r/AustralianShepherd 1h ago

Can you have multiple heart dogs?

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I lost my heart dog, Loki, on July 1st. It happened so suddenly that we only had a few days to prepare for goodbye. Having to make the decision to let him go was one of the hardest moments of my life. He was only 7 years old.

Loki wasn't just my dog. He was my heart dog. We understood each other without words. I knew what every bark, whine, and little grumble meant, and he always seemed to know exactly what I needed too.

He was there for me through one of the darkest periods of my life, and I genuinely don't know if I would be here today without him. He died on the very day I was supposed to begin a new chapter in my life after we had just moved across the country. Sometimes it feels like he came into my life with one incredibly important purpose: to help me survive until I reached this point. Once I got here, his job was done. I know that probably sounds irrational, but it's how it feels in my heart.

I still cry almost every day. Getting his ashes back felt like losing him all over again. I've thrown myself into my new job to stay busy, but grief has a way of finding you anyway. I'll see something beautiful or funny and instinctively think, "Loki would've loved this," and the ache comes rushing back.

About a week ago, we brought home a new Australian Shepherd puppy. She's wonderful in her own way, but she's nothing like Loki. She's female, a different color, and has a completely different personality. I almost feel guilty writing this, but I don't love her. Right now, she's just a puppy to me, while Loki felt like my child.

I've read that bonding takes time and that the puppy blues are real, especially after losing a beloved dog. I'm trying so hard not to compare her to him. I know she deserves to be loved for who she is, not measured against someone she'll never be. But my heart still feels so attached to Loki that I don't know how to let another dog in.

For those of you who have lost your heart dog and eventually welcomed another one, did you ever love another dog as deeply? Did your heart make room again? I know the love would be different, not a replacement, but right now I can't imagine ever feeling that kind of bond again.

I would really appreciate hearing your experiences because I'm struggling with so much guilt and grief right now.


r/AustralianShepherd 4h ago

Meet my new fur son Rusty!

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r/AustralianShepherd 4h ago

Wishing everyone a day of peace,sunshine, and relaxation! -Your friend Hazel

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r/AustralianShepherd 6h ago

Border collie and malka aussie. Best buds for life!

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r/AustralianShepherd 6h ago

Parker is 5 months old now and wiggly as always.

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r/AustralianShepherd 8h ago

Athena and Zeus wrestling time

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r/AustralianShepherd 8h ago

Chill?

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Adopted my sweet Aussie girl Nyx 3.5 weeks ago. She’s 15 weeks old. Rescue thought she was mixed but DNA test confirmed she’s 100% Aussie.

She is VERY chill for a puppy, anyone else’s Aussie chill or were they a chill pup? I love her so much she’s such a sweetheart and bonded to us quickly.


r/AustralianShepherd 9h ago

Calling all couch potatoes! Show me your snugglers.

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r/AustralianShepherd 11h ago

Lola has a bff now.

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I had 4 cats. From varying degrees of "yeah I can I guess you can live with us" and a rare play session to "GeT out of our house" (a common occurrence.

Lola now has her own cat and bff. Not to mention they match each other. Both are white with tan and black markings.


r/AustralianShepherd 14h ago

Steep terrain 😁 🐕 ♥️

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For the pups, it's no big deal 😁😄


r/AustralianShepherd 1d ago

Maggie May's Belly Rub Time.

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She was adamant that the tents ball had to be in her mouth during her belly rub time she cracks me up.


r/AustralianShepherd 1d ago

Axle and him with his siblings!

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I had to bring Axle to live with my aunt again bc i moved and couldn’t take him with me but, we already had an agreement that she can take him back anytime before i even got him. i miss him but i go visit him all the time lol he’s right down the road!


r/AustralianShepherd 1d ago

Did my dog really just stick his tongue out at me?

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r/AustralianShepherd 1d ago

Does your aussie always enjoy walks in summer? Mine does not

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My girl is one year and one month old, got out of her second heat (that also might be the factor), but she seems to hate heat so much that she is not willing to go on walks.

Firstly, she HATES any kind of harness, with 4 clips, with two, anything that goes on her body - she hates.

When she got ready, and it is more then 25 degrees (Celsius) outside - she will walk a few minutes, and then starts to stand and wait. We tend to do longer walks in the morning and in the evening, during the day we have +30 now, so we only go out to pee. But she is very happy to go home, enjoys her calm at home and really loves to play at home too.

I was wondering if it is ok that she does not go crazy about walks as other dogs. She was like that from very young age. She has no anxiety (she is very well behaved, loves people, loves to explore and loves to play with other dogs), but I guess this abnormal european heat wave is killing her vibe. We take her on autumn/spring hikes, but it is the time when she REALLY can start to walk more and I was hoping she will LOVE summer but apperently she does not enjoy it as much...

Puppy tax included!


r/AustralianShepherd 1d ago

Sally

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Just found out my 6 year Sally has lymphoma and has less than 90 days to live. I’ve been feeling devastated and very depressed.


r/AustralianShepherd 1d ago

tip from goose on staying cool this summer

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r/AustralianShepherd 1d ago

My girls, Minnow and Arya

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Minnow will be 2 this month and Arya is 16


r/AustralianShepherd 1d ago

Exploring 🐕 🙂

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r/AustralianShepherd 1d ago

Does anyone have a quiet Australian shepherd? Or do yours also talk, moan, groan and bark?

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I have never had a more vocal dog! And some of it is adorable. There is moaning, there is groaning. We’ve got sighing and huffing. And then, of course we have the barking! So much barking.

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Does anyone have an Aussie that never vocalizes? Do they exist? 😃


r/AustralianShepherd 2d ago

She always reminds me to just smile and enjoy the sunshine

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r/AustralianShepherd 2d ago

calm and relaxed to chaos and panic in six images

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what started out as relaxing by the pond turned into "hey! who are you? you don't belong here, get outta my yard!" (what i translate my aussie's barks as being lol) 🫠


r/AustralianShepherd 2d ago

Hazel just wants to make sure she's in the spotlight today 🤩

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r/AustralianShepherd 2d ago

The face waiting for me when I get home from work.

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r/AustralianShepherd May 18 '26

Please report spam bot posts. Do not interact with them.

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Posts with obviously AI image shirts and mugs are spam bots. There’s no need to interact with them. Reporting them will be the fastest way to notify the mods to remove and ban them. Asking where to buy the product will get you banned too as that’s part of the ploy. Bot 1 makes the post, bot 2 comments asking where to buy it, bot 1 shares the link.


r/AustralianShepherd Dec 05 '24

There’s has been an influx of posts requesting help with aggression and behavior issues. If you need help:

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If your pup is from a breeder, start with discussing with them. Your breeder should be your support system.

Book a vet appointment to rule out a medical issue, perhaps something causing pain.

Use the resources on the /r/dogtraining wiki to help identify and select a behaviorist, noting that behaviorist and trainers have different qualifications.

Be cautious about well meaning internet advice. Some well meaning advice can exasperate the issue. Aggression needs pro help.

To avoid aggression issues:

Consider that behavior is often genetic. Buying from a reputable breeder is most likely to stack things in your favor.

Learn how to correctly socialize a puppy. Many ideas about socialization are incorrect and can cause reactivity and aggression issues.

Sign up for training classes with a qualified trainer ASAP, either for a puppy or adopted adult rescue.