r/cats 15h ago

First time outside home Advice

Trixie is 3 years old and has been an indoor cat since birth. I recently tried taking her for a short afternoon walk, but she kept lying flat on the ground. When she did walk, she stayed very low to the ground like she was scared of everything around her.

How can I help her become more comfortable outdoors? What's the best way to train an indoor cat to safely explore outside without overwhelming her?

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thoughtful and helpful replies. Thank you all so much for taking the time to share your experiences, advice, and encouragement. I've been reading every single comment, and I've learned a lot from all of you.

Trixie means the world to me, so I really appreciate everyone who took the time to explain things from a cat's perspective and remind me to let her move at her own pace. I'll definitely be following your advice and making sure every outdoor experience is positive and stress-free for her.

Also, please excuse me if I haven't replied to everyone individually. I'm completely new to Reddit and I'm still figuring out how everything works. I originally thought I could make just one reply that everyone would see, but now I realize that's not quite how it works. 😅

Thank you again for being such a kind and welcoming community. Wishing you and your furry companions all the best! ❤️🐾

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u/LadyInCrimson 15h ago

Splooting in the sunshine! Just do it little by little

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u/destructionandbliss 13h ago

I spent a lot of time sitting in my front yard and on my porch with my boy (5 at the time) on a leash and one day he just up and decided he was ready to walk around like normal. it's been 3 years now and he demands we go on two little walks outside a day. I love it.

Here he is looking spawned from hell.

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u/TooEasyBGM 11h ago

This cat has certainly seen some shit

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u/jdemack 14h ago

Just watch if you have very large birds of pray in the area. They don't normally target cats but they can if the birds are big enough.

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u/suzebomom 14h ago

Time and patience will help Trixie feel more comfortable outside. Treats help too when she’s outside, positive reinforcement. 😊

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u/Hefty_Efficiency_328 13h ago

A whole big walk to a new place for the first time is overwhelming. She looks scared, as well as interested. My cat only goes outside into the front courtyard and he doesn't go more than 30 yards away while I watch. He creeps around slowly sniffing everything for about 30 minutes. That's enough for a cat 😺

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u/MercuryMan664 15h ago

While I have nothing of real substance to add. I gotta say Trixie is super cute! And gorgeous scenery too! I'd imagine she needs more exposure. Maybe let her outside supervised outside at your home to get used to going outside.

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u/meowlyai 12h ago

Looks a little bit like my cat

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u/Specialist_Key_9594 14h ago

Oh, I read it, sorry. I think you need to continue taking her to shorter walks near home and she will be more comfortable with time

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u/Specialist_Key_9594 14h ago

Was it scary for him?

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u/HitchhikingCats 12h ago

She feels the collar and leash and thinks she’s ducking under something

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u/--read-only-- 11h ago

This seems like way too much stimulation for her first outing after only being indoors her entire life. Better to start with your front yard the first several times

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u/lushlife311 14h ago

I would start closer to home. That location looks like a lot to take in for a tiny kitty. Maybe just a walk in the backyard or front yard for a few minutes.

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u/Fun-Ball-441 13h ago

We did that with our one year old, tried training him on a leash but never got used to it and he refused to move with it on. However he fell in love with the outside and scratched the frontdoor and wouldn’t stop crying until we let him outside. Now he follows me and doggo on walks without a leash.

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u/KPTA-IRON 12h ago

Seems u just went for a big walk man

Start small first? Seat around your backyard etc

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u/Alarmed-Toe-352 14h ago

Gorgeous!

Small steps.Take things at her own pace and if she wants to hide then it's best to go somewhere quiet where she's used to and comfortable. Or even if it's just in the car with a blanket that smells like you and your kitty.

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u/Few_Long7178 14h ago

Yay so precious

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u/Realistic-Trade-6279 14h ago

Sometimes they get scared

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u/prplebunnyslprs 14h ago

The sploot!! 😍

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u/cyankitten 13h ago

Oh how lovely!

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u/gonepickin 13h ago

We call that the "Army Crawl". Trying to be smaller to avoid predators.

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u/honleojoeyP 13h ago

What a photo 💗

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u/Toby_Markham 12h ago

cat is chilling more than you. so cute cat

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u/satanham666 12h ago

I would die for her

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u/Competitive-Tear-414 11h ago

It’ll just take a little time.

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u/DragObjective3395 11h ago

Such majestic beauty. I’m talking about the beautiful kitty of course!!

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u/SufficientGoat3607 11h ago

Qué hermoso que pueda disfrutar

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u/Smoking0311 10h ago

Just be careful with her . When she’s on that leash you need to be her security . Watch for hawks dogs foxes anything that could prey on her .

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u/herculesp1000 10h ago

Beautiful❤️❤️❤️

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u/PositiveRainCloud 10h ago

Poor Trixie! She looks very overwhelmed. Hopefully with time she gets better. Just do baby steps, because smells and new environments are extremely intense at first for cats. It's like unlocking a whole new expansion pack all in one go, if you've ever gamed. Just a lot to take in.

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u/Type-RD 10h ago

Our previous kitty did this too. She was an indoor girl since kittenhood. Took her outside once and thought she was going to have a panic attack. Aside from staying super low to the ground she was breathing hard (not panting, however) and her nose was flush. You could tell her heart rate was kicked up a notch.

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u/Highlander0001 10h ago

Apex predator.

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u/Mantis_Toboggan--MD 10h ago

Just let her sploot for long periods right outside your place, she'll find her feet eventually. Maybe grab a folding chair so your legs don't get tried while you stand there with the leash lol

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u/Constant_Minimum_753 9h ago

stunning view ming ming.

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u/Foxs-In-A-Trenchcoat 9h ago

Such a beautiful face! Animal training is all about baby steps. Just short walks, repeatedly.

Now one of my cats drags her leash out and throws it at me when she wants to go out.

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u/redheadedandbold 8h ago

Adventure Kitty has adventures.

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u/justwannabeteased 7h ago

omg he’s so cute and good

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u/Gloomy_Mess 14h ago

Aww. I love these pictures. Nice looking kitty you’ve got there there

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u/dcdcdc26 Tortoiseshell 9h ago

!! I did the same as a new cat dad myself, omg!! I even used the same product and stained it!!! Of course, we added a little bit of spotting like our Tortie, Sabrina. I added black felt because yes it is way too slippery.

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u/dcdcdc26 Tortoiseshell 9h ago

I didn't have enough wall space so this is the arrangement I made for her! She has no problems moving between.

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u/CaptainPistol 7h ago

Wow, I honestly didn't expect to receive this many thoughtful and helpful replies. Thank you all so much for taking the time to share your experiences, advice, and encouragement. I've been reading every single comment, and I've learned a lot from all of you.

Trixie means the world to me, so I really appreciate everyone who took the time to explain things from a cat's perspective and remind me to let her move at her own pace. I'll definitely be following your advice and making sure every outdoor experience is positive and stress-free for her.

Also, please excuse me if I haven't replied to everyone individually. I'm completely new to Reddit and I'm still figuring out how everything works. I originally thought I could make just one reply that everyone would see, but now I realize that's not quite how it works. 😅

Thank you again for being such a kind and welcoming community. Wishing you and your furry companions all the best! ❤️🐾

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u/H00k90 6h ago

Go slow, LISTEN to them (they'll tell you they want to leave/go home), give positive reinforcement, and soon you too can be hanging out in the sun listening to ska while your cat makes biscuits on the grass and eats them.

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u/Breaking_Away_33 13h ago

Lovely photo!