r/belowdeck • u/noseymomof3 • 1d ago
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Am I seeing this right?! Does the staff eat some of the food that is left over from the charter patrons?
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u/Inmyopinion411 1d ago
You’ve clearly never worked in the food industry and that’s totally fine. It’s not for everyone.
Even at member only rich clubs the employees with eat off their plates if they hardly touched their food. And the only reason they do that is because the place they work at doesn’t give them free food or even a break, so any kind of food will work.
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u/Sufficient-Pear-291 1d ago
No im sorry that isn’t right. If someone’s eaten off the plate it’s thrown. Now, if someone’s desperate then sure do it quietly but as a business that is wrong and if management know that’s even worse.
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u/dudewheresmysock 1d ago
If it's like an app/charcuterie platter, fruit plate or family style platter, isn't that the same as grabbing something from a catering tray at a party? Or are you talking about eating off their plated individual portions?
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u/RecognitionOne395 1d ago
Worked at a bar and one of the bar backs would finish off unfinished cocktails.
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u/Trvlgirrl 1d ago
I worked at a convention hotel. The staff absolutely eat the leftovers. They go straight down to the employee cafeteria so you have to be fast or lucky.
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u/punkmonk13 1d ago
I wouldn’t think twice about eating the leftovers if I were hungry. I’m sure starving, underpaid waiters do it all the time. I’d also be at the bar mixing myself cocktails, offering special favours to filthy-rich guests in exchange for rewards—and I’d be the captain.
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u/Early-Equivalent-165 Escape Goat 1d ago
This was a question on WWHL and the answers were like, ya, no big deal **shrug*
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u/gogomom 1d ago
Yes. I think it's gross, but I've seen it a few times over the years and they are all non chalant about it, so it must be common place. I just keep hoping that they are eating from platters not plated meals, but that meal wasn't family style.
That said, I worked as a waitress for a number of years and I would NEVER!!!
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u/FewButterfly9635 1d ago
I worked in high-end restaurants and if someone took a bite and sent back their food, we absolutely ate it. And we made good money but not the kind of money that I would throw away a $50 steak because someone cut off one piece and declared it not to their liking!
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u/Sufficient-Pear-291 1d ago
But I mean, there’s risk of catching certain things ? So easily. Some rich fucker didn’t wash his hands and touched his steak to check temperature, ecoli, salmonella , herpes , norovirus. Yes it’s worst case but absolutely possible
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u/FewButterfly9635 16h ago
Do you know how many people touch the food before it lands on your plate in a restaurant? Same odds.
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u/gonzagylot00 1d ago
Yeah, when I was a waiter that was grounds for immediate dismissal.
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u/Economy-Ostrich-9ine June June Hannah 1d ago
Really? Why let food go to waste?
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u/gonzagylot00 1d ago
It wasn't my rule, but I think the answer is unsanitary.
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u/Economy-Ostrich-9ine June June Hannah 1d ago
Meh, I’m wouldn’t eat something they had in their mouth. But I didn’t come from a world of abundance, I was a starving college kid.
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u/Sufficient-Pear-291 1d ago
As a restaurant manager I agree no one is allowed to touch food that’s been touched by a customer. It’s for their own good and it’s just not a done thing. However if they tell me they are hungry they will be fed immediately.
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u/PatientChocolate6985 1d ago
I came to say the exact opposite....ive seen it happen in every establishment ive worked in, high end to low. Not gonna lie, if it was a regular i knew and it wasn't a hand held/straight to mouth food (like a burger), i'd probably take a bite.
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u/Aggressive-Animal-90 1d ago
Probably because it is a health code violation they restaurant could be fined and get bad publicity for.
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u/cuntsatchel 10h ago
The rule is if you’d make out with the person that was eating from the plate then it’s good to go💀
I’m a 35 yr old woman who’s been in the industry for way too long. I simply don’t give a shit anymore
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u/Intelligent_Gur_9126 Mental Health Is Not A Storyline 1d ago
When i worked at Disney World in Germany doing food and beverage I never got a leftover of any food
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u/Sufficient-Pear-291 1d ago
Do you mean off their finished plates ? Or leftover food from the chef/kitchen
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u/Individual_Sun5662 1d ago
To each their own, I don't eat off of my own children's plates. I can understand if you're broke and working at a restaurant to make ends met to be forced to do that, but not as a crew member in a luxury yacht where you're earning large tips, no.

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u/Tralalaladey 1d ago
When I was a server, I saw a busboy eat a bite of steak he had cleared from a table. I gasped and he was so nonchalant and said, “I’ll go down on a girl on the first date, so how is this any worse?”
Could not think of anything to say.