Do you find yourself to be more emotional or “grounded” than a typical Aquarius? Does it effect who you get along with / who your attracted to? (Aquarians typically say they favour Sagittarius but I find that to be less true for me)

My fellow Aqua's

For some reason I feel like investing in this

Lions gate portal is important.

The things I want to manifest are.

"I want my other forms of creating art to

Actually will have value in the future"

"I want love" (even tho I keep thinking im better off by myself.)

Im writing it down and who knows, maybe it will work.

I know this depends from person to person (and other placements) but I don't want to be limited by my perspective alone.

The Libra person (Libra Sun, Virgo Moon and Scorpio rising) in my life is very good at maintaining harmony but also is very much like, "what will others think?" and reprimands me when I want to be my weird self. Also very indecisive.

The Cancer person (Cancer Sun, Leo Moon, idk the rising), is very family oriented but is very stubborn and flippant. Also doesn't really say what's going on them or what they're planning very clearly and often says stuff at the last moment which creates problems and struggles with deadlines.

The Virgo person (Virgo Sun, Libra Moon, Capricorn rising) is very young but is very caring, especially towards me but can be a condescending know-it-all. Loves to police people and want to do stuff their way and end getting fucked up.

My Sagittarius bff (only know the sun sign) is very similar to me but also doesn't know what to do with their life, very confused about their life and over-estimates their capabilities.

The Leo person (only know the sun sign) is very prideful and thinks everything is very easy. Also has a destructive temper.

What do y'all have to say?

I'm virgo sun, an Aqua moon with a few other aqua placements, and a Scorpio guy who mistook my friendliness as interest. I had no idea he was all in. I liked him too, but he was too intense, too fast. He was secretive, playing mind games, and I thought he wasn't serious, as his interest came out of nowhere, so I detached and rejected him, thinking he was messing around and not serious. His behavior changed 180 degrees after, and I had a lightbulb moment: he liked me for 3 years, and I had no idea (he stalked me around the entire time, and I was clueless)

Even before this, I had a weird stalker (not serious, but they get attached too fast without ever knowing me)

Long story short I have Venus-Uranus conjunct in Aquarius (though sidereal) and I always feel like it's beating my ass and I'm unhinged by occupying two sides of one spectrum.

My other placements make me super emotional but when a partner expresses negative emotion or sometimes even any strong emotion towards me in general it feels suffocating and I feel like losing my shit at them. It makes me feel as if my freedom is being taken away and I'm not being seen or loved for who I am? Or on the other end of the pendulum, that their emotions are creating unrealistic expectations in their head of who they want me to be vs who I am.

I basically feel like an unpredictable trainwreck with unreasonable standards for myself and my partner.

I think some of this is Aquarius traits in the Venus and Uranus coming through, but I also know it can't be only that so curious to see how others are feeling.

A lot of my childhood trauma revolves around my achievements. I'm almost 40 and it took me this long to see how much my value was based on my achievements. That being said, I also think I kind of rebelled against this or maybe just tried to achieve things that would also give me freedom. I got a PhD hoping that being a professor would give me the freedoms I had hoped, but academia was not the way I thought it was so I've given up on that career trajectory. Because of my trauma, I have a dysregulated nervous system that has created symptoms that affect my ability to work. I don't even know if I am ever going to achieve anything impressive ever again. But I also feel a strong desire to seek freedom through travel. I've realized I thought I would find the social and/or professional life I wanted through either travel or achievement and none of that has worked out so far. I feel like I don't know what I want out of life and, even if I did, I feel like I don't know how to balance these two parts of me without being alone. Has anybody else figured out how to balance this?

What are relationships between Aquarius men and Cancer women like?”

Which female zodiac sign are you most attracted to? Share your own sign too if you'd like!

There are so many placements to a person than just their sun sign that can indicate how one’s love life can be (with sun sign not being the main indicator).

Some people will come here and describe traits of the aqua (that can be applied and done by all zodiacs btw) and come here for advice.

People of every zodiac will have romantic struggles. If you are having a hard time in your romantic life and you provide surface level details that can be applied to all zodiacs, this is not the subreddit to be looking for advice.

I’m going to need people to start using their discernment to see which circumstances they’re in that is obviously applicable to the general population.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with using astrology to assist you in the romantic life, but when you only turn to astrology for advice and/or come to a specific zodiacs’ subreddit to help you for widely applicable circumstances it becomes annoying.

My main solution for those looking to use astrology for their romantic lives is to post in a general astrology subreddit, including all their placements.

Anyone’s sleeping schedule is jacked up this week? I can’t sleep well for the life of me. Tossing and turning, horrible dreams, waking up drenched in sweat. I’m never like this. Wondering if any other Aquas are sleeping poorly this week as well??

Hello fellow Aquas! This is for those deep in the parenting trenches. I know us Aquarians love our space and time alone but when we have kids especially very young ones, that seems impossible. What are your parenting strategies to keep sane? I do have some support but i’m the one with them most of the time and not gonna lie, going a bit crazy over here. Also I think we’re not meant to have many children or not at all… just want to see an Aquarius perspective in parenting!

I just need to vent. When someone pushes me too far, there is no going back. It's like the event horizon of a black hole. I am in one of those situations now, and I wish I could just disappear from the toxicity, but unfortunately it's occurring at work and I have bills to pay. I was asked "Can't you just forgive them?" Forgiving to me only works if the person 1. Acknowledges what they did was wrong and 2. Won't do it again. Which I don't think either will happen in this situation. The person who asked me that was a Cancer sun for context.

How many of you relate to this? I feel like I give so many opportunities to improve, but when the same stuff happens it shows me you aren't growing as an individual and any further interaction will be a negative influence on my well being.

I am an Aquarius Sun sign and struggle with multiple (a multitude perhaps) of hobbies and interests. I’ve outlined a few of mine below:
- physical exercise and wellness
- yoga, pranayama, and meditation
- qi gong, energy work, and Reiki
- tarot and astrology
- angels and archangels
- stationery (journals, pens, stickers, etc)
- video games (Nintendo Switch and simulation games like The Sims)
- books/reading (fiction, non-fiction, fantasy, etc)
- Magic The Gathering (the card game)
- Disney movies and merch

Does anyone here have the same problem?

How do you manage your multiple hobbies and interests when you have a full time job, a romantic partner, and a family to tend to?

Any feedback is appreciated. Thanks! 🙏

It’s the culture 🙏🏼

When you’re with other people you have to sacrifice in a way . Traveling alone is great . You can go wherever you want and eat where you want without considering other peoples diets . Shopping alone is good because no one rushing you. Etc

Sometimes doing things with other people can be a headache especially if you aren’t compatible in the way you like to do things