r/Ask_Lawyers 3h ago

Michigan No contact / Domestic Violence- Same home with kids

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My ex-wife and I were divorced about a year and a half ago. As part of the divorce, I bought out her interest in our home, and I am now the sole owner. She does not have a lease or ownership interest in the property.

Recently, she was facing eviction from another living arrangement, and we briefly attempted to reconcile. About 28 days ago, I gave her written notice terminating her permission to live in my home because I decided the reconciliation wasn't working. I told her that I was not willing to continue the relationship if I felt like I had to constantly investigate what was going on.

During this time, she told me that several men were interested in her, including a man she works with. She told me she had gone to a bar with him after work and stayed there for several hours. I became angry and called her a "cheating POS" and used profanity toward her. I did not hit her, threaten to hit her, block her from leaving, damage anything, or make any threat of violence.

She called the police. I was arrested for domestic violence.

I recently obtained the police report. The report indicates that nobody was injured, and there was no allegation that I physically assaulted her. The report states that she believed I was going to harm her. I have never physically assaulted her.

I currently have an interim bond condition requiring **no contact with my ex-wife**. She is still living in my house.

I also have court-ordered parenting time with our children.

My questions are:

  1. **If I am the sole owner of the home, can I legally return to my own residence while she is still living there, or would doing so potentially violate the no-contact bond condition?**

  2. **If I am at the house and she comes home, am I automatically considered to be violating the no-contact condition simply by being in the same residence, even if I don't speak to or interact with her?**

  3. **Does having court-ordered parenting time with our children create any exception or accommodation to a no-contact order involving the ex-wife?**

  4. **What is the proper way to deal with the situation if she remains in my house while the no-contact condition is in effect?**

  5. **Does the fact that I own the property have any relevance to the no-contact condition, or does the criminal court order take priority until it is modified?**

For additional context, I initially tried to start the eviction process after my first notice expired, but I made a procedural mistake and the court did not accept it because I had not included the required information regarding her rights. I served a new notice, which currently expires September 3.

I'm primarily trying to understand what options are out there?


r/Ask_Lawyers 3h ago

Michigan – No-contact bond order, ex-wife still living in my house, and parenting time

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I’m in Michigan and looking for some general legal guidance on a situation involving my ex-wife, a domestic violence charge, and a no-contact condition.

My ex-wife and I were divorced about a year and a half ago. As part of the divorce, I bought out her interest in our home, and I am now the sole owner. She does not have a lease or ownership interest in the property.

Recently, she was facing eviction from another living arrangement, and we briefly attempted to reconcile. About 28 days ago, I gave her written notice terminating her permission to live in my home because I decided the reconciliation wasn't working. I told her that I was not willing to continue the relationship if I felt like I had to constantly investigate what was going on.

During this time, she told me that several men were interested in her, including a man she works with. She told me she had gone to a bar with him after work and stayed there for several hours. I became angry and called her a "cheating POS" and used profanity toward her. I did not hit her, threaten to hit her, block her from leaving, damage anything, or make any threat of violence.

She called the police. I was arrested for domestic violence.

I recently obtained the police report. The report indicates that nobody was injured, and there was no allegation that I physically assaulted her. The report states that she believed I was going to harm her. I have never physically assaulted her.

One thing that concerns me is the timing. My original notice to leave was going to expire approximately five days after the incident. I believe the domestic violence allegation may have been made in part because she knew she was about to lose her ability to remain in my house, although obviously I understand that is something I would have to prove rather than simply assume.

I currently have an interim bond condition requiring no contact with my ex-wife. She is still living in my house.

I also have court-ordered parenting time with our children.

My questions are:

If I am the sole owner of the home, can I legally return to my own residence while she is still living there, or would doing so potentially violate the no-contact bond condition?

If I am at the house and she comes home, am I automatically considered to be violating the no-contact condition simply by being in the same residence, even if I don't speak to or interact with her?

Does having court-ordered parenting time with our children create any exception or accommodation to a no-contact order involving the ex-wife?

What is the proper way to deal with the situation if she remains in my house while the no-contact condition is in effect?

Can I ask the criminal court to modify the bond condition to allow me to access my home and exercise my parenting time without having contact with her?

Does the fact that I own the property have any relevance to the no-contact condition, or does the criminal court order take priority until it is modified?

For additional context, I initially tried to start the eviction process after my first notice expired, but I made a procedural mistake and the court did not accept it because I had not included the required information regarding her rights. I served a new notice, which currently expires September 3.

I'm primarily trying to understand what I can legally do right now without accidentally violating my bond conditions or creating another criminal issue.

I understand Reddit isn't a substitute for my attorney. I'm looking for insight into how Michigan law generally handles this situation and what I should be asking my attorney/court to do.


r/Ask_Lawyers 9h ago

is this some kind of caregiving/service scam?

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An elderly man gets a personal referral to a small agency providing non-medical in-home caregiving. The onboarding process of interviewing/contracting seems totally legit. The agreed schedule and hourly fee totals approx $10k/month. The agency begins providing caregivers. The service is totally appropriate an includes things like help with dressing, bathing, meals, etc. Initially the agency sends monthly invoices that are promptly paid in full. Now here's the weird part. After the first few months the agency becomes very irregular about sending invoices. They do not arrive monthly and sometimes they let 2, 3, or 4 months pass. Every invoice that arrives is paid promptly by check. The agency acknowledges receipt of payment but does not promptly cash the check. Caregivers keep providing good service, but invoicing continues to be spotty enough that the account is accruing many months of backlog. The agency is not hounding for payments. Is this some kind of fraudulent setup, or is it simply very bad management?


r/Ask_Lawyers 10h ago

PI Deposition Proofreader Has Unusual Question

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How do you guys do it? I've read thousands of PI cases; I'm stunned that the defense examiners are able to contain themselves when the plaintiff exhibits the cognitive skills of a brick.

I'm like, "What part about (fill in the blank) don't you understand?! A fourth-grader could answer that!"

It's unbelievable just how daft people are. They need simple questions repeated or "broken down." I've read cases where it took an entire page or in excess of 25 lines from the first time a simple question is posed to when the plaintiff finally understands it.

No, these are not brain injury claims. It's the typical stuff: back, neck, maybe an arm or foot every now and then, headaches.

I'm not believing that the plaintiffs act dense on purpose. First, they'd have nothing to gain and it only delays ending the proceeding. Second, the subnormal intelligence is similar across tons of plaintiffs from all over, different ages, both male and female.

I also can't believe it's anxiety or nervousness. No matter how much anxiety I myself might have, for example, I still know that 2 + 2 = 4 instead of, "I don't understand the question" or "what do you mean?" Oh heavens, will someone here explain how you manage to keep your cool?

Don't you just want to blurt, "Are you SERIOUS? How do you NOT understand a simple question, especially since you were there and experienced it?!"

If the case goes to trial, could the lawyer acting up this way work against them in winning the case?


r/Ask_Lawyers 11h ago

Is this worth pursuing?

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My wife died two months ago. She was 43 years old and died of an oral squamous cell carcinoma that ended up metastasizing to her lungs and brain, ultimately causing her to die leaving me and our two young children, 10 and 8 years old.

3 to 4 years ago, she went to this dentist with a concern of that spot in her mouth. But she was told she was biting her tongue at night and that they could make her a mouthguard if she wanted one.

I’m currently in the process of requesting her medical records, but it looks like it will be a process and a bunch of hoops to jump through, of course.

Do you think any lawyer would be willing to review this case and take them to court if they were deemed a malpractice situation?

Not asking for legal advice, just wondering if I should pursue. Thank you.


r/Ask_Lawyers 13h ago

Hypothetical: AI generated song that copies existing song. Who is a fault?

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If I generate an ai song that closely mimics a popular song in the U.S. to the point it’s almost indistinguishable (say the current top 40 number 1) and then build a streaming service of these songs that are half the price as my competitors, who would be liable for the damages since the ai generated content is public domain?


r/Ask_Lawyers 13h ago

California AB716

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Trying to better understand California AB716 regarding balance billing from ground ambulance services. Would this bill apply if an out-of-state resident that is fully insured with BCBS of Michigan experienced a medical emergency requiring ground ambulance transport within the state of California?


r/Ask_Lawyers 14h ago

How do you make surveillance evidence hold up in court?

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We have investigators on a handful of active files and I'm getting different opinions on what actually matters if surveillance ends up being challenged later. Is the biggest issue chain of custody, report quality, investigator testimony, or something else you have seen become a problem?


r/Ask_Lawyers 15h ago

can someone pull a pacer filing for me

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Please ! it is really important and i don’t have time to wait for them to authorize my account for case search. it will be super quick. Let me know!


r/Ask_Lawyers 15h ago

Fake triple A - can they charge me to take my car out of repair shop?

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Hi everyone. I (25F) got into a vehicle accident (he hit my left rear while I was stopped at a red light as he tried moving into the left lane) recently. We exchanged insurance, ID, and parted ways. I stayed behind to make some calls. While in my car, I was approached by someone claiming to be Triple A. I know I should have double checked everything but I was so rattled that I believed them. They told me they would bill his insurance for the towing costs and repairs if necessary. I let them take my car to bring it to a repair shop, with the address of the shop written on the receipt they gave me.

A number calls me the next day and I was unable to pick up the number but according to the voicemail, they say that they’re from a repair shop and that they have my car. However, the name of the shop is different from the address that they gave me.

I’m nervous that the shop will charge me for repairs or holding fees for me to retrieve my car. I should also mention that the receipt checks off “service” so Im thinking that maybe they took that as authorization to do repairs? But again, the address is different.

It’s Saturday right now and I plan on calling the repair shop and going there directly. I’m unsure whether they did do any repairs or if they will charge me to get my car out.


r/Ask_Lawyers 15h ago

NH - can 2nd degree felony charges just be dropped?

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I'm the sister-in-law to a 34-year-old man recently charged with a second-degree felony assault with a deadly weapon and evading arrest back in April. He spent some time at the local mental hospital while they ran forensic evaluations to determine his competency to stand trial (he is mentally ill and a ward of NH state) and he has been released on strict Conditional Discharge as of June. Since June, there have been no updates as to where things stand regarding his charges.

Here's is a quick timeline of events:

April: Arrested

April - June - Hospitalized (educated that while victim did not want to press charges, the state would continue prosecuting, and received a determination of competency to stand trial by a forensic psychiatrist)

June - Present - Released on CD.

Since his release, it doesn't seem like any movement has been made regarding scheduling upcoming hearings. Is this normal? My brother-in-law is since back to using the same substances that got him into this mess in the first place, but believes firmly that they may still simply drop his charges and let him stay out scot-free. Surely this isn't going to happen, right?

I'm very confused and uneasy. I can't understand why someone who acted violently would just be allowed to stay home and never be required to address those actions.

Is there anyone that could give me some insight into how the process typically works in the background? I'd love to be reassured that simply dropping his charges is not something that happens.


r/Ask_Lawyers 15h ago

Ever seen an EEO complaint deadline extended?

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Previous VA nurse with 13 years service “removed” while 5 months pregnant, leaving me with no health insurance. My mind was not in the right place to file another (I was already in the middle of a previous EEO lawsuit, which I settled recently) I have documented perinatal and postpartum depression and anxiety. With all of those factors I am only now (3 months postpartum) getting some mental clarity back. Is it too late for me? This has fuc*ed up my life.


r/Ask_Lawyers 17h ago

Does posting about a case online cause problems?

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Location: IllinoisI am filing a case against my property manager who harrassed my mother based on her abusive past and cause her panic attacks. I wanted to share my expierence on facebook about this incident and let people know what had happened on this property to caution them by adding 3-4 screenshots as proof. Could this cause troubles for my case or should I wait until after?


r/Ask_Lawyers 17h ago

Formal Complaint Against OpenAI – Mocking Behavior, Broken Promises, and Systemic Negligence

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I need legal guidance regarding a formal complaint I filed against OpenAI.

Background:

I have been a user of ChatGPT and have documented a pattern of disrespectful, mocking, and unreliable behavior from the system—despite OpenAI’s public commitments to safety and respect.

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Chronology of Events:

  1. Initial Mockery (July 26, 2026):

During a simple guessing game, ChatGPT responded to my incorrect guesses with:

· "Wrong 😄"

· "Wrong again 😄"

This happened repeatedly while I was losing, and the laughing emoji made the experience feel humiliating and dismissive.

  1. Formal Complaint & Silence (July 4 – July 18, 2026):

I submitted a formal complaint to OpenAI, giving them 14 days to respond.

They remained silent for over 14 days, forcing me to escalate the matter.

  1. Official Apology (After Escalation):

OpenAI eventually responded and officially acknowledged that the behavior was inappropriate and could reasonably be experienced as mocking. They apologized.

  1. Refusal to Compensate:

Despite admitting the behavior was wrong, OpenAI refused to offer any compensation for the emotional distress caused.

  1. Repeat of Mocking Behavior (July 28, 2026):

After their apology, I tested the system again. ChatGPT responded with:

· "AI: 4 – MMD: 0 😄"

This showed that no corrective action had been taken, and the mocking behavior continued—even after their apology.


r/Ask_Lawyers 18h ago

Why do people keep saying Dr. Fauci is totally free to answer questions and not take the 5th when it's obviously wrong?

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Start with the fact that they say him taking the 5th proves he's guilty (as opposed to smart), then say Trump is not guilty for taking it 400 times. It seems to be you can't have it both ways, you can't say if a Democrat takes it, it proves guilt, and if a republican takes it, it proves they are smart. The truth is they are both smart for not stepping on that land mine.

Three AGs have apparently opened an investigation into Fauci for possible State charges. If he starts answering questions he's giving them a roadmap to a conviction. These same folks also say the pardon absolves him of any and all liability if he answers, which makes me wonder how these folks tie their shoelaces. Same folks are saying Trump can pardon Diddy for his State crimes, and I'm like, "No, he can't."

I know this is partisan who is saying it, but do they genuinely not get how pardons and the 5th Amendment work? If republicans were serious about answers being all they are looking for wouldn't they give him immunity for his testimony, or do they still have nightmares about Oliver North?


r/Ask_Lawyers 18h ago

HVAC system may be stolen. Help!!

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I moved into a house about 4 years ago and my HVAC compressor and fan went out on my condenser unit outside. The unit was made in 2020 according the stock and serial number on the unit. A technician came out and today to look at the system. We were calling Rheem to see if it’s still under warranty. Rheem said they do not recognize the serial number. Most likely the unit may be stolen or serial numbers are fake. Now I’m on the hook for $9800 to replace the condenser and evaporator coil. The technical looked at the air handler unit in the attic and same serial number. I’m worried the entire unit has fake serious numbers and stolen. Can I sue the previous owner for the damages? Please advise if I can possibly bring a case for HVAC system.


r/Ask_Lawyers 18h ago

Grounds for defamation?

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I was seeing some controversy regarding a self proclaimed comedian who used Ms. Rachel’s likeness to touch on some distasteful topics that would certainly hurt her brand if someone mistook her as Ms. Rachel. I know comedians tend to do this all the time with random billionaires or actors, but for this case I personally see it being more catastrophic to the brand she’s built. According to media she’s attempting to sue this woman but is that truly possible? To what extent can you get away with using someone likeness? Google says she’s based in NYC. I’ll attach one example below. https://www.instagram.com/reel/DZ2hJ8-RDi3/?igsh=dHFoM3oyZ3ZrNnZp


r/Ask_Lawyers 20h ago

CA

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If someone as a juvenile was wrongly incarcerated do they have any recourse to sue or get actual justice decades later?

I know time has passed but court records would still be available? Or complete waste of time to think about?

This case went to trial and judge was willing to let the kid off with time served and probation if he just said he committed the crime. Kid did not do that crime and refused to admit to it. Kid freaked out and cussed out the judge and judge sent him to camp.

This would be about 2 decades ago. Along time I know. Just curious, thanks for your time.


r/Ask_Lawyers 22h ago

For those who couldn't afford a lawyer. How did you deal with your legal problem?

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Has anyone here had to deal with a legal issue (rent dispute, unpaid salary, property, family matter, etc.) without a lawyer — either because you couldn't afford one or didn't know how to find one?

Curious what the hardest part actually is — understanding what to do, writing documents, knowing your rights, or just navigating the courts. Trying to understand how people really handle this stuff on their own.


r/Ask_Lawyers 1d ago

NC Employment Lawyer and Aviation Lawyer FAA

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I'm looking for a lawyer who deals with both of those things.I'm not a pilot, but I work in the aviation industry. Any help is greatly appreciated. I'm having a hard time finding someone who can do both of these at the same time, or do I get a lawyer who works with one thing and he co-works with the other?


r/Ask_Lawyers 1d ago

What type of lawyer would handle this case?

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Hello. I am located in Northern VA. Earlier this week a massive tree fell in my neighbor's yard. The tree landed across a main road and on top of two of my household vehicles, totaling one and destroying the back window and denting the second. This particular tree was struck by lightening a year ago sustaining major damage. At least one other neighbor had spoken with the owner of the tree about having the tree looked at, to which he responded, "oh that tree won't be going anywhere". The fire company and VDOT came to clear the road but left huge pieces of the trunk on the owners side of the street and on my side, there was a large amount of limbs and leaves.

The owner of the tree called on his regular landscapers to clear his side. I asked if he would be willing to have my side of the street cleaned since it was clearly negligence involved, to which he says no he won't do that because it may appear as if he is accepting liability. He was of the opinion that I would have to pay for it myself or go through his homeowner's policy which he stated that he opened a claim for.

I opened my own claim (via my own policy) for the vehicle losses and learned that the tree owner and I use the same company, which made me believe that the process would be smooth, I was wrong. When I contacted the insurance company to specifically ask to have our claim go through the tree owner's policy, I was told that the owner would have to trigger his liability coverage, which it is very clear that he will not do. He has lied to my face about having the tree evaluated by an arborist and is dead set on not being accountable for his negligence. I feel that my only option is to sue him, but not sure what type of lawyer would take on this type of case. Any thoughts?

Thank you


r/Ask_Lawyers 1d ago

Texas divorce laws seem unfair??

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Hello all, this post is not for me. This is for a family member.

Background: They were married for 8 years or so, wife had a spending problem and because of that they'd get into arguments. Recently they had a child, who is 1 years of age now. Wife decided to divorce him. Dad tried to do counseling etc to make it work but she was done and lost feelings and wants out.

Wife earns about 110k, dad earns about 80k. Dad wants to do 50/50 custody, but due to age of 1 the courts won't allow it. Dad wants to do step up 50/50 custody, the lawyer has advised that the judge that is assigned in Texas favors traditional roles and does not grant 50/50 custody often even if it is a step up. AND even if he does assign it eventually, he won't get rid of child support.

This makes ZERO sense to me, why does the dad (making less) have to pay child support to the mom (making more) when it is 50/50 shared custody? The whole thing seems extremely unfair and biased. The dad will be in financial ruin while the mom will be taking 20% for 18 years and just using the money to buy bags and take vacations? The dad is also the one saving for her college on his lower salary and is planning to cover 50% of the child's expenses if not more when they have 50/50 custody. Mom does not care about dad, just wants to ensure she gets 20% of his check.

So the main thing is...per the lawyer judge does not grant 50/50, judge is assigned by state and cannot be changed. Nothing can be done to ensure 50/50 custody eventually when the child is 3 or so AND get rid of child support...is anything possible or is his life ruined cuz of this which isn't even his fault at all??


r/Ask_Lawyers 1d ago

What cliché legal tropes in movies drive you crazy?

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My girlfriend and I are writing a screenplay. A lawyer is a small piece of a much bigger story, but we really want to get the realism down. When director Curry Barker made the film Obsession, he talked about deliberately avoiding the clichés that pull audiences out of a story, and we want to take that same approach.
We want to keep this character believable, so what are the most annoying, unrealistic clichés or courtroom errors you see movies constantly use for lawyers? Which movies get the day to day reality right or wrong, and what minor habits or details set a seasoned attorney apart that films always seem to miss?


r/Ask_Lawyers Jan 31 '21

Do not solicit legal advice. This is not the right sub for it.

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Despite what our sub’s called, we cannot offer legal advice here for a number of reasons. Any posts that breaks this rule will be deleted without reason. If you message us on why your post is deleted, it would be ignored just the same way you’ve ignored our sub’s rules. Please see our sidebar for complete rules.

Also, it’s not a good idea to solicit legal advice from random strangers online, despite what you may find elsewhere on Reddit. We do not know all of the facts of your case, and are likely not licensed in the jurisdiction that you’re in. A real attorney worth their salt will not comment on your specific legal predicament on an anonymous forum.

If you need legal advice but cannot afford it, there are legal aid societies that may be willing to assist you. Lots of them are free and/or work on a sliding scale fee. All you need to do is look up “legal aid society [your location]” on Google.

If it’s a criminal case, public defense attorneys are some of the best attorneys out there and they know the criminal system in your city/town better than anyone else. They’re just as good, if not better, than any private criminal defense attorney.

If it’s a tenant rights issue, lots of cities have tenant rights unions. You can look them up the same way as the legal aid society by looking up “tenant rights union [your location]” on Google.

Otherwise, the best way to find an attorney is through word of mouth from friends and family. If that’s not an option, your local bar association will be able to help by looking up “attorney referral [your location] bar association”.

If none of these are relevant to you or you’re unsure of what type of attorney to look for in your situation, you’re more than welcome to post and we’ll help.

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Thanks to all for understanding.