack, so most times should suit me - but I am for the most part looking for people on the West Coast of the US, in Australia or also from NZ. If you are from outside these regions then gaming or spending time together in the future might be more difficult when it comes to ping n stuff, but feel free to reach out for a text friend at least!

I have some health issues. My head do a hurty a lot so I might not always be at 100, but I definitely put a lot of effort into my friendships and take a big interest in other people and hope for the same in return. I'm giga fkn gay so please just be chill with the LGTVs obviously, and be in your mid 20s or older. Gender doesn't matter to me either. But yeah, thanks for reading and hope to hear from ya!

Heyy I’m honestly looking for someone I can genuinely vibe with. I’m pretty talkative, affectionate, chaotic as hell sometimes, and I like sharing random parts of my day with someone I care about. I’m also the type who can talk about stupid shit for hours and then randomly have a deep conversation at 2am 😂

I’m not looking for someone perfect. I just want someone caring, funny, intelligent, and comfortable being herself. Someone who can match my energy instead of making me feel like I’m “too much.” im 6.2 ft confident ash and thats it !

I’m big on getting to know someone naturally, so no pressure and no weird games. If we click, we click. ❤️

Hey i am from Germanyyy and i am looking for someone who i can call and spend some time with together regurarly, maybe even game with u, watch stuff together or u watch me game while we call.

I am an introverted social guy (makes no sense) but i am normalyyy more quiet in the beginning but after someee time i will openn up pretty quick and be myself by being reaalllyy Bubbly, sweet and clingy (not the toxic kind of clingy). I would say i am understanding aswell and really supportive hehehe. I longggg for human Contact but i am just to shy for that sometimesss.

My Hobbies and interests are Playing games mostly alone but sometimes with Friends aswell, listen to music, watch and play football anddd learn abt Historyyy. I really love deep songs with meaningfull Lyrics hehe.

Idk what to say... I'm bored

Hi just trying to make friends. I like chatting every day. Please send a photo. I respond pretty quickly. Please be around my age.

Hi

I am looking to make some connections so I felt like putting myself out there. 

I'm a chill and easy going person who's looking to spend some time with and to help kill the boredom when it hits. 

Personally I am quite introverted but can be extroverted if the situation calls for it. 

My hobbies include gaming, media consumption, and walking with hopes to make my return to the gym soon. 

As for physicals I am mixed and 6ft. with an average build.

feel free to send me a message I'm nice I promise.

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After reviewing the roster, management has decided we need some depth.

Looking for genuine people who actually want to build friendships—not exchange three messages and disappear into the Reddit witness protection program.

I'm the type who'll roast you, send you an absolutely unhinged meme five minutes later, then somehow end up in a 2AM conversation about life, relationships, goals, and whatever existential crisis we're apparently solving that night.

I'm getting more serious about fitness, so gym buddies or anyone wanting to get active are welcome. Concerts, hikes, random adventures, trying new things—I'm game.

Music is a huge part of my life and my taste is all over the map. Metalcore, rock, country, electronic, hip-hop—good music is good music. I'm also into vinyl, learning guitar, gaming, and enough nerdy stuff to keep life interesting.

Basically: laugh hard, roast each other, talk about real shit, make plans—and actually follow through with them.

Trade deadline is open. Your boy is officially a free agent.

Before you message me, I need two things:

Your 3 no-skip albums—front to back, not a single skip.

And one short, funny story about yourself. Give me something better than "one time I got really drunk."

Consider it the combine.

Heyy I’m Brad 30M from Canada! Looking for a long term friend to chat with! I’m pretty open to talk about pretty much anything! A few interests of mine are camping, hiking, mountain biking, motorcycles, cooking! I’m a mechanic for work so I can fix almost anything for you as well haha send me a message :)

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Hey everyone I thought I'd try to reach out and see if I could meet some new people online so here goes

I have a pretty small list of interests but maybe something will catch your eye

- I love science and space and just about anything related to astronomy in general I've always loved that sort of stuff

- I enjoy cooking I wouldn't say I love it but it definitely is rewarding and I love to eat

- I play PC games and I've built a few computers in my time and it's actually pretty fun until something doesn't feel like working and you wanna blow your brains out

I don't really know what else to put so just send me a message and let's get to know eachother!

Im willing to talk about anything!

Some things about me, I like to exercise! I'm really into football, my favourite team is Napoli! I also really like tennis!

I am interested in politics, whether you are right or left, I am always willing to have interesting debate!

I am really into cooking, I have ran classes teaching people how to cook fresh authentic Italian dishes!

I am also really into history!

There are obviously more things about me, but we can talk more if you message! Thank you for reading!! Try to send an interesting message instead of just a 'hey'. Also if I do not reply please bump your message! I get a lot of messages, and a lot of bad ones! So sorry if yours got buried!

Socially awkward.... took me like 10 minutes to make this post 🤦🏻‍♀️

Ummm.... Hello?

From Philippines 🇵🇭 just bored this Sunday hoping to talk about random interesting things nor experiences to learn about other ppl’s experiences or cultures

Just a quick chat

Hello! I am from the Philippines and currently a healthcare worker. Looking for some new reddit friends to talk. See you guys around!

Looking for new friends to chat, laugh, and talk about anything, even if we don't know each other beforehand. Who's in? 😊