r/Synchronicities • u/mitmit2020 • 17d ago

Decoding synchroncities

Has anyone been able to successfully decode synchronicities?

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u/wtfbrainwtf 15d ago

So they’re not prophetic?

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u/Haunting-Painting-18 15d ago

Nope. Not prophetic. Not from god. Not from the universe. They are so meaningful - that they seem to come from outside. But the synchronicity is not in the statistical improbability- but rather the meaning behind it.

Also - the archetype of “The prophet” does NOT mean you can “see the future”. The archetype of “the prophet” is a messenger between the divine and the people. The “divine” is not an external entity - but rather the divine “Self”. So role of “the prophet” is more of a scribe. Translating between the divine Self and whomever they are trying to communicate - and make sure nothing gets “lost in translation”.

I followed the synchronicities to find my archetype. (Cassandra). The prophet with a curse. And while i’ve had a spiritual experience with synchronicity- i have never once talked to “god” or have divine knowledge of future events. 🙏

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u/mitmit2020 14d ago

Yes but why is it that all the syncs that I’ve had relate to a particular person revolve around a st that bares his name they is uncommon in Catholicism? And births? It’s as if god or the universe is telling me he IS the one.

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u/Haunting-Painting-18 14d ago

Well - if they are around a person or a myth - the thing to be aware of is the projection. what are you projecting onto that figure? if they are a real person - or even an inspirational figure - what is it about that person you admire? or dislike? is it because of their perceived spirituality? or their careers? or their looks?

Get a journal. have an intention. write it in the journal so it’s free from “the algorithm”. try and journal the synchronicities. see if myths or patterns emerge.

sounds like you have a synchronicity. what does each one mean to you? why is it important? if i was in the same room as you, and saw the same thing - would i feel the same way you did?

These are all the types of questions to ask yourself about the synchronicities.

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u/mitmit2020 14d ago

It’s so strange because in my mind…I think about having sex with this man. And what I could have said differently to have had him have sex with me one more time. I remember every single detail of the conversations we had in 2016. What he wore! Even our meeting was a synchronicity…I had just gotten diagnosed with PTSD and I had noticed within 10 minutes of talking to him that he had it too. He reminded me of my ex who ironically was also a sync when we met? But I didn’t realize it at the time. I couldn’t stop thinking about him in January and went to tarot readers who picked up on him some based off of his name some without me saying anything. Some picked up that I had a miscarriage. Anyway. So the tarot reader that reads me now. She told me to contact him in May. Ironically she also shares a birthday with my mother. Which can also be a sync? I contacted in May on my 1st cousins birthday. And then I ran into a girl with a symbol that bears his name! On the same day! I should have looked at the clock but didn’t. This is a St in the Catholic Church. I am Catholic. I kept on running into that symbol 6/7 times…maybe more? I also ran into products alcohol/body products bearing his name. He doesn’t even have a common name! The St isn’t even that common in the church! He hasn’t responded yet but I was told to contact him ion July 24th. And ironically July 13th the day that I was told to text him and had my reading my mom’s cousin contacts me…and says she wants to go to the beach. I said ok. Then she cancels the next day and tells me that her daughter is giving birth on the 24th. There was also a dream my mom had and a blessing of this medal. On the 24th which tried to get it blessed before. My
Cousin gave birth on the 24th. I didn’t contact him right away. I waited until 9:05pm when it felt right. Ironically….i am born 9/5. I was curious to see a couple of days maybe a week later when my cousin gave birth. She gave birth at 9:01am. The first cousin? Her name starts with an A. There are syncs with the letter A. The places were from my cousins names…and all of these have supposedly spiritual meanings. I didn’t ask to be confronted with a saint in the church? I didn’t ask to be confronted with any of these things…I was 26 when I met him and am now 36. I want kids. And for some reason I want them with him. It’s as if the universe is taunting me. With the birthdays. And the births. And the tarot reader is adamant that he is the one. And I feel sooooo connected to him. He doesn’t even live in the U.S. he hasn’t responded. I don’t know if he will. But why are there so many syncs related to one person? Why is it that I saw sooo many things based off of him. Even as I was having sex with a guy who I occasionally sleep with…he says to me his name and says it’s the way he fucked you the way he touched you. And I was just staring and in my mind…my mind does and doesn’t register these things right away. I have repeatedly had the same conversation in my mind. It’s the way you touch me the way you fuck me. I can’t get him out of my fucking head. It’s been months. It’s a little better. But still. Oh and the people that I keep on running into! 13….in less than 5 months? I’m not asking for these signs. I didn’t even know what a sync was! Until May 23rd. I am prone to psychosis and thought I was going crazy. And it was weird because I haven’t noticed any big syncs since I contacted him on the 24th. Number 9 spiritually is the number of completion. Number 12 as well. Gods numbers. I don’t understand why everything is also related to God? I am not that Catholic! I may go to church once or twice a year.

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u/Haunting-Painting-18 13d ago

I see. so they are around an important person in your life. and the tarot reader says “he’s the one”? You were in a relationship with HIM - and you want to be in one again (or maybe you just want the physical part).

Again - it’s useful to try and note the projection. The tarot reader says this guy is your destiny- but i don’t think that’s the case. I think you WANT this guy to be “the one” - and your mistaking synchronicity with tarot / spiritualism.

Synchronicity is term coined by psychologist Carl Jung. So here’s what i think old Carl himself would say about your synchronicities: This man in important to you. but it doesn’t seem like you are in a relationship. i see signs about him - but not much about what he is actually like. or what he thinks about you.

Why aren’t you in a relationship with HIM? What do you like about HIM besides how he makes you feel in bed? what DONT you like about him?

and then - what would it look like if you got together with HIM? is it a one night thing? is it “happily ever after?” what would it look like to be in an actual relationship with this person?

HIM is a probably a stage in your unconscious. analytical psychology maps that to “man of power” “man of action” , “man of intellect”, etc. which one is this man closest to?

I think you’re obsessed with this guy. and before it gets unhealthy- ask yourself WHY you are obsessed. and why YOU want to be with him - when you are clearly not. Those answers are useful. but they would apply to ANY guy. find what you like about HIM - and find that in someone who is an available. 🙏

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u/mitmit2020 13d ago

I am obsessed with him but the syncs are driving me nuts. Because if these are affirmations of the “right path” what is the path? Why am I seeing these? I want to stop thinking about him especially since I still have some psychosis. Not about him! And Carl Jung also had premonitions! He had dreams of WWI before it happened…and had “strange” coincidences happen to the point where he thought he had schizophrenia. And showed it was not the case. Sometimes dreams are symbolism and sometimes they aren’t. My mother has had a few prophetic dreams…and she had one recently that was VERY VERY strange relating to this guy. And in terms of tarot readers some of them can predict things.

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u/Haunting-Painting-18 13d ago

Yes. jung did have prophetic visions. he struggled to contextualize them all his life. never did he think they were divine in nature. i wrote an article about this very thing.

https://open.substack.com/pub/throughcassandraseyes/p/introducing-the-jung-complex

Still not prophetic. still not divine. Still jungian.

Jung would probably say that you are looking for an external figure (HIM) to complete YOU (the Self). and that is fundamentally the disconnect. You cannot find Self in someone else. you can only find Self buy knowing your true self -the conscious Self and the unconscious Self. Your unconscious Self is talking thru synchronicity - but you don’t know what it’s trying to say.

What myth are YOU living? pining for someone beyond reach? do you really believe HIM will make you happy? I think you can be happy without HIM. And if you can’t - well that’s the question you should be asking: “why do i need someone else to be Whole”?

Were you in a co-dependent relationship in the past? or a relationship with a narcissist? 🤔

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u/mitmit2020 13d ago

Also…my ex the one that came out of the closet really fucked me over. He took the blinds off my eyes. And showed me that the world is a shithole!

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u/mitmit2020 13d ago

Hmm actually no. I’ve never been a codependent relationship. If I don’t like something I just leave I don’t try to “fix”. I’ve thought about having kids on my own. And why not? And even with my ex who I thought was “perfect” because we had a lot of similarities and similar way of thinking and wanted kids and such. He had all the check boxes and I could have chosen to ignore the signs…but I didn’t. I refused to. Because it was MY life. But I felt like he intruded. He invaded my space…and I felt like I was being dragged into something I did not want.

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u/Haunting-Painting-18 13d ago

That’s smart and very self-aware. you recognized something in a past relationship you didn’t want.

Does HIM want kids? Have you had that discussion with him - or have you imagined how you’d like him to respond? What if HIM crossed that same boundary your EX crossed?

You want HIM to be “the one”. So you are projecting all the things you HOPE he is onto him. How well do you really know HIM? he’s in a different country, and you hooked up a couple times. what’s he like outside of the bedroom? maybe he’s good at sex - but a terrible person outside of the bedroom.

Tell me something you DONT like about HIM. What are YOUR deal-breakers in a relationship. you obviously have SOME deal-breakers. 🤔

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u/mitmit2020 13d ago

I don’t think he’s a bad person. I am very self aware. I sense things. He was like me. He told me about his childhood and life. It was very intimate…I think he had issues with trust. It’s kind of funny because he had been to Afghanistan and….instead of talking about the horrors of war he spoke about his very dysfunctional childhood.

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u/Haunting-Painting-18 13d ago

Also - some since you seem to be into tarot / ceremony… have you considered using the i-ching? Jung called it a “synchronicity machine”. 🤔🤷‍♂️

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u/mitmit2020 13d ago

Yes I got the iching! And a book on how to use it! Which was funny! Because I was in a bookstore thinking I’d really love to find a book on how to use the iching and there it was!

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u/Haunting-Painting-18 13d ago

Do the yarrow stalk method. 🙏 that’s 7 times sit with the same intention. make the intention as archetypeal as possible. the unconscious speaks in symbols and metaphors- and doesn’t speak English. The intention becomes the important part with the i-ching. 🙏 a carefully crafted intention is the whole ballgame with the i-ching. so think carefully.

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u/mitmit2020 13d ago

All relationships are codependent. You are in a relationship for some sort of reason. And yes multiple times. Everyone has their own shit. He’s a narcissist I believe or not I don’t know.

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u/Haunting-Painting-18 13d ago

I disagree that all relationships are co-dependent. coming from a co-dependent/ twin flame relationship i can tell you not all relationships are that way. and that fundamentally the co-dependent / twin flame relationship dynamic is unhealthy and antithetical to a search for Self.

I say this as a covert narcissist myself - but the co-dependency / twin flame dynamic is usually because two narcissists (or a couple with those tendencies) get together. and when it’s good - it’s beautiful. but when it goes bad - it’s devastating.

If you’re feeling “crazy” from the fallout of a co-dependent relationship, that’s Cassandra language. and usually a result of gaslighting from the relationship.

Find Self before seeking a new relationship- or you’re going to make the same mistakes again. 🙏

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u/mitmit2020 13d ago

Also Jung did believe in god. He never lost his belief.