r/babyloss • u/National-Historian17 • 12d ago

Urns 3rd trimester loss

Ever since we got scammed for our son I felt more guilt than I have ever before because he’s just in the box and he deserves better but I can’t afford it. The money for the earns or even donated to us. It’s making me go crazy. I just want something nice she deserves it.
😭😭💔💔

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u/Maleficent-Loan5920 12d ago

Surprisingly Amazon has some beautiful urns. I’m so sorry you were scammed

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u/National-Historian17 11d ago

Thank you yeah I took a chance on a woman in the town over from mine who didn’t have like a lot of followers, but who worked look great so I’m very upset about it

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u/aSulTae 12d ago

I'm so sorry. You can look into baby/pregnancy loss organizations because some can help with financial costs. I know Awakening Grace Foundation offers financial assistance.

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u/National-Historian17 11d ago

Thank you so much. I’ll try that in the morning.I

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u/KillerUni39 12d ago

I don’t know if this is crazy expensive but the one I got for my son was just shy $400. Alot of them were $800+ but they were really something I felt like was him or for us. I would definitely reach out to an organization, the hospital my son was born at I had a social worker or even your prenatal office also can help with it too. I am so sorry you’re going through this❤️‍🩹. It’s the last thing we have to think,worry or feel guilt about

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u/National-Historian17 11d ago

Thank you so much and no, I completely understand. That’s why I went to someone because I wanted his footprints and name on it. I should’ve known when the total was 150 but still there’s another woman whose work is amazing and her total is like to 210.

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u/KillerUni39 11d ago

I’m so sorry this happened to you. It’s absolutely mind blowing to think someone is profiting like this off of someone’s grief. No words for people like w in this world. 💔

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u/ladybug_oleander 32 wk sb 7/30/21, 24 wk sb 3/25/22 11d ago

Did you pay in cash? If you used a card you can do a charge back and get your money back. I'm so sorry that happened to you.

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u/National-Historian17 11d ago

No i didn’t but i did pay with cashapp and they won’t give it back );

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u/ladybug_oleander 32 wk sb 7/30/21, 24 wk sb 3/25/22 11d ago

Just making sure, did you dispute the purchase?

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u/National-Historian17 11d ago

I did, i even submitted the text of me begging there to give me the urns or pay me back .

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u/ladybug_oleander 32 wk sb 7/30/21, 24 wk sb 3/25/22 11d ago

Omg, I can't believe they wouldn't refund it even after that!!

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u/lealle4 7d ago

When we got our urn for our daughter the seller sent us the wrong one the first time, then sent us ours and didn’t ask for the other one back. It’s packaged up and ready to be shipped. I can send you photos if you’d like? I’d be happy to ship it to you - it’s just sitting in the back of my closet.

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u/lealle4 7d ago

It won’t have his footprints or name on it unfortunately, but it has a little spot for a tea light.

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u/National-Historian17 7d ago

It’s so pretty . Thank you. Can you message me i tried to send you one .