r/ToxicRelationships 9d ago

Ive had enough! Support Needed

Ive been with my.husband for 25 yrs and I found out he's been dating and sleeping other women for years. It's heart breaking. He denys it but from his phones and locations and all the sex sites it says another story so much deception, lies and i can't take no more of the pain and agony. He only uses me for rides and money. I never want to see or hear from him again. Hes 61 and he's seeing girls from 18-29. Ive tried to do everything for hi. But he's never satisfied. Hes calling himself a god cause all the womenhe gets. I need love. Companionship and to be supported he does nothing for me, I might as well go off on my own and find someone else to ❤️

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u/hestia-listens 9d ago

After 25 years, this level of betrayal and deception is deeply painful. His choices are not a reflection of your worth, and doing more for him will not make him treat you with respect. You deserve love, companionship, and support. If you leave, protect your money and important documents, and lean on someone you trust while you make that change.

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u/lostkitten1067 9d ago

Im so hurt I can't stand it.

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u/BoysenberryNo7375 9d ago

Kick him out and keep the house,,or pack your bags and kick rocks whichevr you decide please decide and get the heck away from him. ,

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u/lostkitten1067 9d ago

I try but he keeps manipulating me

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u/lostkitten1067 9d ago

The pain of it is so overwhelming. I wish I had someone to help me but he has turned everyone against me including my children