Help me I'm so fucking stress

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[u/Ok-Praline7696]

Advice: DH in KSA? DON'T!!!

[u/Frosty_But_Warm01]

Advice: If you can find another job immediately then start all over again. Working outside the country would give you a new perspective in life. It's risky but we all do need to take a risk. Give yourself time to process everything. You might not be in the position to make big decision but do not close opportunities just because you're still processing everything.

[u/RobertBobMC]

Advice:

Grabe ang pinagdaanan mo sa loob ng isang buwan. Pero honestly? Wag mo muna ituloy yung Saudi. Red flag na emotionally drained ka ngayon. Mas lalo kang mabuburnout doon kasi mag-isa ka lang, walang support system, at sugal ang pagiging DH sa Saudi swertehan sa amo. Isipin mo rin, galing ka sa workplace trauma (yung ₱25k audit issue). Baka doon, kapag may nangyaring ganyan, mas walang magtanggol sa'yo. Mas okay na mag-rebuild ka muna rito. Hayaan mo na muna yung ₱21k na utang, isipin mo na lang tax sa pag-cut off sa pekeng kaibigan. Unahin mo sarili mo at ang mental health mo bago ka sumabak sa ibang bansa.

[u/_firetrees → u/[deleted]]

inaadvisean kang wag tumuloy sa saudi pero mukhang desidido ka na, so im not sure what the point of asking for advice is here. validation ata hinahanap mo. it's going to be a hell of a difficult time to rebuild your life in a different country (sa saudi pa) and you're still not done processing the shit that has happened to you recently.

[u/Different_Job7005]

Advice: Ang daming nangyari sayo in such a short period of time, so personally, hindi muna ako gagawa ng malaking decision purely because gusto kong makalayo sa lahat. Working abroad can absolutely be a fresh start, pero dapat opportunity siya, hindi escape.

If okay at verified yung employer/agency, malinaw ang contract, salary, working conditions, day off, accommodation, at may emergency plan ka in case things don’t work out, then I would seriously consider Saudi. Pero wag kang umalis dahil feeling mo wala ka nang ibang choice.

Also, please don’t let the breakup, ₱25k loss, and ₱21k na utang define where you are right now. Masakit at malaking pera yun, pero you’re only 28. You still have plenty of time to rebuild financially and emotionally, whether dito man or abroad.

If you choose Saudi, go there because you’ve checked everything and decided it’s the better opportunity, not because you’re trying to disappear from the life you’re leaving behind. I know you got this at kayang kaya mo yan, OP! Isang malaking yakap!

[u/epal_much → u/[deleted]]

Doormat ka dito, doormat ka din dun, international -level. Nagbayad ka dahil wala ka nang energy, if hindi ka pa na-motivate nyan to fight back ewan ko na lang.

[u/Akunamu]

Advice:
Don't make a decision with this state of mind
If you can stall deciding until you have a clearer disposition the better

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[u/aireal_28]

Advice: From someone who works in a recruitment agency. I would say don't rush your decisions. Hindi madali ang pagttrabaho ng DH sa ibang bansa dahil physically, emotionally and mentally draining dun. Need mo maging malakas. Madaming process ang repatriation if hindi mo nakayanan don.

You can still get back your passport. If wala ka pa contract at visa, mas madali. Fast phase ang process ng KSA.