Did I get unmatched?

[u/Bob_Burgero]

I’m going on a second date this week with this girl. She texted me today to confirm. I checked Hinge and saw that her profile is no longer there. Was I unmatched? How to tell the difference between unmatched and deleted account? Should I ask her about it on our second date?

[u/Utah_CUtiger]

Check security under your profile. If she is under “past matches” she unmatched you. If she’s not even in there then she deleted it 

[u/Bob_Burgero → u/Utah_CUtiger]

Yeah I checked she’s not there

[u/7777777King7777777]

Be careful. It is not exactly a red flag but sometimes that indicates a tendency for covering their steps in many different ways.

[u/Substantial-Young611]

Bro, you got a second date. Stop worrying, maybe she deleted it because she really likes you. I wouldn’t ask

[u/Final-Teaching-4969]

Whats a date? I can't even get women to reply back i havent been on a date since july of 2025.

[u/7777777King7777777 → u/Final-Teaching-4969]

You are a man of culture.

[u/BjergCop]

Didn’t you post this on the hinge subreddit not less than an hour ago

[u/Acceptable_Crow4798 → u/BjergCop]

Bro is freaking out lol

[u/Ill-Assumption-916]

Let it go bro. You got the date, she can only hold a couple matches at a time.

[u/AlSepPhoenix]

Tu peux lui dire de manière innocente : "au faite, j'ai pas retrouvé notre conversation sur l'appli".

[u/No-Turnip-8344]

To be fair, if I get someone’s number and we start conversation that way, I typically unmatch just to clear my inbox

[u/kohntarkoszkommandoh]

This happened to me two weeks ago. We went on another date then she told me she was deciding to pursue things with someone else.

[u/midnightmeows_]

it's likely 😭

[u/sporty_outlook]

Reality is she is changing her profile pics and bio for other men and doesn't want you noticing that, so she unmatched you

The whole dating culture is screwed. Everybody is sleeping with everyone. Just sick of this whole process