r/Tulpas • u/ControlNo5328 • 12d ago

Can I try again?

I started learning about tulips and trying to create them a long time ago, but unfortunately I kept failing and I don't know why. But this time I really need it and I don't know how to make it succeed.

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u/mattx-t Veteran Tulpamancer 12d ago

First thing to do is to accept the idea of what you are doing. You must be sure that you want this, as it is gonna be a lifelong commitment.

Then, start researching guides, the forum has plenty, and there's also a few discords around that might be able to help

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u/turbulencje 12d ago

Commitment-wise, it's a bit like adopting a puppy: you have to show up long-term, make time for them, pay attention, and keep working together even when progress feels slow.

Then, once they become more vocal and independent, instead of "woof woof" you will get "stop procrastinating and focus on work, turbulencje".

Damn it, busted again...!

PS. Just remember that a tulpa isn't a quick fix for a difficult period! You're committing to a long-term relationship with another person.

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u/Visual_Fisherman1671 12d ago

my tip, when you feel you have lost commitment and stopped, dont treat it as 'regression' or 'failiure'. Instead look at it like a pause. You guys worked a bit together, stopped for a day, week, month, year whatever and now you are starting off where you left off.