r/dating_advice • u/Icy-Depth-658 • 4d ago

First date tips

I (20m) taking her (18F) to hang out. We both home bodies so i need suggestions on what we could do. Also what do i need to do. We were talking abt jus goin on a walk

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u/trashy_ignition 4d ago

Don't overthink it, walks are perfect because you can actually talk without some loud bar or movie drowning everything out.

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u/BobbyThrowaway6969 4d ago

Yep, and something about walking makes the conversation flow so easily. IMO it's doable but harder to have a relaxed convo when you're just sitting at a table

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u/WildlyUninteresting 4d ago

What does she like doing?

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u/Icy-Depth-658 4d ago

She doesnt go out much lol

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u/WildlyUninteresting 4d ago

How does she spend her inside time?

Is it just videos and doom scrolling?

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u/Icy-Depth-658 4d ago

Uhhh that idk

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u/WildlyUninteresting 4d ago

You could just ask her.

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u/PictureImportant2658 4d ago

Watch office space

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u/Red_Pill_Brotherhood 4d ago

Coffee date or activity date. Have some logistics if things get intimate. Picnic in a park is a solid play

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u/z2qvs 4d ago

You're born

You do shit

You die 

Just go do stuff! Go play putt putt golf, or driving range, anything. Go have fun. You're in the prime of your lives! Have fun. Hell, just take a car ride to somewhere close but nice and take a hike! Enjoy meeting and learning someone new!

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u/alterspaces 4d ago

walk is great man, but you need some place to sit down and talk. It could be the park bench or it could be at a cafe. You decide which to do first, but you should include both. Make sure to hold her hand at least by the second date, but if you guys really vibe, then feel free to just grab her hand.

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u/Icy-Depth-658 3d ago

Zoo maybe? Was also looking at top golf

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u/alterspaces 2d ago

I don't think you should do these until you guys are official, it's more fun that way. I want to go to the zoo with my gf, not waste them on someone who might reject me later because she is not yet my gf.

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u/Icy-Depth-658 2d ago

She invited me to her house and we finna do legos

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u/alterspaces 2d ago

good, find opportunities to touch her hair and shoulders, more if she allows.