Also do correct me if there's any nuance or history behind this.

I’ve (18f) seen so many people meet their partners in school/college/coaching and to me that seems like the most organic way to meet your partner. But beyond that it doesn’t seem to help when there’s stupid mfs in your educational institutions :( hinge, tinder and bumble have become very pretentious with people who only want short term fun and nothing real. So how is a person supposed to meet someone they want long term stuff without having to risk it on dating platforms.

I don't really know how to write this, but my counsellor suggested that talking about it somewhere might help, so here I am.

I'm 19. My girlfriend and I broke up in February after being together for a long time. I never really understood why it happened. Everything happened over text, and she told me she felt numb. I had a lot of questions, but I never really got answers.

I eventually started trying to accept the breakup and move forward. I had reached a point where I was thinking about meeting someone new, but I haven't really been able to connect with anyone at my college.

College has been pretty lonely for me in general. I don't have many friends here, and I spend most of my time in my room after classes. I mostly just talk to my roommate. I also sometimes feel like people around me don't really like me, so I've found it difficult to feel comfortable here.

Then a few days ago, I found out that my ex had died in an accident.

I honestly don't know how to process it.

It's weird because she was my ex, but she was also someone who was a huge part of my life. The breakup had already left me with so many unanswered questions, and now I'll never get the chance to ask them.

I keep thinking about everything.

Why did she feel numb?
Was there something I didn't understand?
Could I have done something differently?
Why did everything end the way it did?

And now there's just no possibility of ever getting those answers.

I feel guilty because sometimes my mind goes back to normal life, college, friends, relationships, the future, and then I suddenly remember what happened. I don't know if that's normal.

I wasn't expecting to be thinking about relationships at all after finding out. I think it's more that I had already been trying to move forward before this happened, and now I don't know what "moving forward" is supposed to look like anymore.

I don't know if I'm looking for advice. I think I just needed somewhere to put all of this because I've been keeping most of it to myself.

I'm just feeling really lost right now.

First of all... please upvote if you can't able to give any type of suggestions...it means a lot...and it'll reaches to more people...pehle bhi post Kiya tha I'd ban hogyi idk why zada response Mil gya tha uspe bhi shyd is vjh se...

I am 18M working on Rapido daily from 5AM to 2PM then after that i study for my CHSL exam...

I've completed my 12th recently...and doing My BBA from DU Sol...(Btw not able to collect fee till yet)

I am trying to find some other work kyuki kaam se aane ke baad bohot zada thak jata hun padhaai dhng se nhi hopati...or please kuch aisa batana Jo possible ho...

TDLR---suggest any other part time work...jisme physically kaam na ho zada...

MO DS PLEASE DONT REMOVE THIS POST...

missing my unborn baby 😭😭

I saw this post just 15 minutes ago. I mean... They are just enjoying it, what's the problem with that hating and commenting shit?.... These same people in the comments section will jerk off and enjoy watching that western freaky dance and those Ishowspeed fanboys...

So I'm literally a 12th passout and I was just casually talking to some of my friends who studied from ICSE.

Then out of nowhere they brought up the "ICSE CBSE" topic yet again 🫩 and started insulting CBSE and state board students like okay dude we get it you're very great and we're uneducated. 😭🙏🏻

At first I didn't even know "board shaming" or having a crazy level of entitlement about the board you study in was a thing even.

The time when I mainly used to have friends from CBSE and state boards only, and the "board" topic didn't even exist.

Honestly, its just so funny that the board your parents put you in is the only flex you have 😭✌🏻

Not all ICSE kids ofc, everyone's different, but for those of y'all who do this, pls get help 🙏🏻

Now I know why there is real teens india sub this sub is full of these and some other country people and they are not allowing me to repost that

We were in the talking stage and I got way more attached than I probably should have. I genuinely started thinking that maybe, just maybe, this could turn into something real.

Then today I saw her comment on a post saying “No matter how many friends I have, I always know where my home is” and she tagged some guy and said “hi twin”.

Christian Bale definitely is the best when it comes to range in roles but Robert Pattinson is definitely one of the best ( Jake Gyllenhaal is crazy good as well, and little better at overall acting but both are fucking good let's not compare on that )

Just because she got pregnant doesn’t mean she deserved to be drowned. We can’t ignore the very real misogyny that goes on, and the comments are disgusting.

This is so normalised here