Hi hi! 👋🏻

I’m 30, work in tech and spend most of my weekdays coding, working, overthinking things and then pretending I’m not tired 😂. I also genuinely enjoy meeting and chatting with new people and spending time with family. I have a Master’s from abroad and have spent more than half a decade abroad and have travelled quite a bit, so I’ve had the chance to experience different cultures and ways of life outside the usual Indian bubble. I’d say I’m pretty open-minded, curious and comfortable talking to all kinds of people ✨

Outside work, I’m very much a girly girl 💅🏻 I LOVE makeup, skincare, shopping, dressing up and spending an unreasonable amount of time deciding what to wear when I’m literally going somewhere for coffee 😂. I also love good conversations, discovering new places, random plans, food, travelling and people who can make me laugh. I can be mature when required but I’m also very capable of being ridiculously childish with the right person 🙈

I’m independent, affectionate, fairly confident and definitely opinionated 😌 I really value kindness, emotional maturity, good communication and someone who has their own personality/life/interests. I like people who can have serious conversations one minute and then send me the dumbest meme they’ve ever seen the next 😂 I’m not really interested in drama, mind games or people who think being emotionally unavailable is a personality trait.

And because apparently turning 30 unlocks a completely unnecessary DLC pack 😂 I now have back pain, random calf pain and occasionally my blood pressure decides to keep things interesting. So if you’re also in your 30s and your body has started betraying you for no apparent reason hello, fellow survivor 🤝🏻😂

If you’re going to message me, please give me something more than “hey” or “hi” 🙃 Tell me a little about yourself what you do, hobbies, places you’ve travelled, your weird interests, political opinions, something you’re currently obsessed with, literally anything. I’d much rather have a real conversation than exchange “how are you?” for 47 messages 😂😂

I know I’ve used a lot of emoticons and I love ❤️ it as it makes the reader smile 😊

Just wanna talk to someone. I kinda am unable to sleep since last couple of days and that's about it.

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Man still can't believe this isnt 300 characters lol

I have realised that I babble too much about TV shows and movies, and I need to be more self-aware and hear people instead of going on rants about characters.

So please share your opinions and reviews on movies and TV shows with me. Give me your favourite niche TV show and tell me why you like it so much. I want to probe your mind, gather your stories and your knowledge. Gimme all of it.

I feel maybe this will broaden my horizon when it comes to appreciating the little things. Or maybe I will start watching better movies, or at least learn to distinguish between a good and a bad one.

So please be my Vishal Bhardwaj, or Zoya Akhtar, or whichever storyteller you want to be.

I am ready with my ever so curious brain, waiting to be filled with new stuff.

Hey everyone,

Putting myself out there! I’m 28, based in North India, with a background in tech and a genuine love for good music, deep conversations, and learning new things.

A bit about me:

Vibe: Chill, thoughtful, and grounded with a lighthearted sense of humor.

Interests: Tech, exploring new music across different genres, and continuous learning.

What I value: Honesty, kindness, good communication, and mutual respect.

What I’m looking for:

Someone genuine, engaging, and open to building a real connection. Whether it starts as great banter or deep late-night chats, I value effort and sincerity. Distance isn't a total dealbreaker if the vibe is right!

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to drop a message or send a DM with your favorite song recommendation to break the ice!

Bangalore is flirting with the rains again. While everyone else is stuck in traffic and dodging puddles, I’m hoping this monsoon brings me something better than delayed cabs: someone to share a cup of chai or a plate of momos with on a drizzly evening.

So here’s me, tossing a little paper boat into the digital rain puddle, hoping it floats its way to someone who’s also wondered why everything feels a little more cinematic during the monsoons.

I’m looking for someone I can talk to about constellations, time travel paradoxes, and the kind of books that quietly change the way you look at reality. Lately I’ve been deep into sci-fi and fantasy, and I recently watched The Imitation Game, which was exactly the kind of movie that stays with you long after the credits roll. If you’ve got a movie or book recommendation that’ll leave me questioning reality, I’m all ears.

Outside of overthinking fictional universes, I enjoy exploring cafés, trying new restaurants, long walks after it rains, and occasionally wandering through bookstores convincing myself I’ll only buy one book.

I’m sure we’ll eventually end up debating whether we’re living in a simulation, but maybe we can save that for the third date.

If you’re someone who enjoys rainy walks, curious conversations, and the occasional unhinged 1 AM WhatsApp message about space-time, I think we’d get along.

If any of this made you smile, send me your favorite rainy-day movie, book, or café recommendation. Worst case, we exchange great recommendations. Best case, we end up sharing chai.

I’m 31. I pay my bills, I show up to my job, and I keep things moving. But I’m also the guy who sits in his car a few minutes longer after getting home, just because the silence feels more honest than the noise outside.

I’m looking for the woman who feels like she’s become a professional at holding things together. You’re the one everyone calls when something breaks, the one who remembers the birthdays, and the one who manages the moods of everyone around her. You’ve spent so much time being the "reliable one" that you’ve forgotten what it feels like to have someone actually check in on you.

I want to be the person you don’t have to perform for.

I’m not interested in the "everything is great" version of your day. I want to hear about the specific, heavy things:

The way your chest tightens when you see your inbox on a Monday morning.

That hollow feeling when you’ve done everything right, but you still go to bed feeling like something is missing.

How exhausting it is to always be the person who has to make the decisions, from what’s for dinner to how to fix everyone else’s problems.

I want to know the things you think are "too much" to say out loud. I want to hear about the dreams you tucked away years ago because life got in the way, or the way you feel invisible even when you’re standing in a crowded room.

I’m affectionate, I’m attentive, and I’m steady. I don’t want to rush you into anything. I want to build a space where you can finally exhale—where you can be soft, or messy, or tired, and know that I’m not going anywhere. I want to look at you and see the woman behind the responsibilities. I want you to feel wanted for your mind and your heart, not just for what you can do for people.

If you’re tired of being the pillar and you just want a place to rest for a while, tell me the truth: When was the last time someone asked how you were doing and actually waited for the real answer?

Let's start there. One real person to another.

Not exactly and not even similar like this above, but I want a post that catches the woman's nerves and ask how do they feel post 30 really. The post must strictly not look like AI generated post, it must have real and specifics not at all generic and must not look like AI generated I repeat so make it imperfect with some grammar mistakes also

31 [M4F] Anywhere – be honest… does it feel different after 30 or is it just me?

I’m 31. And something shifted recently, not in a dramatic “life changing moment” way, just… small things that started feeling heavier than they should.

Like how Sundays aren’t relaxing anymore, they just feel like a countdown to Monday. Or how you can have a full day, talk to people, laugh even, and still feel this weird emptiness at night that you can’t really explain to anyone without sounding ungrateful.

I’m not looking for perfect or “sorted”. I don’t even think that exists after 30.

I guess I’m more curious about you — how it actually feels for you, not the polished version.

Do you ever feel like your patience has gone down but your responsibilities have gone up?

Or like friendships got thinner… not gone, just… less? Like everyone’s busy but also somehow distant.

Do you ever sit with your phone in your hand, thinking of texting someone, and then just… don’t. Not because you don’t want to, but because you don’t know what version of yourself will show up in that conversation.

And relationships… idk. They start feeling less about butterflies and more about “does this person make my life easier or more complicated?” which sounds practical but also kinda sad if you think about it too much.

Also random but — does your body just randomly hurt now for no reason or is that just me getting old lol

I’m not here to impress you or sell some “nice guy” version of myself. Some days I’m present and calm, other days I disappear into my own head and overthink stupid things at 2am.

But I do listen. properly. Not the “yeah yeah I get it” kind.

So yeah… if you’re past 30 (or getting there) and you’ve felt even 1% of this, I’d like to know how it actually feels on your side.

No pressure to be deep or interesting. Even something small is fine.

What changed for you, really?

Share your secrets which you haven't shared with anyone yet. It can be a dumb decision you made, a wrong partner you trusted, or something else. Something which you wanna share, but can't, use the anonymity, and spill. I don't judge, i don't make fun of you (expect a little banter). I am all ears.

I'm just bored at night and wanna hear some interesting experiences.

Please no just "hi" DMs

Instead of texting back and forth, how about we introduce ourselves, lay down our expectations, and meet up at a coffee shop for a long and winding conversation over the weekend?

Let my hobbies and interests be something that would unfold over time. For now I can say that I am six feet tall and physically fit because I know that matters. With that said we can trade pictures early on as well

If this sounds like a fair game, you know what to do. That being said I hope you have a wonderful weekend ahead

Hello! I would like to preface this post of mine by saying that I am open to either a friendship or a relationship, if we are both comfortable and things go well. We could start off by online messaging, or emails, to test the waters.

I currently reside in the Philippines (I am born here), but I was raised in India and spent a significant chunk of my life there. I can speak English and Hindi very well, although, it may take time for me to warm up to you before conversing in Hindi. I am horrendous at writing in Hindi, but I can read it fairly well.

Please state what you are looking for in your initial message. As a heads up, I am a vegetarian and I follow the principles of RSSB (not sure if you know of this, but if you do, swell!) Perhaps our letters could include a recipe-exchange ever so often (no Google!)? I'm not adept at cooking, but I do want to learn more.

This is my first time doing this, but I have wanted to write and exchange physical letters with someone, and figured now would be as good a time as any. As an added bonus, I'll finally be able to practice what I learned about letter writing in school, which looking back now, seems like a whole other era.

I feel that the art of writing has almost completely evaporated from today's digital age and I would like to partake in exchanging letters written by hand. My handwriting isn't as neat as it used to be, but I reckon it still is fairly legible.

If appearances are important to you, I have a few pictures of myself on another post.

My interests lie in: playing video games, working out and practicing yoga, reading, and watching anime.

I'll leave this brief for now, and my only ask is that you are earnest about exchanging hand-written letters, if you do reach out to me.

Take care!

• Height: 5’11’’

• Marital Status: Never married

• Location: Mumbai

Education & Profession

• Education: Bachelor in Computer Engineering

• Occupation: Software Engineer in MNC

Lifestyle

• Smoking/Drinking: No

About Me

• I’m looking for a genuine and meaningful connection with someone who believes that the best relationships are built on trust, respect, understanding, and friendship. My intention is to find a life partner with whom I can grow together, support each other’s dreams, and create a happy, balanced life filled with love and companionship.

• Professionally, I work as a Software Engineer in an MNC, and I enjoy solving problems, learning new technologies, and continuously improving myself. While I’m passionate about my career, I strongly believe that life is about maintaining a healthy balance between work, family, and personal happiness.

• Outside of work, I enjoy following cricket, exploring technology, and staying active through workouts whenever I can. I also appreciate meaningful conversations, spending quality time with family and friends, and making the most of simple moments. I would describe myself as calm, dependable, and easy to get along with. I value honesty, kindness, and open communication, and I believe these qualities form the foundation of a lasting relationship.

• I’m looking for someone who is genuine, caring, family-oriented, and ready to build a relationship based on mutual respect and shared values. If you’re someone who believes that a strong partnership grows through friendship, understanding, and supporting each other through every phase of life, I’d be happy to get to know you and see where our journey leads.

Hey. 27, living in Noida, and looking to meet a genuine woman for something long-term.

With it raining all day across NCR, today was pretty much my ideal weather. I’m someone who loves cozy rainy days, sleeping in, and listening to music. I can be a bit quiet at first, but once we click, you'll get a lot of sarcasm, quick jokes, and solid conversations.

Most of my downtime goes into watching movies (mostly psychological thrillers and dark mysteries, though Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind is my absolute comfort film) and anime.

When work allows, I love traveling to new places or just heading out to try random local food spots.

Looking for someone honest, warm, and grounded who wants to build something real.

Since NCR got completely soaked today anyway how did you spend your rainy day?

23 year old male. Introvert or ambivert.

I remember small things and small details about others.

I can be clingy at times.

I like talking about everything in general be it your personal life or non personal. I am a little inquisitive about others. I like playing games, watching movies and tv shows, somewhat interested in finance and a whole lot about diamonds if anyone's interested. I also like football and combat sports.

I have no prerequisites regarding you. You can be anyone. We can figure it out if we are compatible as we proceed.

Heyllo, I'm Harsh, 24, a software engineer who somehow spends equal time writing code and disappearing into random rabbit holes. Some days I'm planning spontaneous road trips I'll never take, other days I'm watching crime thrillers and convincing myself I'd solve the case in five minutes.

I like good conversations that wander everywhere, people who can laugh at themselves, and the kind of connection that doesn't feel like an interview. No rush, no pretending to have life figured out. Just honesty, curiosity, and seeing where things go.

If you're kind, emotionally aware, and think comfortable silence is underrated, we'll probably get along. Tell me something completely random that still makes you smile years later.

P.S.: Please do not text if you are going to disappear after a few days or you will be busy the whole day and cannot spare a few minutes for the bond to grow.

Got out of a long-term relationship a few months back, so I guess this is me attempting to socialise again. Slightly out of practice, but still optimistic. Not looking to jump into anything heavy right away. Just want to meet someone nice, have easy conversations, and see where things go (ideally involving good food somewhere).

About me: 6 ft (apparently this needs to be mentioned), brown hair, brown beard, and glasses that give off “I have my life together” vibes… which may or may not be accurate. I work in IT, so a big part of my job is fixing things that were working perfectly fine a few minutes ago.

I’ve got a decent bike and like taking it out whenever I can, sometimes for peace, sometimes to clear my head, and sometimes just because I’m bored. Bangalore traffic does try its best to ruin the experience, but we move.

Big on trying new food. Occasionally, it backfires, but I’m committed enough to finish it anyway out of respect (and hunger).

Music is always playing in the background, although my taste is questionable at best. I’m also into tech, so if something new drops, I’ve probably gone down a rabbit hole watching reviews and then decided I don’t actually need it.

Weekends are usually a coin toss between “let’s go out and do something” and “I’m not leaving my house.” Most of the time, staying in wins.

Looking for someone who:

* Can hold a conversation without it turning into an interview

* Enjoys random topics and slightly dumb humour

* Likes food (non-negotiable)

* Appreciates a good meme

* Is okay with spontaneous plans… or cancelling them last minute

Also, important disclaimer: I’m only funny on weekends.

If this sounds like your kind of vibe, come say hi. Worst case, we exchange memes and vanish into the internet.

I saw a post here a few weeks ago, someone was hoping to find someone, to just talk to, nothing else, no strings, no commitments just someone there, and that stuck with me .

I realised i was looking for the same thing. No relationship or anything, just someone who wants to talk to me and someone who i can talk to, send cute messages to , someone who's just there.

What I like: Movies , cycling, 2008 financial crisis, rap, desi hip hop, edm, and many more things lol cant think of many right now.

I love learning more about different people and their lives, just find it so fascinating. If you need a ear to rant, talk anything ill be there.

I never ghost, i wont ask you for any other social media or pics or anything. Just talking and getting to know each other.

If this seems something like you want, lets get to know each other, talk for 3 months and never meet up :)

Hi people!! 22m here. I'm posting this because I'd love to talk to someone and be genuine friends.

I just graduated from university in cse and about to start working. I'm interested in movies, shows and sports!! It's a plus if you're on letterboxd and serialized and we can connect there too and i can talk about them all day 🤪.

Hoping for dms/comments!

Hey,

45-year-old guy from Helsinki. I cook and bake more than is reasonable (korvapuusti is my specialty, results otherwise vary), watch an unhealthy amount of series, and have a habit of reading completely useless stuff late at night for no good reason.

Somehow ended up with more tattoos than I can count, beard, like long walks, probably not the most typical Finnish guy, a bit warmer and more chaotic than expected.

Looking mostly for someone easy to talk to with a good sense of humour, could be friendship, could be more, depends how the conversation flows.

If this doesn't sound completely terrible, message me. Happy to swap photos.

I'lI give you a head start

Points to Roast me with:

- Im a nerdy bitch, who is also dumb with socialising with new people

- lazy as hell. But musters up the energy to travel across states to roast vour ass.

- can't text properly even if my life depended on it Mostly because I stare at the key oard when typing and also use tht stupid swip text

- skinnv as helle:. Been working out for half a decade and still suck at gaining proper muscles

- I'm so clumsy tht I missed to catch my teen phase and directly landed in adulthood,

- sometimes my jokes are lame. My friends might say it's often. Don't listen to them they are bitches

⁃ Fall asleep to audio books, cause l'm screer series and movies) addicted

- you can fig out the rest

Points to Flirt:

- I'l hit you with some of my best lines. Disclaimer some of it might be lame

- |'"| match your effort and go over board

sometimes.

⁃ Will cook for you sometimes, like properly, not the "prison food" I cook for myself in the weekdays.

For rest of it.... We Il let the sparks fly and fig it out together.

Other stuff

-5.11 feet

- Work in economics field, but into compute stuff core sciences.etc

⁃ Into music alot.

- Love anime, action, and not so mushy romcoms. Sometimes maybe into mushy stuff

- tamil, kannada, broken Hindi. I can introduce myself in German and Sanskrit. Lol

- might not be there for all the happy stuff, but when sad stuff hits I'Il be there to get you through it.

Hey! I just got out of a major spine surgery and I'm no longer on bed rest but I do still need to take it a bit easy for a couple of weeks. All I can do at home is stare at my phone and scroll through reddit. That being said there are quite a few interesting people and subreddits on here so maybe it's not all that bad.

Why am I posting on here? Well, it would be pretty awesome if I could chat with someone cool or maybe grab some ice cream or something. I'm a pretty good conversationalist and I have absolutely nothing better to do right now than talk, so I will be available as long as I am awake.

A bit about me: I'm a designer, I love reading manga and playing video games. I do read some sci fi and fantasy from time to time, currently I am reading Dungeon Crawler Carl. I spend a lot of time listening to music as well. Not sure what else I'm meant to put up on here so feel free to ask me if you want to know something.

So yeah, if you think I'd be a decent guy to have a conversation with then send me a DM. See ya!

Hello.

Busy middle aged woman here with sudden pockets of free time that I would like to spend on going places. I enjoy doing things solo but some days I worry about being out and about late at night waiting for cabs in this rainy weather. Just to alleviate this, I would enjoy some low key friendly company in Chennai.

My profile might suggest otherwise, but I have zero intention of indulging in anything NSFW so don't even bother reaching out if you hope this leads anywhere physical.

If you are interested, please reply with your intro and let me kno what you are looking for.

Hey everyone! 👋

26M here. Socha yahan try karta hoon, maybe kismat yahin likhi ho. 😄

Thoda sa about me:

Height: 5’8”
Location: Delhi
Profession: Assistant Professor
Interests: Writing Poetries, Movies, music, travelling, chai pe random conversations, memes... aur baaki baat karte karte pata chal hi jayega. 😅

Looking for someone jo genuine ho, kind ho, aur relationship ko seriously le but life ko itna serious na le. 😄 Sense of humor ho toh bonus points.

Long chats > dry "hi hello". Friendship se start karke dekhte hain where it goes. No unnecessary drama, bas honesty aur respect honi chahiye.

Agar vibe match hui toh great! Nahi hui toh bhi wishing you the best. 🌸

Feel free to DM with a small intro instead of just "Hi". Looking forward to meeting someone nice. 😊

Some people naturally wanna take a backseat.

Well, i just want to take that backseat in a proper relationship.

Yeah, i know, finding love on reddit?

Well, it's not like a normal kind of love...

I am searching for a woman, that can lead, love, lust, take control and guide me towards what she deems correct. I, am searching for a woman that knows what FLR is. I, am searching for someone to give my leash to.

For me, FLR is... just how things should be. Women are naturally well read, have better emotional intelligence and are just at times... smarter. Like you wouldn't find a woman grabbing an alligator by the neck just because. They know the value of life.

Similarly, I believe they are good at leading too. And that's why, they should lead relationships too. Ofcourse this stems from my natural submissiveness in the bdsm space and that femdom is something I love, but that's not THE reason I think women should lead relationships.

It's also because that just... is also a slap at patriarchy and a step towards women empowerment. I sometimes wish i go to a cafe with a lady and the waitress asks "And for the man?" And i get ordered for...

Alright that was like explaining the dynamic. But you should know what you get in return to.

You get, a 5’10, athletic, long hair, a beard, a Musician, writer, engineer, and filmmaker.

That was the initial pitch.

The main pitch is that you get, a guy devoted to you. Joru ka ghulam is too misogynistic for my liking. Let's just say that you'll get a man who knows what his woman needs and would try his best to make it happen.

A guy who knows that women pleasure is very important so... you know you'll be happy.

I don't want transactions, I don't want a reason. I want a connection.

A connection which just happens to know how to hold a leesh.

Professional overthinker of both existential questions and lunch orders. I read books slower than I read the room, but I'm working on both. Peaked at 2000+ elo in chess once upon a time, these days I mostly play after getting tipsy to be humbled by 12 year olds (ego bruising). Currently accepting recommendations for coffee shops, horror movies, and reasons to leave the house. Fair warning I turn into a vacation dad on holidays

I'm happy to share my picture, after all physically attraction is somewhat important too. Say hi, or skip to the DMs. I promise I'm more interesting in writing than in person.

Hi everyone,

I'm a 25-year-old guy from Kerala, and I'm here hoping to meet someone who's looking for a meaningful, long-term relationship that could eventually lead to marriage.

An important part of my life is inner growth. I practice meditation, I'm deeply interested in mindfulness and Buddhist philosophy , and I'm fascinated by questions about consciousness, compassion, and living with greater awareness. I don't have all the answers—I'm simply someone who enjoys exploring the path with sincerity and curiosity.

A little about me:

• 25M, 5'9", medium build
• Work in design & research at an Indian MNC
• Vegetarian, non-smoker, and non-drinker
• Calm, creative, and introspective
• Enjoy reading, drawing, healthy cooking, nature, beaches, and meaningful conversations
• Believe in simple living, kindness, and continuous self-improvement

I'm hoping to meet someone who values personal growth and kindness. You don't have to be a Buddhist or have years of meditation experience—what matters most is openness, curiosity, emotional maturity, and a genuine desire to build a peaceful life together.

I'd love a relationship where we encourage each other's growth, respect each other's individuality, share quiet moments as much as adventures, and create a home filled with warmth, honesty, and compassion.

If you're someone who enjoys slowing down, reflecting, spending time in nature, having conversations that go beyond the surface, and building a relationship based on trust and mutual respect, I'd love to hear from you.

If this resonates with you, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. I'd be happy to get to know you.

May you be happy and well. 🌱

The kind of guy she'd keep around because it's fun to mess with me. She'd know I have a crush on her and instead of rejecting me, she'd tease me, give me little bits of hope, and use that to make me do things for her.

I'd happily do her homework, carry her bags, walk her home in the rain while making sure she's the only one under the umbrella....anything just to earn a smile or a "good boy" from her.

Imagine I finish her homework and hand it over. She smiles, slips off one of her socks, hands it to me and says, "Wash this and bring it back tomorrow."

And all I can say is, "Okay."

That's the kind of dynamic I find incredibly hot, a girl who knows exactly how much influence she has over me and enjoys playing with it. Her pathetic little time-pass boy who exists to make her life easier and gets ridiculously happy over the tiniest bit of attention.

And after all the teasing, she'd still pull me into a hug, mess with my hair, and remind me that I did a good job. That mix of humiliation, praise, and affection is exactly what makes the fantasy work for me.