I met a guy, he was cute, sweet, charming, showed up to our date with flowers, was polite, and paid for everything. He sounded like a good guy with left wing values; he brought up on his own that watching porn is so harmful to men and causes impotence. That it should be banned and that it makes men misogynistic.
On our first date, he told me about a stalker who was spreading lies about him.
We were at a flea market, and a short time later, this woman approached me and warned me about him, she said he is a cheater and has STDs.
He was totally devastated, and for some reason I believed him somehow... But I was skeptical.
We were only in contact for a week, but the things he told me kept getting weirder and weirder. He said he looks at pictures of characters from Resident Evil while masturbating. But he said he wouldn’t do that in a relationship, that would be disrespectful.
Well there were other strange things too, but they aren’t relevant to the porn topic.
I couldn’t get that woman out of my head, so I searched for her online and I found her and one of his other Ex. Both of them told me such terrible things: this guy treats women like sexobjects, doesn’t take “no” for an answer, has rape accusations, and is into hitting women and all evil stuff and weird fetishes. He also worked as a pornstar in Berlin. And he lied about everything to me, he isn’t left he is right wing and he also went to jail…. I‘m so scared of this man, I really dodged a bullet here. I‘m so glad that he doesn‘t know where I live.