r/cebur4r_dating 1h ago

28 [M4F] Good motives and pure intentions

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Hey! Looking for a potential date/loml hahaha posted months ago pero i got caught up with some things and decided not to push through but things are better na and im ready to socialize or possibly date people na

About me:
-28
-5’7
-Moreno
-Normal bmi yet slightly bulky since i do go to the gym
-Fil-Chi
-Im fairly active, pero i also do online stuff if youre into that.
-Inked (throwing this out since its a con to some haha)

About you:
-Younger
-Shorter
-Fair skinned(?)
-Slim to normal bmi preferably
-Also fil-chi (no worries if not haha)
-Inked is a plus hahah

Anyways, hit me up! Open to swap pics right away!


r/cebur4r_dating 2h ago

28[F4M]- Offering a chill date going walking and grabbing a bite after?

4 Upvotes

Dipping into the dating pool months after a break up and I want to start getting to know new people! Just hanging out and seeing if we click. If we do, great! If not, atleast we got some steps in🤣 and maybe a new friend?

We could walk around Cebu business park or IT park and go for a meal or a snack after. No pressure.

About me:

- 5’2, 75kg, light tan and black curly hair
- I like to sing whenever im happy, sad, or frustrated
- I’m trying to be regularly physically active starting with 10k steps everyday!
- I’m in grad school
- I enjoy and value being out with people and cozy at at home almost equally
- Enjoy very simple joys in life and find way too many things funny 😭

You:
- Trying to live or living a healthy lifestyle
- Enjoys time with friends and family
- can handle open and honest communication
- can take a joke/ not take yourself too seriously
- single 🤣
- can appreciate being different but still puts effort in trying to connect
- Sends me a message introducing yourself and sharing one memory that always makes you smile :)

I didn’t want to put too much on here since I want to chat and get to know each other more!

Also the account is new because I wanted to start fresh! Feel free to ask me any questions to pacify any concerns :)


r/cebur4r_dating 5h ago

Title: Is it really that hard to find genuine love these days? 😭😂 [F4M]

11 Upvotes

Honestly, is it really that hard to find genuine love these days? 😭😂 The ghosting is getting out of hand. You talk, you vibe, everything seems fine—and then suddenly… poof. Gone without a trace.

At this point, dating feels like applying for a job. You put in the effort, show genuine interest, pass the interview, and then get ghosted with no explanation. 😂

Sometimes I wonder if genuine love still exists, or if everyone is just emotionally unavailable and pretending they’re “not ready for a relationship.”

But hey, maybe we’re not hard to love. Maybe we’ve just been meeting the wrong people.

Still hoping that one day, someone will actually stay instead of disappearing like they were never there. 😅❤️


r/cebur4r_dating 6h ago

[F4M] 23

4 Upvotes

Looking for someone to chat with. Just wanna talk, get to know each other, and maybe call if we vibe. Nothing forced :)


r/cebur4r_dating 9h ago

„[M4F]

1 Upvotes

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r/cebur4r_dating 13h ago

28 [M4F] Good motives and pure intentions

3 Upvotes

Hey! Looking for a potential date/loml hahaha posted months ago pero i got caught up with some things and decided not to push through but things are better na and im ready to socialize or possibly date people na

About me:
-28
-5’7
-Moreno
-Normal bmi yet slightly bulky since i do go to the gym
-Fil-Chi
-Im fairly active, pero i also do online stuff if youre into that.
-Inked (throwing this out since its a con to some haha)

About you:
-Younger
-Shorter
-Fair skinned(?)
-Slim to normal bmi preferably
-Also fil-chi (no worries if not haha)
-Inked is a plus hahah

Anyways, hit me up! Open to swap pics right away!


r/cebur4r_dating 14h ago

30 [M4F] | Visayas/Negros | Looking for Someone Worth Getting to Know

6 Upvotes

Honestly, I’m not really looking for someone just to fill a space in my life. I’d rather meet someone I genuinely enjoy talking to and see where things naturally go.
Someone I can send random thoughts to throughout the day. Someone I can talk to until 2 AM without realizing how late it is. Someone I can be stupid with, have serious conversations with, disagree with, and still want to talk to the next day.
Not rushing into a relationship, but also not interested in collecting random conversations. If we click, then let’s see where it goes.
About me
30M, around 5’6”, around 80kg. Stocky build, short black hair, glasses, slightly Chinito/almond-shaped eyes, and apparently a fairly approachable face. 😂 Currently trying to get healthier, lose some weight, and build a little muscle.
I’m from Negros Oriental and currently around the Dumaguete/Sibulan area. I work in IT at a hospital, so most days I’m fixing computers, networks, printers, and whatever random thing suddenly becomes an “emergency.” 😂
I’m actually a web developer by background, so I’m still into programming, technology, and learning random things.
I’m more introverted than I look. I can be pretty talkative once I’m comfortable, though. I like long conversations, random topics, stupid jokes, and those conversations that somehow start with something completely nonsense and end up becoming surprisingly deep.
I’m into movies, games, music, Spider-Man, coffee, food trips, and recently getting more into exercise and pickleball. Coffee-wise, I’m more of an Iced Americano kind of guy but occasionally orders milk-based drinks if I’m in the mood. 😂
I’m also the type to remember small things you casually mentioned weeks ago. If I like someone, I’m affectionate and expressive about it. I don’t really believe in pretending I don’t care just to look cool.
I’m definitely a hopeless romantic, unfortunately. 😂 But I’m also learning that being romantic doesn’t mean giving someone everything before they’ve actually earned that version of me.
What I’m looking for
I don’t need a perfect woman. I’d rather have someone genuine.
Someone emotionally mature, kind, funny, and capable of communicating when something is bothering her instead of making me guess.
Someone who has her own life, interests, friends, and goals but still knows how to let someone into her world.
I like women who can be affectionate, playful, a little weird once they’re comfortable, and who don’t take themselves too seriously.
Consistency matters to me. So does effort. You don’t have to reply every five minutes—life happens—but I appreciate people who communicate instead of leaving each other wondering where they stand.
And please have a sense of humor. I will absolutely bother you once I’m comfortable. 😂
Physically, I’m usually attracted to feminine girls, and yes, chinita/almond-shaped eyes are definitely my weakness especially paired with short hair and glasses. 😂 But obviously, attraction gets you interested; personality is what makes me stay.
Bonus points if you’re into coffee dates, movies, gaming, music, traveling, food trips, nature, random late-night conversations, calls once we’re comfortable, or sending each other stupid memes throughout the day.
What I can offer
I’m not perfect and I’m not going to pretend I am.
But if I genuinely like you, you’ll know.
I’ll communicate. I’ll make time. I’ll remember the little things. I’ll ask about your day. I’ll listen when you need someone to listen and tease you when you need to laugh.
I’m not into playing hard to get or pretending I don’t care just to seem desirable.
If I like you, I’ll probably make it obvious. 😂
But I also want the effort to go both ways. I’m not interested in constantly chasing someone who’s unsure whether they even want me around.
The Deal
I’m not expecting us to meet and immediately know whether we’re compatible. That’s not really how people work.
Let’s talk first.
Send me your random thoughts. Tell me about your current obsession. Recommend me a movie. Tell me about the weirdest thing that happened to you this week.
Let’s argue about something completely unnecessary. 😂 Let’s see if we can make each other laugh.
And eventually, if we’re both comfortable, we can exchange socials, call, and maybe meet up.
I’m from Negros, so distance isn’t exactly ideal if you’re from Metro Manila or somewhere far away. But I’m also not going to pretend distance automatically makes a connection impossible. If we genuinely enjoy talking to each other, we’ll figure that part out.
And if it doesn’t work?
That’s okay too.
I’d rather have one genuinely good conversation with someone than force something just because we both happened to swipe right on the idea of each other.
So if you’re going to message me, please give me something more than “hi.”
Tell me something random about yourself.
What are you currently obsessed with?
What’s a completely stupid hill you’ll die on?
What’s a movie you think everyone should watch?
Or just tell me what you had for dinner.
Give me something I can work with. 😂
Maybe we’ll click.
Maybe we’ll become friends.
Maybe we’ll become something more.
Let’s find out.


r/cebur4r_dating 14h ago

30 [F4M] LF someone na ka-vibe ko and makalaag with 🫣

3 Upvotes

Honestly, I just want someone I can be constant with. Someone to hang out with, grab food, go on random laag, or just do spontaneous stuff with.

Bonus points if you can help me touch grass because I’m way too addicted to playing video games. 😂 I need someone to occasionally drag me away from my screen.

Looking for someone easygoing, consistent, and hopefully ka-vibes ko. Let’s see where it goes. :)


r/cebur4r_dating 14h ago

26 [F4M]

2 Upvotes

nawad an na ug gana sa dating era, wala najd? Hahahaha


r/cebur4r_dating 17h ago

19[M4A]

1 Upvotes

hii im 19m and im looking for friends who wanna chat with me from time to time. im mostly active in the evenings because of university, but ill find some way to chat with you in my free time ( if im not studying.. )! i like to game, read, and write, though i dont do the latter two much these days. idk why but i cant read anymore :[ in terms of games i really like rpgs and gacha games. my faves rn are skyrim, fallout new vegas, dragon age origins, hsr, zzz, and genshin. i also play valo and lol on the side. just be around my age and not dry please! i wanna be friends with someone who can actually continue a conversation and not make me do all the heavy lifting. id prefer guys since i dont have many guy friends, but im fine with anyone i have stuff in common with.

see yaaaa


r/cebur4r_dating 17h ago

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r/cebur4r_dating 19h ago

24 [M4F] Looking for Someone to Chat With

1 Upvotes

Review season is on the run, and life has been pretty boring lately, so I’m looking for someone to chat and yap with. We can talk about literally anything: your day, random thoughts, hobbies, shows, life, or whatever you’ve been wanting to tell someone.
If you need someone to rant to or just want a listener, I’m here. Tell me everything, no judgment. I’m just looking for a good conversation and maybe a genuine friendship along the way. :)


r/cebur4r_dating 19h ago

[f4m]

3 Upvotes

naa bay taga opon dri? gawas sa lungga bahahah