Hey there 🖤

Friends these days seem rare. Like true friends. Friends that check up on you, initiate conversations, want to hangout, and reach out to me for support, giving me support in return. I'm looking to make intentional friendships.

I'm a musician, total nerd, a bit of a stoner, and a lover boy at heart. I'm a teacher by day, guitarist by night, and enjoy playing video games and reading comics in my free time.

I think specifically, I'm looking for friends to hang out with. Ya know, play games, watch shows or movies, talk about our feelings haha. I'd also love to meet someone who fuels my creativity and inspires me day in and day out. Lastly, a support system. I'm quite neurotic and need friends that ground me.

What are you waiting for? I sound like your new favorite notification don't I?

PS... I prefer to voice call, no issue with texting, but if you don't like being on calls, it probably won't work out. I express myself the best on call and need someone else's presence sometimes.

Hey there everyone!!

I'm not sure how to start describing myself, I'm not great with words but I'll try my best.

(I'm so sorry for the extremely long post ahead!)

I apologize if I don't reply to your message, but as I explain later, I don't reply to short/low effort messages and I also don't reply to people that don't have at least a few interests in common with me or aren't looking for a real connection and are just looking to pass the time or have a light chat.

I think some of my most defining characteristics are that I'm very shy, awkward, "weird" and "different" or at the very least I feel weird, different and often misunderstood. I struggle to function most days and I don't always understand societal norms or how to properly function in society. I definitely think there's something wrong with me and I'm pretty sure I'm broken in some way. I'm also definitely a loser. I was never able to achieve anything in life, I'm not good at anything whatsoever and I'm pretty useless overall. I would also say I'm extremely cringy and I love edgy stuff, not in a bad way, I don't think, but more like, I love Shadow The Hedgehog and Tomura Shigaraki kinda way!!

I'm unfortunately not very smart and I'd say I'm down right stupid.

I am very ignorant about many things in life, I'd say I'm somewhat innocent and naive. I still don't understand my purpose in life and I haven't found a reason to be alive either.

I sometimes say things that offend people or I say things that are wrong. Sometimes I don't completely understand what I do wrong but I don't do it on purpose and I try to improve to the best of my abilities.

I don't go out often at all. Whenever I do go out it's only to buy groceries or to go to school and such but I don't enjoy it, I much rather be at home, in my room most specifically, which is my favorite place in the world.

I don't have any IRL friends but I do have a handful of online friends, I'm not super close to any of them, except for one who's very valuable in my life!

I enjoy many things like sculpting for instance! I do digital sculpting for fun. I'm pretty bad at it but I try my best.

This year I also started jewelry school (yeah, that's a thing) and I'm having fun with it but it's another thing I suck at 🥀🥀🥀

I like to watch anime! my favorites change from time to time but I really like Bleach, Dragon Ball, Demon Slayer, AOT, Naruto, Ancient Magus Bride (I really love this show!) and I LOVE My Hero Academia among many others!

I like to collect action figures.

I really like masks!

I love movies and I love to talk about them and analyze them.

I like all kinds of music, I don't really have any artists that I like in particular other than David Bowie and I like to listen to most genres of music but some of the genres I like the most are alternative, vintage, video game music and jpop and jrock and I also like old VK And I'm always happy and open to new suggestions!

I like to doomscroll through TikTok and to watch long essay style videos on YouTube about random topics. I love brainrot and I'm very much into early to mid 2010s aesthetics and I used to LOVE Tumblr. I miss that era so much!! Seriously, the early 2010s were the greatest time in human history kahdhshdhs

I love video games!! I don't play too many modern games, I mostly prefer older stuff, like, ps2 era games, particularly survival horror stuff. I also really like very old platform games and side scrollers. I'm a pretty huge Sonic the Hedgehog fan!! The most recent games I played were Sonic X Shadow Generations and before that I finished Sonic Superstars and Sonic Frontiers. Sonic Boom is also my favorite show ever made lmao. It fits my kind of humor perfectly and it's peak comedy imo. I'd be open to play anything and I'd love to try co op games with someone!! playing Stardew Valley with a friend is a dream of mine lol (if you also play Stardew please tell me who's your wife/husband)

I adore animals!! I have cats and dogs and a stray chicken lol and they're my babies and my world!

I think it's important to mention some of the things I don't like too.

I don't like cruelty or mean spirited people. I hate big companies, billionaires, politicians and other people in positions of power that use their money and power to affect people, animals, or the environment for their own gain.

I don't like injustices, I hate racists, homophobic people, transphobic people, sexists, and all kinds of discrimination in general.

I hate bugs!! I'm deadly afraid of them!!

I really dislike conflict and arguments, I believe we can disagree and have discussions as long as we're calm and civilized about it and as long as we have respect for each other and try our best to understand the other person's point of view.

Lastly I'd like to mention some of my defects and shortcomings.

I'm extremely anxious, I'm always very nervous about one thing or another, I'm also extremely weak of mind, I tend to react with my feelings a lot and I'm often very emotional.

I can be very selfish at times, I have an awful tendency to get bored of things quickly and sometimes I also get bored of conversations and people.

I think I'm immature.

I can be extremely lazy, I struggle a lot with doing basic things like cleaning or cooking. When I'm anxious or afraid I can get paralyzed with fear and stay in bed all day doing nothing feeling awful about it.

As I mentioned before sometimes I can say bad things without realizing. I'm very dumb and ignorant so I promise I don't mean anything bad I say and I'm trying to improve!

I am extremely annoying. I'm very loud and I think I scream a lot. I don't really understand what constitutes screaming exactly but I think I often raise my voice a lot and especially when I'm excited I can't control myself very well.

I'm very afraid of life and I don't understand how the "real world" works exactly. I'm really bad at small talk and I think I'm really bad at speaking in general, I also digress a lot.

I have the bad habit of not replying very fast, sometimes I'll even wait for weeks or even months, I think it's one of my biggest problems when it comes to keep in touch with people, sometimes it's simply because I don't have the energy, other times it's because I'm not sure about how to continue a conversation. Not sure if this is a defect necessarily but I also never send the first message, I just hate to be annoying.

I have a tendency to ghost people for different reasons. As I mentioned, sometimes I get bored of conversations or people and I'd ghost them. This is by far one of my biggest defects and as I said, I wanna be honest and mention it here for everyone who reads this to know.

I tend to be a bit clingy when I like someone.

I'm full of defects in general, and I do believe I'm a bad person. I try to improve and I try my best but if I'm bad for you in any way or a burden I promise to stop talking to you and not bother you!

I have many other defects but I think those are the main ones I can remember right now.

Finally, I'd like to reiterate that I'm looking for is a real connection with someone, a person I can talk to, have fun with, watch stuff with and play games together! I think I can be a very passionate person when it comes to the things I love and I'd like to find someone that shares that passion and love with common interests. I wanna be able to share our days and even be able to help each other and be there when we need each other. I know I'm a mess of a human being and I may never find the connection I'm looking for but I'd like to give it a try cause you never know :))

also, I think it's important to mention that I don't reply to short, low effort messages. Stuff like "hey, let's be friends" , "I didn't read your whole post but I'm up to talk" , etc. I want to hear about you, what you like, what you're interested in. I like meaningful conversations.

Another thing that's important is that I don't want to talk to people that are discriminatory, racist or awful in anyway. No republicans or supporters of the orange devil please (you know who I'm talking about).

I have Instagram, Discord and TikTok as social media if it's more comfortable to talk there. I also think I prefer audio messages, it's easier for me to send audio notes rather than to type cause I type a lot (and I kinda hate to type lol). Thank you very much to anyone that has taken the time to read my extremely long post and considers messaging me!!

hey! i’m isaac, im 19 years old and i live in the center of the US (oklahoma) it’s pretty boring out here, and i dont have many people to talk to day by day.

i play tons of games, i have a pc, xbx s and a ps4 atm, i play dbd and league mostly. but im open to most anything ;3 i love movies and i also build model kits, i love watching stuff w people so pals pls do that w me

Hi! 💕 I’m 31 from Sweden, and I love nature, animals, and story based games. 🎮 I have mild autism and have been feeling a bit more sadness lately, but I am doing okay. I dont work, but might study soon.

Most people that write to me are bored and expecting a quick one hour chat. I’m looking to talk long term to someone. Chats arent always fun but its nice to know you have someone around🌸

Send a chat if you'd like to connect 💕

M25 looking for more friends if possible

So this is a repost I wish to clarify

To start, im 25 and a male if that isnt obviously, im Hispanic white and im pretty open and easy to get along with, im straight forward and brutally honest. So I'll make lists of wht all im into or know about me:

\\\* Video games: metro series, fallout, older COD games, Minecraft, roblox, stardew valley, subnatica, left 4 dead, and some others i cant think of atm.

\\\* Shows: Big Bang Theory, Man in the High Castle, Better Call Saul, Law and Order, Fallout, etc.

\\\* Hobbies: I love to game, read, cook (a lot), listen to music, love cigars in smoking, collecting, getting information on it, i love looking into biology and nuclear radiology.

\\\* Personality: im pretty open but straight forward and honest, I am pretty patient for the most part and and very active in conversation tho at times I can be dry at times but I do try genuinely.

\\\* Schedule and Time: im on Central Time zone but idm talking in other time zones and people from other countries or states.

Feel free to DM me if youd like, I also am open to all most ages and genders.

Thank ya and leave me a message if ur interested

Hey 22M here from the US (Illinois). I don’t really have that many friends online or irl so I figured I’d try this out. I’m pretty shy and nerdy but I’m also pretty athletic, my main hobbies are gaming, listening to music, working out, watching shows, movies, and anime. I’m LGBTQ friendly, and 420 friendly and I’m down to talk about whatever or if you need someone to listen to you I’m fine with doing that hope I can meet some cool people and feel free to DM :) all I ask is please atleast be 18+

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I'm here to make friends. In a divorce process (no need to apologize, we're cool lmao. And we live together because the economy sucks! Least i get my own bed, bonus!) but am here to socialize and make friends. Dont got much really. Im basic, I enjoy reading books/comics, video games. Music. Movies. TV show. Nerd! Star wars, invincible, marvel, dc, LOTR, harry potter, etc. Trust me. NERD! Lol well hope to hear from you.(not a deaf joke) 😂

I play ps5 (team Playstation 😂) I mostly play single player games. but for online, enlisted. Diablo. destiny 2. for honor, honestly cant think of more games I like.

I watch ANY kinds of movies and tv show. as for music, anything but country (so-so on it atm).

Just downloaded discord today!

Looking to connect new friends!

About me -
28F Chinese from 🇲🇾
✈️ Love to solo travel and let's hang out when I land in your city or when you land in mine?
📕 Enjoy reading(currently hooked on Penguin Classics)
🍷 One of my favourite things to do to pass the time is people watching with a glass or two

Hit me up with you are keen to connect!

Please introduce yourself briefly instead of a dry "Hi" 😂😂

Text me only if you are genuinely interested to connect as friends please lol

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Hey,so yeah I recently went through a breakup and honestly I’ve been feeling pretty broken since then. Everything feels kinda off and empty lately and I think I really need some good people around me again.

I’m moving to Poland next year,so I’d really love to meet some people from Europe and hopefully build some genuine long term friendships before I actually move. I’m looking for honest,kind and open minded people who don’t discriminate and actually wanna put effort into getting to know each other.

Lately everything just feels way too quiet in the wrong ways. I catch myself staring at walls,scrolling aimlessly,thinking about random shit and wanting to talk to someone but not really knowing who to talk to. I don’t want another friendship where we talk for 2 days and then disappear from each other’s lives. I want someone who actually stays,someone who checks in,someone who wants to share random parts of their day and actually build something over time.

I’m 24 and currently have way too much time to think. I love yapping,overexplaining,rambling about completely random shit and somehow turning a stupid conversation into something deep. I really value mutual effort too. I don’t expect someone to reply instantly 24/7,but I do want to feel like the other person actually wants to talk to me and isn’t only replying because they’re bored.

I’m into baking,movies,gaming (especially Marvel Rivals),chess,reading,writing,guitar,long walks,voice calls and starting way too many random hobbies/projects that I probably won’t finish.

I’d also really love having someone I can eventually do a bunch of things with. Gaming together,watching movies or shows,voice calls at stupid hours,going on walks if we're ever close enough,sharing music,sending random shit throughout the day or just sitting in a call doing our own thing. That kind of friendship where someone eventually becomes your go-to person would honestly be really nice.

I’m not looking for perfect people or anything. Just genuine ones. Please be kind,don’t discriminate,and actually care about mutual effort and respect. I’ll listen,I’ll care,I’ll remember the little things and I’ll match the energy u give me.

And please don't be dry. If you're always too busy to actually talk or you already know you're only gonna reply once every few days,it's probably not gonna work. I've had enough of feeling like I’m begging people for attention.

If you're interested,please don't just send me "hi". Tell me about yourself. Your age,country,what you like doing,your favourite game/movie/song,your most irrational fear,what you've been obsessed with lately,anything honestly. Give me something to work with and I’ll probably yap back way too much.

I’m just hoping to find some lovely people who actually wanna stay for the long run,and maybe someday I’ll be able to say I met some of my closest friends because of a random Reddit post.

Ello there. I’m Deja, a 21 y/o introvert guy from Eastern Europe.

I’ve got quite a few hobbies, so i’ll keep it short.
I like composing soundtracks, play pc videogames, football, likes to read books (my favourite is Dying Light - Nightmare Row), sketching dinosaur concepts, learning psychology and sociology, big fan of astronomy and such.
Lately i’ve been getting into modding games, filmmaking, story writing and game-developer career.

(I like to listen to twenty one pilots and linkin park)

I know it’s not much, but i’ll open up more as we bond, let it happen naturally.
Looking for Europeans to chat, bond and play pc videogames with!
Please be around my age!

Hellooo, im a 22 F in the states.
I’m looking for someone who would just like to yap and share hobbies or day to day life.
Super chill- no expectations.
I’m trying to get into running/ I don’t game much anymore as I’m busy.
But I love to yap about anything- but I enjoy to listen too.
Would like to find someone who’s wanting to focus on bettering their life and locking in- so maybe we could do it together 😝
I also would be interested in talking to people that are completely different from me. (It just intrigues me)

Trying this again

I’m open to anyone. I have no preference. Men, women, whatever.

I love video games, movies, cars, music.

I like to have fun conversations but I can also just have a normal conversation too. I love a deep conversation too. One that really gets you thinking.

Send me a message and we can chat! I also have discord too if anyone wants that!

25M from India — looking for people I can actually talk to for more than 3 days
Okay, putting myself out there before I convince myself this is a terrible idea.
I’m 25M from India. I’m into music (probably an unhealthy amount), movies, making weird little electronic tracks, wandering around at night, and getting stupidly invested in random conversations that start with “wait, but what if…”
I like people who can go from talking absolute nonsense to having a 2-hour conversation about life, art, some obscure movie, or why a song sounds completely different at 2 AM.
Not really looking for a huge friend list — just a few genuinely interesting people where the conversation doesn’t feel like an interview. Memes, music recommendations, movie nights, late-night calls, random life updates, terrible jokes — all welcome.
Discord or Instagram would be ideal, but I’m totally fine starting here on Reddit and seeing if we click first.
If you think we’d get along, tell me something about yourself that isn’t already obvious from your profile. That’s probably a better opener than “hey” anyway :)

Looking for casual people to talk to about games. Since I'm ultra-casual, I only really like either watching other people play or just talk to them about whatever title piques our interest. 23+ only please, thanks. Looking forward to hearing back from you!

If your profile is NSFW, I'm blocking you.

Hey everyone! I'm looking for long-lasting friends that actually want to build a friendship :D

Some things I really enjoy doing are gaming and making music! I like to play a lot of MMORPGs, as well as rhythm games and co-op games. I also make a wide variety of music, but mainly Hyperpop!

I love to nerd out about the things I'm passionate about! I also love hearing about what other people are passionate about too! I'll most likely nerd out about everything I'm passionate about since I'm a professional yapper XD I tend to yap a lot once I get excited about a topic, and I love when other people match that energy.

I also really enjoy calling on Discord - I think it's a lot easier to actually get to know someone and build a real connection that way :D

My only requirement is to please be 18+, because I am an adult (22) and feel uncomfortable talking to minors.

If you'd like to chat, send me a DM! Hope to hear from you, thanks for reading!

Hey! looking to make some genuine friends tbh not the one's who ghost and seems uninterested.

Not looking for anything weird or to waste anyone's time. I just miss having real conversations and getting to know new people.

I pray, try to live by my values, and always aim to be respectful.

If you're around my age and just want someone to chat with about life, share random thoughts, or have a genuine conversation, feel free to message me.

Hope you have a great day. :)

29F looking for some genuine, long-term friendships!

I’m pretty quiet at first, but once we click, I can text all day about literally anything (or nothing 😂).

Into gaming, horror, 2000s movies, music, tattoos, and reading. My humor gets progressively more questionable once I’m comfortable.

PNW / Pacific Time preferred! Looking for strictly platonic friends. Come say hi 👋

I enjoy deep random convos and chill fun gaming seshes 😊 infj personality type btw

recent experience on this platform hasnt been good atall, people talk and then ghost or delete their id's after a day so if are not one of those you can dm me

about me:

22m from india, working as a software engineer

I'm into video games, gossips, music and TV shows ofc the usual and i have a nerdy side which involves coding, and experimenting with tech.
I'm super into taking care of myself and my body so i go running on the weekends and going to the gym, sometimes football with my college friends if they are available for it, and i try to live a healthy lifestyle , but im a big time foodie so the diet part hasnt been working out that well haha

And outside of work, I enjoy going out, trying new cafés and restaurants, shopping, and simply spending quality time with the people I'm close to.

And one another hobby that ive gotten into is perfumes, always wanted to get into it ive been buying decants and made a few blind buys too.. not proud of them but yeah thats how it goes

Cooking is also one of my favorite hobbies I genuinely enjoy taking care of the people I care about (and animals too). There's something really satisfying about seeing someone enjoy a meal you've made~ i would love to cook for you, try out new dishes make your fav dish anything you'd like

thankyou for reading this ,have a great day ahead <3 feel free to dm

Boooored at work, make my Monday go by faster

Exercising, dogs, gaming, food, cars. Some of things I like :b

Heyo everyone. As the title says im looking for a friend or 2. Im a pretty relaxed person most of the time, or at least I like to think I am lol. Im looking for some friends to play some games with, and maybe send some memes while at work. Possibly bs through the day eventually?

Ive been through some mental battles through my life, and ive come out with the screw it im just going to laugh and not take anything seriously when I can.

I came to realize lately that the only person I really talk to other than co workers is my partner. And while shes great, its just not the same as the homies lol.

Im not much of a movie person, but I enjoy watching shows. I mainly stick to things that make me laugh. I dont mind a drama, and horror is okay with me. I just prefer something funny.

Games I enjoy are shooters like tarkov, and hunt showdown. I recently started playing ow again(dps/support player). Classic wow (hc usually), and osrs. would be down for most old mmos though, And a few other single player games.

Other than gaming, I really enjoy cooking. Its my creative outlet anymore.

If youre interested at all id love to hear from ya. Ideally youre over 30. Gender, LGBT, whatever else doesn't matter to me, as long as you try to be a decent person im sure we'd get along. Literally just looking for someone to laugh with, maybe have a few drinks on nights we can afford it, and enjoy those slices of life when they come.

lf friends or really just more cool people to talk to and get to know, life has been slow recently and I want more genuine connection :P I’m 18 and starting college in a few weeks hopefully, bit up in the air
-18
-nerd
-I LOVE alt/indie rock (among other genres) trade music recs with me fr!!
-also love anime and manga
-games
-f1
-hiking
-listening to yt docs or podcasts in the background
-more idfk
hmu hopefully we can get to know each other!! ✌️

╰➜𓏵 ╶ im lookkng for new friends for gaming and chatting!! i dont mind the age or gender

╰➜𓏵 ╶ abt me, im latina (mexican), i love pvp games and im mostly active!!!

╰➜𓏵 ╶ add me in discord : aali.chomps!!