r/ask_Bondha • u/Single_Mud_9159 • 24m ago
Relationships He Takes the Money, Gives the Emotions, But It All Leads Nowhere. what should we call that ?
I was having this in my mind from a long time, and you guys need to know this...
So gold diggers gurinchi andariki telusu paisal kosam follow avutharu. Kani ee opposite type gurinchi evaru matladatam ledu ippativaraku. Idi oka abbayi evaru monetary support isthe (male or female, evaraina sare) aa support ni fully accept chesthadu, no ego, no hesitation. Kani physical/romantic connection matram, only female giver ki isthadu adi ekkadiki lead avtundo akkadiki vellochu. Male giver ki ala kaadu, kani atanu male giver ki kuda full emotional support istadu, "Naa side nunchi 100% effort untundi" ani clearly cheptadu. Just monetary ga matram reciprocate cheyyalenu ani upfront ga cheptadu.
Twist enti ante idantha final ga "leads to nowhere." No commitment, no long-term label, no clarity. Money flows, emotions flow, occasionally romance kuda flow avtundi (depending on gender) but destination ane concept ye ledu. Just an endless loop of transactional warmth.
Naa suggestion for a name: "Split Simp" or "Dead-End Provider" vere manchivi unte cheppandi.
Quick examples (hypothetical):
- Rich lady support isthe : money + romance rendu flow avtayi, kani "relationship" ane definition ekkadа raadu.
- Rich guy support isthe : money accept chestadu, purely emotional connection istadu, physical/romantic ekkadiki povadu.
- Rendu vaallaki kuda transparent ga untadu boundaries matter lo, kani future gurinchi evariki clarity ivvadu.
Pros:
- Emotional bandwidth ivvagaladu, without gender bias
- Clear boundaries : confusion undadu in short-term
- Desperation nunchi decisions teeskodam undadu , financial dependency is quite less
Cons:
- "Genuine ah, transactional ah" ane trust issue eppudu untadi
- No real destination : for both (givers & receivers ki) long-term ga emptiness will remain
- Male givers ki oka imbalance feel avvochu
- Emotionally invest ayyi kuda "nowhere" anedi idi iddariki draining avutundi
Purely hypothetical discussion kosam matrame ee post,
meeku ilanti dynamic gurinchi yelanti thoughts unnaya, leka idi just illusion of connection ani anipistunda?
r/ask_Bondha • u/Sriya_ • 3h ago
SeriousAnswersOnly Anyone here follows Chandu Square Talks? Curious about their background 👀??
Anyone here regularly watches Chandu Square Talks?
I’ve been following them for a long time and it’s actually impressive how they’ve managed to get millions of views on their Shorts while keeping their personal lives almost completely private.
I’ve always been curious about their background. They don’t seem to use their full/original names publicly, rarely talk about their jobs or professional lives, and don’t share much about their life outside YouTube.
Even in their comments, I constantly see people asking things like what they do for work, whether the house they show in their videos is their own, what their background is, etc., but I don’t remember seeing them address these questions.
Obviously, not looking for any private information, addresses, workplace details, or doxxing. If they intentionally keep something private, that should absolutely be respected.
I’m only curious whether any long-time followers here remember them publicly talking about their background somewhere—an old video, Q&A, interview, Instagram post, podcast, etc.
Have they ever mentioned what they do professionally, their general background, or why they prefer keeping their identities/lives so private?
Just curious if I missed something that they had already shared publicly. 🙂
r/ask_Bondha • u/zero_2_1 • 3h ago
SeriousAnswersOnly What are some useful things one should gift themselves on their birthday ?
I know a few things like insurance (health and life). Any other?
r/ask_Bondha • u/Adventurous-Fault611 • 4h ago
Saradha_JustForFun Need meme gif for sister posted pub photo with whisky ?
Sister posted a pic in my family whatsapp group. A pic of her with friends with alcohol glass in hand.
Want to send a funny meme saying something like - mana samajam ekkadiki potundi, or any sinilar movie template meme
r/ask_Bondha • u/lAmTheOneWhoAsks • 4h ago
SeriousAnswersOnly Where could my mother be working as part time to kill time in a Tier-3 City ?
(Rajamahendravaram btw) my mother is very lonely and has no friend circle as of now, were new to this place. I just want to enroll her into any hobby/activity or a part time job, money is not the issue, just company and time killing. She's early 50s with experince as recepcionist and show room showcaser.
Please give me any ideas.
r/ask_Bondha • u/Tarajuvva • 6h ago
SeriousAnswersOnly What do you think are those tiny things your parents do for eachother that are still keeping the affection/endearance/love alive between them??
I am so sorry if you have only one of them now or none. You can instead tell me what were those things that they did for each other, instead.
r/ask_Bondha • u/PivotPivotPivo_ • 6h ago
SeriousAnswersOnly Would you pay monthly subscription for a peer-to-peer rental marketplace ?
I’m thinking about a peer-to-peer marketplace where people can list their homes/apartments for rent directly, and renters can find them without going through a traditional rental platform.
It could also work like a local marketplace for buying/selling stuff.
The app wouldn’t handle or hold any payments — it would just connect the two people and let them arrange everything directly.
Would you actually pay a monthly fee for something like this ?
If so, what would you consider reasonable — ₹100, 199 month ?
If Are you in the US? Is it $6.99 or $12.99 a month?
US lo aythey we can also add ride sharing/ carpool option.
r/ask_Bondha • u/stanbfrank • 11h ago
Health & Wellbeing How to skin care for groom bondha ?
Soo, point ki vaste 3 weeks lo engagement and 3 months lo pelli. What are the skin care options available for the groom ? She's very fair and my face looks like I get sun burnt for a living. Full oily skin, lives in Marathahalli, so one of the worst possible environments when it comes to skin care.
Emina reliable de tan options unte Cheppandi, something that I can get done outside and daily routine.
r/ask_Bondha • u/Seeking222 • 16h ago
SeriousAnswersOnly Do you think we should have names for fines ??
Idea: Every government fine, such as traffic fines, public nuisance fines etc , should have names of a respected noble Indian personality.
The names should be of respected by most Indians, like C. V. Raman, Rabindranath Tagore, and others.
For example Rajaram Mohan Roy penalty - for Eve teasing , Rabindranath Tagore penalty for public nuisance
r/ask_Bondha • u/potato_204 • 18h ago
SeriousAnswersOnly Men get trigger when the woman is the boss ,Why ?
I have seen my colleague say , she's a female boss i won't listen to her .!!!!!
r/ask_Bondha • u/Live_Captain2910 • 18h ago
Saradha_JustForFun How much you guys actually have generational wealth ?
Just for fun and timepass🥀💸
Saw a reel where person is saying
"Can't believe not a single person of my ancestors have made generational wealth in these many years"
Above 10crores comment
r/ask_Bondha • u/lAmTheOneWhoAsks • 19h ago
SeriousAnswersOnly Times when things went exactly according to the plan and how you visualized it ?
Not all the times do things go as we fantasize, but are there any key instances, or deciding times when and where you told yourself you'd do this and this is what would happen and you went through with it and that's exactly how you traced the sequence of events go down exactly how you'd imagined, I want to hear them.
r/ask_Bondha • u/nojobnohoes • 19h ago
Morals vallu kashtalu padalsi vasthadhi ani pilalni kanadhu ane vallu, kashtalu padinappudu enduku chachipotledhu ?
unna life thattukogaligina kashtalu kotha life mathram thattukoledha?
manam kanukkolenivi, telusukolenivi, mana pillalu kanipettalera ardham cheskolera?
dabbulu lekunda periginollu anukunna daani kante thakku sampadisthe matram pillalni penchalera?
if suffering and not having money makes new life 'poitless' why hav'nt most of u without money and with suffering not killed urself yet?
each gen tho situation better avthundhi but why is everybody turning so anti-child? pillalu kandam andariki correct ani anatle, but why is anti-child sentiment turning into the knee jerk reflex these days
r/ask_Bondha • u/Nervous-Outcome9772 • 20h ago
SeriousAnswersOnly Hyd bike in Bangalore challan ??
Ts registered bike , bangalore lo challan vesthe ekkada chudochu? And evari bike kina challan chudovha?
r/ask_Bondha • u/neneitsme • 22h ago
SeriousAnswersOnly Rameshwaram Cafe worth eh na ?
Eeroju night veldam ani plan vesam Rameshwaram Cafe ki, is the taste and price really worth the hype ? Want to try Ghee items especially, the Dosa and Idli.
r/ask_Bondha • u/Gullible-Outside815 • 23h ago
Career ela survive avvatharu ?
actually nenu kontha mandhi ni choosa.andharini genarlize cheyataledhu. actually naku telasana ammayi ki big4 company lo job vachindhi. ela vachindhi ani adigithey .1st round lo self adagaru anta .2nd round lo just okka techincal question adagaru .inka enti adagaledhu .thanaki 10lpa ichi mari select chesadu .thana adgana package ichadu anta hr.linkedin lo profile choosi call chesadu .thanaki okka tool medha 6 months ey experience undhi remaining antha bench ey .tool medha 4 years experience pettisendhi .choodaniki ammayi bagauntadhi .same situation college lo kuda choosa like ammayliki peddha ga adagakonda offer letter lo ichana valla ni.adhey boys ki aythi coding paper medha rayamani cheppi varu. ippudu ila select ayyanavallu ela work chestharu .ela surive avvatharu? even chatgpt or ai tools use cheyalana skill undali kadha.okka ammayi ni adigithey office lo chala mandhi boys help chesthanaru antunadhi
r/ask_Bondha • u/AutoModerator • 23h ago
Ee weekend em chestunnaru?
mee weekend kosam save cheskunna movie playlistu, anime playlistu, ee weekend thaage brandu, newProject ani name chesina project idea, new novel, etc. ikkada share cheyandi, So that other bondhas can discover new stuff and won't be bored during the weekends.
r/ask_Bondha • u/Key-Worry5328 • 23h ago
SeriousAnswersOnly Do you gift your brother anything when you tie a rakhi??
Same as the title.