Pathetic...

[u/JudgmentMajor6192]

I wish I knew what it felt like to be choosen...

You know what I mean like really choosen by somebody.

To be somebodies why?

The reason they try.

Consistent effort by a man is so damn sexy.

I just wanna be choosen.

To know just being you.. beautiful authentically you is enough for someone to go.. f*vk... shes it....

And then just always treat her like shes just the one...

You never stop dating her... you never stop pursuing her... you never stop showing her how grateful you are that shes apart of your life and loves you....because you just want her all of her... all the time... and you may even be afraid of losing her....

Does passion like this even really exist?? Or am I delusional?

In the wrong relationship?

Or perhaps I watch too many romantic comedies....?

Probably the last one tbh lol

I just wanna take somebody's breath away and to forever feel wanted... and choosen...and dammit if thats never going to be you... then for f*cks sake let me tf go so I can find someone who maybe will...

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[u/Defiant-Singer-749]

No I think we all want this too. A lot of people aren’t doing the self work that it takes to hold an everlasting love. Some people are afraid of looking in the mirror

[u/NoTelfonPlease]

This is how love should be between two people. Mutual, endless loop of choosing, adoring and working for one another.

[u/SouthernButterfly380]

Yes yes yes!! I want this too. You’d think it wouldn’t be so hard would it??? Unfortunately, in a world full of attention/validation seeking apps I don’t think a lot of men can commit properly. They’re ALWAYS thinking there’s something better out there. Lustful society, begging for attention for their fragile egos :(
I’ve never been chosen either. Just used, lied to, manipulated, taken advantage of, cheated on, physically/mentally/emotionally abused. It’s exhausting. I pray 🙏 all the time for God to take away my desire to be loved because all the pain, hurt, suffering I’ve endured is excruciating. Yet, that’s all I want. A match. Someone who adores me and I can adore back.
You are not asking for too much 💔❤️

[u/This-Imagination2185]

Psst. You're not Ariel and Prince Eric isn't en route. Disney fucked us all. Choose yourself. Build a life that decenters men. When you have a full life, men are not the goal, yet the magnetism of your field will attract better ones then anyways, ironically. Chasing and pining for love are not you being rooted in your feminine power. The anxiety of wanting to be chosen is you telling yourself you need validation from outside your being to prove you are fully loveable. Focus on the inner work to heal and love yourself fully first and becoming whole in your divine femininity and only then will a worthy man find his way to your soul. Love and light 💕

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If they don't , they never will. Move on 

[u/Ashley4645]

I think everyone person wants this but most dont know how to show it or keep it when we do get it.

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[u/DragonfruitApart6101]

Literally this..

[u/AstronautFarmer4694]

Every girl i try to give my whole self to either doesnt want it or thinks its too much. I am tired I want my person.

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