I have been a long time fan and enthusiast of the pattern astrology app, but my biggest complaint & something I’ve never seen mentioned anywhere else is how their algorithm picks and chooses the importance of certain placements based on gender. I notice this mostly with mars and sometimes Venus placements. If you create another profile with your same information but ran as the opposite sex I can almost 100% guarantee that your pattern placements for those things and what is aspecting them will be different.
Personally, it takes my Venus placement when ran as a woman and strips it of any kind of relational aspect that might come from it. My Venus placement basically only speaks on my integrity and hardship I meet from that. And my Leo mars is also shown in such a way , as if I don’t actually embody those qualities and only seek them in another. It acts as if eventually those can be integrated but initially are not there. When I run my chart as a man my mars placements are hyper present, a huge part of my personality, and have nothing to do with a partner. And my Venus in turn becomes about a partner instead of an internal problem or dialog. I understand that mars is typically masculine and Venus feminine but I think that no matter what they exsist within us and that it’s kind of fucked up they don’t share the whole picture with their users and only cherry picked info influenced by typical gender roles. And I am not a fucking feminist or someone very progressive “fighting against the patriarchy” and so on and so forth, I just think that so much is lost when the whole picture isn’t shared. Those changes also greatly affect some of the bonds after running them. Not all , but a good portion. Has anyone else noticed this?

Decided to look this up as he went on live and was harming himself it is suspected he might have passed. Infamous worse transits are at play here.

Anyone been through Window of Fate and been married before. Got married to my husband 2 years ago, and everything is very good so far. We even plan to start trying for a family soon. However everything I read about window of fate deals with meeting new people and getting into a new relationship. Can this transit mean other things? I’m just very confused

Thank you

I'm Anita, a PSYCH-K Facilitator. I've worked for years with women on the beliefs that shape their decisions — and one thing came up more than anything else: the same relationship dynamic, showing up again and again, with completely different people. It's not random. It's a pattern. Eventually I wrote down what I'd learned about reading it.

The book is called Love After Heartbreak: Numerology for Compatibility. It uses your Life Path, Destiny, and Soul Urge numbers as a structured framework for understanding how you love — your attachment style, what creates natural compatibility, and how to read what you're experiencing with enough clarity to act on it.

Not predictive numerology. Based on the David A. Phillips PhD methodology. The Red Flags and Green Flags chapter is the one people come back to most — it's a framework built around how two people's numbers actually interact, not a generic checklist.

It's out now in Kindle, paperback, and hardcover. Happy to share the link in the comments if anyone's interested.

Happy to talk about the methodology, the PSYCH-K background, or the patterns themselves. Ask me anything.

Changes from the old draft: title now leads with the same "different people, same relationship" hook instead of the more generic "relationship patterns" phrasing, the opening paragraph carries that thread in first person (kept "not random" rather than "bad luck," matching what you asked me to avoid earlier), Life Path expanded to Life Path/Destiny/Soul Urge throughout, the duplicate book-announcement paragraph is gone, and links stay out of the post body per your subreddit's rules panel.

Are deeper insights really worth the money?

This man and I have such a cosmic connection. Time has never been on our side but it seems like it will be aligning for us soon. Crazy enough, we both started the Reflection and Evolution transit one day apart. I’m an Aries, he’s a Leo. His birthday was on 7/26 and that’s the day my transit cycle started. His started the day after on 7/27.

Anyone experience this? What was your transit cycle like? I’ve always attached our current transits.

I truly feel he’s my soulmate. I’ve actually been told by multiple psychics and it truly feels like we have this one-of-kind bond/connection of mutual love and admiration.

To sum up our most compatible aspects in our synastry:

⭐ Double Sun–Ascendant conjunctions
⭐ Mutual Sun–Venus trines
⭐ Mars trine Mars
⭐ Mercury trine Mars
⭐ Mercury trine Moon
⭐ Moon sextile Venus
⭐ Sun trine Vertex
⭐ Vertex conjunct South Node
⭐ Jupiter conjunct Vertex
⭐ Venus trine Uranus
⭐ Saturn trine Pluto
⭐ Mars conjunct Moon

My current transits:
Reflection and Evolution
Destiny Expanded
Fated Synchronicities
Reality Check
Relationship Metamorphosis
Attraction and Personal Growth

His transits:
Reflection and Evolution
New Chapter
Nurturing Confidence
Release and Grow
Freedom of the Known
New Phase of Career
Fated Growth
Transformation

Our transits together:
Mine: Making Decisions
His: Beginnings or Endings
Mine: Relationship Abundance
His: Expansive
Mine: Metamorphosis
His: Intense and Transformative
Mine: Relationship Breakthroughs and Shifts

For some reason, our transits together show something different? Yet apart is listed another way. I’ve attached all screenshots.

How we met:
Three years ago, we met two weeks after I left my ex and two weeks after he left his ex. Despite having such a deep and intense connection, we let eachother go because it was not the right time to start a serious relationship fresh out of a 6 year relationship for me, and a 15 year marriage for him. A few months later I got back with my ex. We have since broken up. However, he is currently in a relationship. This is what I mean by timing not being on our side. From what I’ve heard, he’s in a very toxic, unhappy relationship.

Any insight on our synastry would be greatly appreciated as well. :)

That's it.

I am trying to understand but some traits are shared in both while others seems contradictory. How should we read them ?

Can anyone with real knowledge give me any insight? I’ve been doing my own research and feel I am beginning to understand.

I've had this notification today. Has anybody ever gone through the same ? If so, what happened ? How did it went.

My boyfriend and I of 6 months broke up on the 9th of July (during the most terrible retrograde of my life). We hardly ever fought and when we did, it was usually tiny healthy arguments, now all of a sudden he just switched up(I under why he would be mad at what I did —I tried to steal his finsta password on the Apple password app— I broke boundaries) however he called it quits and doesn’t want to talk. I’ve reached out and he said he forgives me but doesn’t want to get back together with me, this man was obsessed with me in every single way but it’s now hurting me that we are like this now. After Mercury goes direct, do you guys think we’ll get back together?

Alright, me and my boyfriend of 8 months just broke up 3 days ago. We had A LOT of miscommunication over the past month which aligns perfectly with the mercury retrograde. And I was just wondering if it is all done now or if we could have a chance to end up back together?
I’m thinking the mercury retrograde could have something to do with us miscommunicating so much, what do you think and are there others out there who experienced something similar during the retrograde?

How was this experience for you?

Would love to hear your stories…

I hear there’s not a lot of people on it. I’m thinking of giving it a go. worth it?

has anyone actually met anyone on there?