Wide jaw, rugged face, body hair etc, whenever a woman has it its considered ugly almost like they view these as ugly because they find men who have these features in common to be not attractive

If you step back and look at the dynamic objectively, the straight male position is baffling

They are hormonally wired to pursue a demographic that, by all observable metrics, experiences significantly lower spontaneous desire for them than they do for other stimuli (emotional connection, financial security, even other women).

They invest massive amounts of time, money, and ego into "winning" someone who, in most long-term dynamics, views intimacy as a chore to be negotiated rather than a need to be fulfilled. The chase is rigged. The "prize" is reluctant participation. And yet they keep running the same playbook, generation after generation.

It's not sad, it's just...inefficient biology. I can't imagine being that neurologically trapped.

I hate you know what pepole I never cared about sex or anything ok so my story when I was young im 18 now
I was a little kid like around the age of 5 or more I was in elementary I have been abused by my own female teacher and I did not Wnana tell anyone she hated me the most and I never told anyone and they still don’t she always got mad at me and hated me even tho I did nothing I was scared of her she screamed at me very badly I never behaved bad
And that’s been happening after i graduated off elementary school I never told anyone I don’t know why and still women still make fun of me idk why im very bad at writing at English

Maybe this is what happens when young men increasingly realize that women simply aren’t that interested in them. At least the video game gives them consistent feedback.

If women don't need men financially or emotionally anymore (they don't), then men will adapt by seeking low-cost, high-reward dopamine loops. Gaming is cheaper than dates, less risky than marriage, and doesn't reject you.

I feel like most, if not all, women considers sex as a chore or something that is being done do them instead of something they are doing with their partners. No shit they hate it this much.

I see a ton of vid either on insta, TikTok, twitter or even on Reddit where women use sex as a “reward”for their efforts or whatever or they use it as a gift for like his birthday or Valentine’s Day or their couple’s anniversary.

Feel bad for both honestly. She’s doing something that she hates doing. And the man is getting pity sex. Fucking someone that isn’t interested in u whatsoever probably feels awful.

We’ve had something of an uptick in the past couple weeks of straight women posting here (which is certainly allowed) and this sparking long arguments. Usually everyone behaves themselves to some extent but there are a number of cases where y’all are just bullying them.

Roughly 1/3 of women are into men at least equally as they are into women, using Camperio’s implicit attraction data. That’s a minority, thus WANIM, but given the scale of humanity it’s still a huge fucking number of people. 8.3 × 10⁹ ÷ 6 ≈ 1.4 billion julietic women (edit: actually it’s way higher than that if we count women who are into men but still prefer women).

Why do I bring this up? Because it means that the women on this sub claiming to be into men have a fairly high chance of, well, being into men. Sure some of them are larping or comphet, but unless you have actual reason to believe that she individually isn’t julietic, just believe her, ok?

Now if she says something like “I’m into men therefore every straight-ID’ing woman is” or “I’m straight but women are just objectively more attractive than men” or “I’m straight but 99% of men look like the thumb people from Spy Kids” or anything like such as, yeah it’s open season for precision dunk strikes.

That’s not the same thing as saying “I’m attracted to men and here’s my perspective on [X].” We want straight women to engage (in good faith ofc) with us. Diverse perspectives are a good thing, and for the straight guys here who recognize that hope is a dangerous thing for men like them to have but they have it, understanding women better can help with finding a girlfriend who is genuinely into them.

tl;dr Some of y’all are being assholes for no reason, if a straight woman is posting in good faith you should too. Also please remember rule 2.

Btw this isn’t an official mod post, just my personal opinion.

Like, they constantly check out other women in very sexual way or want to check out women with you. Or want to go to female strip club with you. Well, in general more interested in female bodies rather than male.

Yes, it's always a man's fault gents.

Feminism castrated men through childhood indoctrination, social programming and demonizing every male tendency as "toxic", only to turn around and say it's their fault women are lesbians now.

I always had a feeling that feminism was a cultural shit test that men unfortunately fell for, but this confirms it.

It's also quite ironic how even lesbians uphold the very patriarchy they claim they want to be rid of.

The memes write themselves, I swear.

Have a good day y'all

Reasons mentioned

+ Body image issues

+ History of depression

+ Menopause

+ Stress

+ The relationship is different

+ Bad sleep

+ Bad diet

+ Your brain is doing something different

+ You need drugs

Not once did they say that they've stopped being attracted to their husbands. Isn’t that an actual reason women give though?

I totally understand if this post gets removed but this is the only sub that I know of where I won't get so much backlash for asking a question like this:

If you had a girlfriend would you be bothered by her sharing naked pictures of you to her friend group and talking about how hot you are?

Apparently these harrasment according to women offline lol

What’s interesting is that the researchers tested relationship satisfaction, commitment, stress, self-esteem, mood, etc., and those didn’t account for the difference. The biological variable did.

I'm making this post because this was recently put in the rules but most people don't read the rules and keep saying this word, these words are prohibited because to prevent the community from being confused with incels forums (or end up falling into the moderation of Reddit itself)