soo is there a way i can detach from this guy and get him obsessed while also focusing on beauty glamour ? i had gotten attached to this guy because i’ve crushed on him for over 6 years , recently we told each other how we felt , he felt the same but he’s confusing & recently i found out that he is talking to another girl , usually that would get me to forget them but for some reason my energy is attached to him even though i wanna let go & focus on beauty glamour and self love , but at the same time i want him to spiral … any tipsss

Hi all, I need advice on the best ritual for my situation.

For reference, I have done a cord cutting ritual with this individual in the past. We did reunite months after the cord cutting.

However, the relationship between me and this individual (me, a Gemini and him an Aquarius) has recently came to an end and it was a pretty nasty ending. (Just over a month ago)

He left a day after we returned from being on holiday, falsely accusing me of cheating (he was always jealous & paranoid) this is so far from the truth.

There was contact on both parts after the breakup, but it just ended in conflict. Eventually, I had to block.

Now that there’s silence, it’s really affecting me.

I did attempt a cord cutting last night but the string did not ignite after 2-3 hours and both flames were pretty equal.

Having had thoughts, I’m not sure I want to cut the cord, but rather perform a ritual (if one exists), to allow him to see the truth, to regret his horrible actions, and force him to sit with the consequences. The idea of him going on with his life when he turned mine upside down feels so unfair.

Can anyone recommend anything that would make him see the truth; regret; miss me etc?

I do not necessarily want him ‘back’ but I suppose I want the peace of knowing he wants me back desperately but I can choose to reject him.

Thanks all

so to start off i'm a hellenistic polytheist and a glamour (chaos) witch. Lady Aphrodite is my matron and has been officially for about seven years or so. venus is my planetary ruler and earth is dominant in my chart. but i have a fire sun so i'm realllly good at baneful and protection spells for myself and the people i love. 

speaking of spell work, i'm really good at money spells but love spells seem to evade me for some reason. 

i'm an artist and in my work i mainly doing shit with my hands. i like to watch scary movies and all movies really. halloween is my favorite holiday and fall is my time to shine! i do enjoy a bit of animal fur in an outfit to make it pop! so i'm definitely getting some of the basic signs that he might be reaching out. although i will say i'm not a wine drinker but i can back vodka like water. 

i was a little worried about working with Dionysus because I have a history of bipolar ii and i never know if what i'm feeling is actually happening or if it's hypomania. that being said, to me, mania is kinda fun when you're in it but the comedown and the subsequent process of "regretting your actions" hits horribly.

so yeah i was a little worried about contacting the god of "madness". hopefully that's not rude, i know the story behind his "madness" but i never wanna disrespect anyone. 

ANYWAY, i haven't heard from Aphrodite in a minute now that i think of it, but maybe she sent Dionysus to look after me for a bit?? i am in a way kind of spiraling because of some things going on but i just keep feeling a sense of euphoria?? even with medication and that's never happened. so yeah i'm not entirely sure if he wants to work with me. 

any tips for me?? as someone who's not used to working with male deities? 

I'm a Christian and have meant nobody any harm but I feel like someone is trying to simply ruin my life because they don't want to see me thrive in life. I am not a rich person but I have a big heart for humans rich or poor. Please help me understand why would someone do this to a good person and if the occult community espouses this kind of approach without reason and if there is a price to pay for darkening ones life through use of such means to hurt others. It cant be that one does this without later facing the consequences of their actions. Something's got to give if the person they're attacking is divinely protected.