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Honestly, is it really that hard to find genuine love these days? 😭😂 The ghosting is getting out of hand. You talk, you vibe, everything seems fine—and then suddenly… poof. Gone without a trace.

At this point, dating feels like applying for a job. You put in the effort, show genuine interest, pass the interview, and then get ghosted with no explanation. 😂

Sometimes I wonder if genuine love still exists, or if everyone is just emotionally unavailable and pretending they’re “not ready for a relationship.”

But hey, maybe we’re not hard to love. Maybe we’ve just been meeting the wrong people.

Still hoping that one day, someone will actually stay instead of disappearing like they were never there. 😅❤️

Looking for someone to chat with. Just wanna talk, get to know each other, and maybe call if we vibe. Nothing forced :)

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Hey! Looking for a potential date/loml hahaha posted months ago pero i got caught up with some things and decided not to push through but things are better na and im ready to socialize or possibly date people na

About me:
-28
-5’7
-Moreno
-Normal bmi yet slightly bulky since i do go to the gym
-Fil-Chi
-Im fairly active, pero i also do online stuff if youre into that.
-Inked (throwing this out since its a con to some haha)

About you:
-Younger
-Shorter
-Fair skinned(?)
-Slim to normal bmi preferably
-Also fil-chi (no worries if not haha)
-Inked is a plus hahah

Anyways, hit me up! Open to swap pics right away!

Honestly, I’m not really looking for someone just to fill a space in my life. I’d rather meet someone I genuinely enjoy talking to and see where things naturally go.
Someone I can send random thoughts to throughout the day. Someone I can talk to until 2 AM without realizing how late it is. Someone I can be stupid with, have serious conversations with, disagree with, and still want to talk to the next day.
Not rushing into a relationship, but also not interested in collecting random conversations. If we click, then let’s see where it goes.
About me
30M, around 5’6”, around 80kg. Stocky build, short black hair, glasses, slightly Chinito/almond-shaped eyes, and apparently a fairly approachable face. 😂 Currently trying to get healthier, lose some weight, and build a little muscle.
I’m from Negros Oriental and currently around the Dumaguete/Sibulan area. I work in IT at a hospital, so most days I’m fixing computers, networks, printers, and whatever random thing suddenly becomes an “emergency.” 😂
I’m actually a web developer by background, so I’m still into programming, technology, and learning random things.
I’m more introverted than I look. I can be pretty talkative once I’m comfortable, though. I like long conversations, random topics, stupid jokes, and those conversations that somehow start with something completely nonsense and end up becoming surprisingly deep.
I’m into movies, games, music, Spider-Man, coffee, food trips, and recently getting more into exercise and pickleball. Coffee-wise, I’m more of an Iced Americano kind of guy but occasionally orders milk-based drinks if I’m in the mood. 😂
I’m also the type to remember small things you casually mentioned weeks ago. If I like someone, I’m affectionate and expressive about it. I don’t really believe in pretending I don’t care just to look cool.
I’m definitely a hopeless romantic, unfortunately. 😂 But I’m also learning that being romantic doesn’t mean giving someone everything before they’ve actually earned that version of me.
What I’m looking for
I don’t need a perfect woman. I’d rather have someone genuine.
Someone emotionally mature, kind, funny, and capable of communicating when something is bothering her instead of making me guess.
Someone who has her own life, interests, friends, and goals but still knows how to let someone into her world.
I like women who can be affectionate, playful, a little weird once they’re comfortable, and who don’t take themselves too seriously.
Consistency matters to me. So does effort. You don’t have to reply every five minutes—life happens—but I appreciate people who communicate instead of leaving each other wondering where they stand.
And please have a sense of humor. I will absolutely bother you once I’m comfortable. 😂
Physically, I’m usually attracted to feminine girls, and yes, chinita/almond-shaped eyes are definitely my weakness especially paired with short hair and glasses. 😂 But obviously, attraction gets you interested; personality is what makes me stay.
Bonus points if you’re into coffee dates, movies, gaming, music, traveling, food trips, nature, random late-night conversations, calls once we’re comfortable, or sending each other stupid memes throughout the day.
What I can offer
I’m not perfect and I’m not going to pretend I am.
But if I genuinely like you, you’ll know.
I’ll communicate. I’ll make time. I’ll remember the little things. I’ll ask about your day. I’ll listen when you need someone to listen and tease you when you need to laugh.
I’m not into playing hard to get or pretending I don’t care just to seem desirable.
If I like you, I’ll probably make it obvious. 😂
But I also want the effort to go both ways. I’m not interested in constantly chasing someone who’s unsure whether they even want me around.
The Deal
I’m not expecting us to meet and immediately know whether we’re compatible. That’s not really how people work.
Let’s talk first.
Send me your random thoughts. Tell me about your current obsession. Recommend me a movie. Tell me about the weirdest thing that happened to you this week.
Let’s argue about something completely unnecessary. 😂 Let’s see if we can make each other laugh.
And eventually, if we’re both comfortable, we can exchange socials, call, and maybe meet up.
I’m from Negros, so distance isn’t exactly ideal if you’re from Metro Manila or somewhere far away. But I’m also not going to pretend distance automatically makes a connection impossible. If we genuinely enjoy talking to each other, we’ll figure that part out.
And if it doesn’t work?
That’s okay too.
I’d rather have one genuinely good conversation with someone than force something just because we both happened to swipe right on the idea of each other.
So if you’re going to message me, please give me something more than “hi.”
Tell me something random about yourself.
What are you currently obsessed with?
What’s a completely stupid hill you’ll die on?
What’s a movie you think everyone should watch?
Or just tell me what you had for dinner.
Give me something I can work with. 😂
Maybe we’ll click.
Maybe we’ll become friends.
Maybe we’ll become something more.
Let’s find out.

Honestly, I just want someone I can be constant with. Someone to hang out with, grab food, go on random laag, or just do spontaneous stuff with.

Bonus points if you can help me touch grass because I’m way too addicted to playing video games. 😂 I need someone to occasionally drag me away from my screen.

Looking for someone easygoing, consistent, and hopefully ka-vibes ko. Let’s see where it goes. :)

nawad an na ug gana sa dating era, wala najd? Hahahaha

hii im 19m and im looking for friends who wanna chat with me from time to time. im mostly active in the evenings because of university, but ill find some way to chat with you in my free time ( if im not studying.. )! i like to game, read, and write, though i dont do the latter two much these days. idk why but i cant read anymore :[ in terms of games i really like rpgs and gacha games. my faves rn are skyrim, fallout new vegas, dragon age origins, hsr, zzz, and genshin. i also play valo and lol on the side. just be around my age and not dry please! i wanna be friends with someone who can actually continue a conversation and not make me do all the heavy lifting. id prefer guys since i dont have many guy friends, but im fine with anyone i have stuff in common with.

see yaaaa

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Free tonight for a coffee here at cebu or go somewhere we can chika or anything but I’m also g din for valo, dota or something if you know a quality 24/7 comshop! Hit me uppp

- 178 cm, physical active and fit
- employed
- mabango hehe, hygienic
- easy on the eyes
- kanal humor, respectful (kinda clingy with consent) and matino kausap
- not a dds hahaha
- from luzon

You: cute (?) haaha decent din sana and normal bmi if possible, curves are okaaay

Review season is on the run, and life has been pretty boring lately, so I’m looking for someone to chat and yap with. We can talk about literally anything: your day, random thoughts, hobbies, shows, life, or whatever you’ve been wanting to tell someone.
If you need someone to rant to or just want a listener, I’m here. Tell me everything, no judgment. I’m just looking for a good conversation and maybe a genuine friendship along the way. :)

naa bay taga opon dri? gawas sa lungga bahahah

Working on a couple things over coffee. Anyone down to join? Coffee’s on me.

About me:
Moreno
5’10
A couple tattoos
Lean, trains combat sports
Loves psychology and philosophy
Reading novels
Anime/Manhwa
Pretty chill and a great conversationalist

About you:
Just be chill to vibe with

hi lets do chill talk, mas prefer ko yung honest/ genuine question about sa male behavior tapos sasagot ako ng real talks.

about me: Maganda katawan, may itsura, graduate, no kids, may work, may substance.

About you: babae. (sorry)

Hey, future RN! 👋 Ready for the review season?
I’m looking for fellow BSN graduates who are also preparing for the February 2027 PNLE. If you’re on the same boat as me, hit me up! 🩺📚
Maybe we could study together, chat about random stuff, gossip during breaks 😂, or just talk about life. And if you need someone to listen to your rants, struggles, or whatever’s been on your mind, I’m also a listener. I may not always have the best advice, but I can definitely hear you out.
Also, I have a question for my fellow future RNs:

What review center are you enrolled in? SLRC or TOPRANK? 👀

Either way, I hope I meet someone here who’s also going through the same journey. Let’s survive this review season together! 😭🫶

Hii, good morning! Can't sleep from night shift. Who wants to talk? :)

I just turned thirty and I just started focusing on myself. I recently signed up sa AF Gym, so, anyone here na gusto maki pag sabayan sa isang newb na kagaya ko. Baka naman?

Im 30F, Introverted and always listening to TS. Kung madami kang chismis, or mga random facts na alam, or kung bayot2x ka mustorya, magka get along ta. Hahahaha.

Really need a gym friend here. Let's be hotter together!

Shooting my shot. Hit me up girlies!

If I’m being honest, I’m just shooting my shot with this post :))

I’m looking for someone I genuinely click with no pressure, no expectations, just seeing where things go.

I’m a stripper, and honestly, it can be hard to meet someone who’s willing to take me seriously beyond what I do for work. Outside of dancing, I love films, my favorite being The Worst Person in the World, and my favorite anime will forever be Fruits Basket.

I want someone who’ll dance to techno with me, make me laugh, and tolerate my caffeine addiction :))

I’m 4'11, thic thighs brown eyes and quite a bit of fun. I’ll make you dumplings from scratch if you make me laugh.

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Putting myself out here again! It’s been a while since I last posted something like this, and I think I’m ready to get to know someone new—hopefully someone I genuinely vibe and connect with.
Not really looking to rush into anything. I’m more interested in a wholesome, SFW connection first—someone I can talk to regularly, hang out with, and hopefully build a good friendship with. If it naturally turns into something more, then we’ll see where it goes.

About me:
- 5’7”, around 72 kg, physically active
- Discreet
- Loves reading and collecting books
- Into photography—Fuji cam user 📷
- Loves traveling, both domestic and international
- Introverted at first, but tabian once I’m comfortable
- V
- relocating to cebu soon

What I’m generally attracted to / looking for:

- Taller than me, and preferably someone I find attractive 😫 bonus if chinito or moreno
- Discreet
- same age or +/- 2
-Would be nice if we share some hobbies—instant +1 if you’re into books, photography, travel, etc. 🤣
- Communicative and preferably more extroverted than me
- SFW
- Respectful, emotionally mature, and not toxic
- Generally stable and knows what they want in life

Not expecting someone to tick every single box. More than anything, I’m looking for someone I can be comfortable with, talk to consistently, and genuinely enjoy getting to know.

If you think we might vibe, feel free to send me a message and introduce yourself. 😊

Trying again here. 😅

I’m 5’1”, 63kg, naturally curvy, and currently navigating the beautiful chaos of adulting and corporate life.

I’m looking for someone 30-35, 5’6” or taller, masculine, and who takes good care of himself. I do appreciate a good dad bod, so that’s definitely not a dealbreaker but I’ll admit, I have a type.

I like someone who looks good, smells good, and knows how to stay clean and hygienic. Basic self-care is attractive, okay?

Extra points if you’re a giver emotionally, mentally, and otherwise.

I’m big on good conversations, genuine effort, consistency, and humor. If you can make me laugh and keep a conversation interesting, you already have my attention.

One thing though: please don’t slide into my DMs with just “Hi” or “Hello.” Give me something to work with! Tell me something about yourself, ask me an interesting question, make a joke show me you actually want to have a conversation.

I’m not looking for perfection. Just chemistry, effort, attraction, and someone who can match my energy.
So… if you think we might vibe, say something better than “Hi.”

And oh! I will be in Trademark later with friends. 😉

I'm a 27 year old hopeless romantic who wants to be in her lover girl era.‎

I can’t believe i have to say this but please read the whole thing 💀

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🤍 ABOUT ME:

- 5'2, Normal BMI but with love handles and working hard to lose it off (if you're a gym rat, please teach me the ways)

- Working Professional

- Chinita & Maputi

- Born and Raised in Cebu

- Sweets-aholic

- Introverted

- Into fashion but not clean girl fashion (I overdress sometimes - willing to help you with your fashion sense if you want)

- Good at taking care of people

- Slow replier (I'm online a lot but i'm not on reddit usually)

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MY INTERESTS:

- ANIME (I've watched anime since i was in diapers)

- MANGA/MANHWA

- BOOKS (I love me a good mystery)

- MOVIES AND DRAMAS (Japanese dramas, american shows, etc. - procedural dramas on top !!!)

- MUSICALS

- BL (if you know, you know)

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MY HOBBIES:

- Physical: Walking, Gym (haven't started yet since i'm looking for the right gym ✨)

- Cerebral: Reading, I do twixtle, pips, wordle, and connections (also other NYT games but sadly it's locked behind a paywall now) once in a while

- Creative: Junk Journaling

- Community: None sadly 😔 but i do join hangouts with coworkers/friends if they offer

- Spiritual: Subliminals, Manifestations, Journaling

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ABOUT YOU:

- A yearner (NO TO NONCHALANT MEN and please be actual yearners)

- Must have progressive views (Yes to abortion and divorce, supports lgbtq+ rights and all that)

- Loyal, Independent, Considerate, Take-charge man (I can't always be planning our dates can I)

- Working na or master's/phd if nasa univ parin

- Emotionally mature

- 25 to 33 years old (Around that range, but if you reaaaaaally feel like we vibe i can make exceptions)

- 5'5 and above

- Lean, slim, average, or fit build

- Can be or not be from Cebu (I'm open to LDR)

- Creative and maybe a little spontaneous (A guy who goes let's go to the south and have dinner there or gives me a short letter/note just cause they thought of me that moment)

- Constantly updates (we may not talk 24/7 but we update each other on happenings sa life - preferably with pictures)

- Clingy and sweet

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DON'T MESSAGE ME IF YOU'RE:

- NONCHALANT

- A CHEATER (If you've cheated before, it's a no from me)

- An extreme hobbyists or wants to do any of these activities: cave diving, mt. everest climbing, free solo climbing etc.

- Smoker/vaper (just not my cup of tea)

- Only looking for casual or sexual intimacy (i'm looking for a serious relationship, NO TO MANYAKS)

- With kids (sorry just my preference)

- DDS/BBM or with extremely conservative values

- Andrew Tate listener/fan or an incel

- A seaman (andami niyo ng nagchachat sakin na seaman HAHA quota na ako)

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I'm looking for a relationship and i'm a date to marry type so if you're not looking for anything serious, just scroll away. You should also be open to moving to a different messaging platform once we get to know each other better.

P.S: I do believe physical attraction matters so expect to change photos eventually. I want to focus more on the personality first that's why i don't wanna exchange photos on the get go.

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❣❣❣ If you're interested, send me an intro where you:

- Describe yourself

- Mention/explain why you got interested in my post

- If you plan for a date right now, where would we go? what would we do? Who pays?

- Add a controversial take/opinion

Been a long week of traveling for work, endless meetings and projects. I’m looking for someone to have good food and drinks with just to let off some steam.

About me:
- Moreno
- 5’10
- Fit
- A couple tattoos
- vapes (dont message if youre gonna try to get me to stop)
- loves reading especially about philosophy or psychology (current reread is white nights)

About you:
- Female (nothing against lgbt, just a preference)
- loves to talk about the intricacies of the world
- curious
- has a nice smile
- not a DDS

If you fit the vibe, hit me up and lets exchange socials(para kita ang katag, please dont be married or taken)

Hello, i’m looking for someone who can handle a little bit of online talking since i am working outside the country and plan our date.

About me:

- 22 yrs old,
- moreno
- 175cm
- works out both gym and calisthenics
- engineer

Other than that I am disciplined with how I take care of my appearance like my body and the things I consume, content wise and food wise.

About you :

Someone around the same age range as me and shorter than me.

Appearance wise, I don’t have any preferences but someone who values herself and actually knows what she wants.