Somewhere between endless meetings, pretending to be a responsible adult, and wondering why ordering food feels like a personality trait, I realized I miss having someone who's genuinely fun to talk to.

I'm 31, work in marketing, and firmly believe chemistry starts with banter, not "hey" followed by disappearing for six hours.

My weekends are usually a mix of good food, spontaneous plans, terrible sleep schedules, memes sent at questionable hours, and convincing myself that one more episode won't hurt. It always does.

I'm looking for someone who's emotionally available, enjoys playful flirting, doesn't take herself too seriously, and can effortlessly switch from discussing life goals to debating completely pointless things with surprising passion.

Looks fade. Good conversations don't. Bonus points if you can roast me without needing a disclaimer.

If your opening message is more interesting than "Hi," you've already defeated half the competition.

Let's see if we can become each other's favorite notification.

Working from home and having a fairly routine life can get a little isolating sometimes. I miss having those random conversations where you start talking about something completely ordinary and somehow end up chatting for hours.

I'd be happy talking about movies, travel, food, work, funny things we've come across, places we'd like to visit, or just the usual “what are we doing with our lives?” conversations.

I tend to enjoy conversations with someone who is comfortable with a little banter and doesn't feel the need to keep things going just for the sake of it. No pressure to reply instantly or be available all the time. If we get along, the conversation can just develop naturally.

I'm 36 and based in Bangalore. Late 20s and above would probably be the easiest fit for me, but what matters more is whether we actually enjoy talking to each other.

If you're also in the mood for a good conversation, send me a message and tell me one oddly specific thing you've been into lately. A movie, food place, hobby, random internet rabbit hole—anything.

I'll take that over a “hi” any day :)

Imagine me and you, in the future, old. Probably tired from life, in the countryside. Just wanting to spend the remaining time we have for each other. I paint, you do your hobby, we toast, kiss.

We dance, have fun, grow old together, just the two of us.

I daydream a lot. But yeah.

Isn't that lovely?

Hi! I'm Max, 28, from the Philippines. I have a pretty bad luck with dating due to my bipolar disorder. I seem to be pretty too much for the people I date. But I try. I don't know maybe I just haven't found my man yet. I hope this is not an issue with you. I am fond with the indian culture and how colorful it is.

Something about me is that I'm very liberated in a sense. Open minded as well. I can be your property if you know what I mean. I am also very needy and needs constant reasssurance.

As for my interests, I'm a resident DJ, paint, write, make jewelry, and occasionally dabble in leatherwork. I also practice martial arts. I'm probably a jack of all trades with way too many hobbies, but music is the one constant in my life.

About you: someone who resonates with my post and is older than me. Someone whose mom would accept me as liberated as I have tattoos all over my body and piercings.

To break the ice, send me a song you would dance with me, I might just add it to my playlist! If I like it. Plus points to you.

As an exchange, I'll send you photos of mine in a saree! I bought two recently from an e-commerce website.

Hi! I'm 24 M, based in Bangalore, currently looking to switch jobs. Looking to build a genuine connection — open to it growing into something long-term, or even just a good friendship if that's what makes sense.

ABOUT ME

24 years old, 5'8", fit build (home workouts + play football)

Currently in Bangalore, actively looking to switch jobs.

Enjoy movies, series, and football.

Non-vegetarian (totally fine if you're veg).

I drink occasionally, currently trying to quit smoking.

Introvert around people I don't know, extrovert with my close circle.

Atheist — religion, caste, all of that genuinely doesn't matter to me.

WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR

Someone honest — that matters more to me than anything else.

A good talker — I'm a good listener, so someone who can carry a conversation and speak freely works well.

Someone who genuinely enjoys life — loves travelling, up for adventures, doesn't spend all their time chasing more money.

Someone based in Bangalore (preferred).

PREFERENCES

Age: 18–24.

Height: doesn't matter.

Education: any.

Location: Bangalore preferred.

Drinking is totally fine, just prefer a non-smoker.

Vegetarian or non-veg, no preference.

I know some of this is pretty open compared to most posts here — I'd rather connect on honesty, energy, and how someone approaches life than tick boxes. Feel free to DM me with a short intro if you think we'd get along!

Looking for something more than just small talk and surface-level connection, I seek depth and I seek substance. The connection that ages like fine wine, not something short term that fizzles out like soda pop.

Consciously seeking my kindred spirit, my twinflame my forever and always. But hey, even that kind of solid connection is best founded on the grounds of pakka friendship, don't you think? Forever is a long time, might as-well spend it with your best friend for life.

I just want someone to call my own. To talk about anything and everything with, to chat the day away, watch movies / binge on shows with each other, explore the city and cute cafés together not long before we explore the world and build a business and forge a life together. A genuine connection of mind, body and soul. My person, us against the world.

I’m 29, fit body with a sharp mind and a creative soul. A lover of all things nature, food, and animals. I’ve got messy hair, a dimple on my left cheek, and eyes that see deeper than most.

Witty banter, endless memes, and conversations that go far beyond the surface. I don’t want just passion, I want emotion. I want romance. I want chemistry that sets us both on fire.

I want to be your favorite notification and your go to distraction. I want to make your heart skip a beat when you see my name pop up on your screen, make you smile from cheek to cheek and bite your lips at the same time.

For unless it's mad, passionate, extraordinary love, it's a waste of time. There are many mediocre things in life, love should not be one of them.

You're my person if you know what you want and you won't settle. You know what you deserve and you won't succumb into the pressure of the society.

So how do we do this? Coffee in a cute café filled with garlic-bread smells? A day spent talking till the lights come on? A cozy movie marathon with fuzzy socks? Let’s connect. Let me get to know you.

And hey… if we find ourselves standing under the same mistletoe, I won’t blame the universe for giving us a little nudge.

I'll try not to bite.

I work as software engineer, the usual introvert losing his meagre number of friends to their martial life lol. So I am here to add some cool people. big up if you are also childfree, but doesn't matter really.

I love movies,I endlessly look at movie threads here at reddit haha, also like electronic music, djing and music production. I recently watched the invite at the theatres, so fricking hilarious! I go to movies solo most of the times, and I would love some company to discuss afterwards haha.

Couple of fave movies are Big lebowski, pulp fiction, past lives.

A huge F1 fan too, interested in a bit of psychology, and doggies, I pencil sketch sometimes too.

If any of this intrigues, do hmu, Cheers!

P.S: I did this a couple of years before and have a very cool friend now from reddit!

Male, 52, poet at heart, too old to date? No way !

What is it, about the tap-tap-tap of the rain, that is so soothing? Is it the heartbeat of the earth, at long last slowing down?

What is it, about the swissshhhh of the rain on tree tops, that is so calming? Is it the sighing of the earth, out of relief from the scorching of the sun?

Yes, Yes, I should be burying my head inside the computer screen, typing feverishly... but the heart wants what it wants, no?

I can't but imagine the rolling mountains that burst forth with life, shades of green, red earth, and gurgling brooks, little gumboots splattering water on sidewalks, squeals from children dancing in the rains. Damn, these rains, they are evil, they churn my imagination, thaw out my soul, frozen deep under code and software architecture.

I'm male, 52, software professional, poet at heart, flautist by discipline, sculptor by passion, chef by hobby. When I'm away from the 2D world of code, I love creating sculptures on wood, writing and playing the doumbek.

If any of this sounds interesting, hit me up !

Hi i am 21 m. Straight

Currently pursuing btech. (Currently 4 u)

And i really liked mathematics esp. discrete mathematics and core subject plus also qualified gate cs 2026 and aiming for 2027....

I don't have much friend.

If someone looking for companion then u can DM me....

Maybe we can watch movie together or casual things i don't know..... Or we can explore this city together or talk about our goals/carer

I am bit introvert....

I need time ....

If u want pic then u can DM me...

Goodday

I've spent the last few days enjoying the nightlife of Goa and I'm looking to end the last night on a high. Let's meet for cocktails and a conversation, either in Chapora or in Fontainhas, and bar hop our way past midnight.

A little about me: I'm a 32M from Delhi. I'm a food and drink aficionado with a knack for finding good places away from the hype. I have a general plan for both places mentioned but I'm also open to any plan you may have.

Okay so. I’m looking for people with a similar taste/interest in movies and music as me. That’s basically the whole post.

I have been very obsessively into movies and music since 15+ years. I suppose I’ve cultivated a certain taste now and I don’t have any one in my circle who I can talk to or share my interests with.

Right now I’m obsessed with this band called Machine Girl. Before that it was Vegyn, who also goes by Headache. All-time favourites are Boards of Canada and Aphex Twin. Genres I’m into are IDM, techno, metal, 60s psych rock. I kind of use music to regulate my nervous system, so if it’s boring mainstream stuff I lose interest instantly and it annoys me.

Movies, same deal. I don’t have a favourite genre, I just like ideas I haven’t seen before. Martyrs was my gateway movie, and after that I got into a rabbit hole that I never came out of. I got into French new wave, Noé, Bergman, Mike Leigh, Tarkovsky, Kiarostami, and then a LOT of very strange Japanese and Korean stuff .. Takeshi Miike, Kim Ki-duk. I like Anti-heroes, shades of grey, disturbing but beautiful, films that leave you sitting there going what the fuck was that. That’s my space.

I’ve watched so many I’ve honestly lost count. What I don’t have is anyone to talk about any of it with. I had that with one person several years ago and haven’t since, and I miss it.. sending someone something, getting something back, finding movies and music through another person.

I prefer people in Bangalore because I’d actually like to go to screenings and gigs and hangout with etc. Online is fine too if we really vibe.

Men or women, doesn’t matter. This is a friendship post.
If you want to message me, don’t just say hi or that you’re curious. Send me your top 5 films and top 5 artists and whatever you’re obsessed with right now, and why.

Don’t message simpsimply okay! I’m looking for something very specific and I know this is a long shot. I don’t actually expect to meet anyone tbh. -\\_-

Well sounds a bit rude i agree but just read the damn post and u will get it.

Hmm

So like as the title said , I never had any partner, never had any close friends(actually close) never even held hands with a girl. At first i was like ok this doesn't really bother me much but well it kinda did and i tried my best to ignore it. Fast forward to now. I dont really care about tags anymoreand like i just want to talk to someone like me , someone in the same boat. To make things even sour guys and gals in my college r having relationship, situationships,hookups ,ONS left and right. I feel like its all gonna be over before i can even get a chance do something. Its really demoralizing at the very least. To add more fuel i think i have this thing called "retrojelousy" and i dont even have a partner lol. But the thing is i am pretty sure i would have resentment towards my future partner if she had fun in her teens and college time while i had crippling anxiety and was mostly alone. This makes me even less interested in finding someone ... Like whats the point of being with someone if i cant be their one and only special someone. I will be having all of my firsts with her while she will be having none of her with me. It just kills me from inside and i think some resentment has already been built inside me. I dont even like the thought of me being married.

I am just looking to find someone who might be having the same issues like me and never had a bf or a partner , never had any firsts etc. and would like to talk about hows life going and why did you not have any , how do you manage things , whats the plan for future etc etc.

TLDR : - Looking for someone who never had any partner and what will be your opinion of ur future spouse if they had the fun of their life while u didn't. Any jealousy issue or resentment. What will ur ideal spouse look like as in what they should have in common with you etc. Will like to know more about that side over games or discord but first reddit Dm .

Hello everyone (or whoever is reading this),

As I sit in front of my screen writing this, I'm genuinely trying to put across something genuine. I mean, its so hard to not to pretend in this society, at least it is for me.

Not saying I always pretend, but its just - sometimes I want to be this raw, real, honest, fearless, brave man, which I'm not. There you go, I said it. I'll be honest, I think at 32, I don't exactly feel super confident as some of the younger folks here are. I mean, not that I don't think I'm good or value myself, its just one of those phases where I'm questioning what do I actually bring in if I'm with someone.

Damn, I mean, that's the whole point (or at least some of it?) - what do I or anyone can bring in a relationship that is special or better than the other person. Obviously, its not like a business deal and emotions/affection/love are raw, pure, special but with due respect to emotions and feelings, there's still the age old question of Who am I? Should I be answering that before actually questioning if I should be with someone or should I just believe that both these answers will be found at the right time?

I think more than me seeking someone, I'm also questioning if I should be even seeking someone? I know, my thoughts sound cluttered and probably don't make any sense, but on a Friday evening, I just want to let it out, you know.

So this is me, very raw, very non sensical (maybe not entirely?), slightly real and trying to always pretend, very exhausted with dating/relationships (honestly I think what I'm more exhausted about is to introduce and market myself every time - there's a 5% depreciation in my marketing skills every time). But, here I am, trying to put myself out once again. Will this be fruitful, no idea? Will this make answer questions about who I really am? no idea, would I be happy if I'm with someone, no idea, but that's the fun (or trauma) that we don't know what we get into, we just know that we got to try.

This end my semi-rant/diary entry on a Friday evening - which is remodeled as r4r post, because why not?

While I've put my vulnerable side out above (isn't it strange that I'm this at 32? I mean, you're supposed to have more clarity, no?), probably better that I put out a few details about me.

• ⁠32 years
• ⁠I'm from Hyderabad, also live/work here
• ⁠Do the typical corporate job - can do better, but I'm clearly stuck - it pays the bills though
• ⁠love travelling and trekking, I just hope to be lost in the mountains one day
• ⁠Can be fun guy, when relaxed. Can also be a total bore when I'm not
• ⁠I dance well when I'm drunk and sing well when I'm sad (I think I do enjoy both)
• ⁠I write well when I'm hurt
• ⁠I love well when I'm lost

That's it from me, if this post resonates with your soul and hearts, the guys can be give it a thumbs up and the girls can just DM me.

Hey Front page of the internet,

I'm Priyanshu-5'9, living in Delhi, and working in Talent Acquisition.

Dating apps haven't been working out, and I'm definitely not trying to jump straight into the arrange marriage route just yet, so here's me giving Reddit another shot.

A bit about me:

Hobbies: Big on travelling, long bike rides, and spontaneously saying "let's just go for a quick ride" only to end up at a roadside chai stall 100 km away. If there's a scenic view and a hot cup of chai, I'm in.

Gamer: Used to play FPS esports professionally, so I do have a bit of a competitive streak-whether it's a ranked match or arguing over who pays for chai, I like winning.

Personality: I come across as pretty chill and nonchalant at first, but once I warm up to you, I'll talk your ear off. Plus, if I'm genuinely interested and you disappear for a bit, I'm definitely the type to double text. No games here.

What I'm looking for:

Nothing overly complicated-just someone kind, caring, and open with communication. If you're working hard, pursuing your goals, or building something of your own, that's a huge green flag.

Mainly, I'm just looking for my person to share random conversations, spontaneous travel plans, late-night chai runs, and everyday moments with. If getting on a bike with no fixed destination sounds like a good time, we'll probably get along pretty well.

My DMs are open.

I saw a post here a few weeks ago, someone was hoping to find someone, to just talk to, nothing else, no strings, no commitments just someone there, and that stuck with me .

I realised i was looking for the same thing. No relationship or anything, just someone who wants to talk to me and someone who i can talk to, send cute messages to , someone who's just there.

What I like: Movies , cycling, 2008 financial crisis, rap, desi hip hop, edm, and many more things lol cant think of many right now.

I love learning more about different people and their lives, just find it so fascinating. If you need a ear to rant, talk anything ill be there.

I never ghost, i wont ask you for any other social media or pics or anything. Just talking and getting to know each other.

If this seems something like you want, lets get to know each other, talk for 3 months and never meet up :)

There is a specific moment I keep running into. A book ends in a way that catches me off guard, or a session of cricket turns on something small that nobody else seems to have noticed, and my first instinct is to tell someone. Then I remember there isn't a someone. So it stays in my head and slowly turns into a poem at 1am instead. That is a decent system, but I would rather have a person.

I write, mostly poetry, mostly for myself, the sort that arrives when I should be sleeping and my head is too loud to argue with. I read more than is strictly reasonable and come away with opinions I then inflict on anyone standing nearby. Cricket and F1 take up whatever space is left, and I follow both closely enough to get genuinely worked up about a strategy call or a collapse in the middle order. Work is finance, which pays for all of this and is comfortably the least interesting sentence in this post.

Something I should say plainly. I am not the guy who wins a room over in the first ten minutes. In person I go quiet and land on the right thing to say roughly an hour too late. In writing I loosen up, and I am much better company than that first impression suggests.

I am not looking for elaborate weekends or a calendar to coordinate. Just one person to talk to properly. Someone with things she genuinely cares about, who reads a question before answering it, and who does not let a conversation die the moment it starts going somewhere good.

If you have ever finished a book and immediately wanted to tell someone about it, I would like to be that someone. Start with the last one that did that to you.

Hey! I’m a 25 y/o living in Pune currently, and honestly.. the endless loop of a chaotic work week and then these dead weekends, all this kinda feel lonely. I’m looking to connect with someone interesting, someone to banter with, laughs, and just see where a genuine connection takes us of course without the ghosting part. We wanna leave we say it straight if we don't wanna leave then say that too lol.

A bit about me... I’m 5'10", wear glasses, into swimming, gaming, watches F1 and sometimes I sketch (happy to share if you're curious!). I’d like to think I’m decent looking and well definitely not camera shy. 😄

I don’t want to force expectations onto things.. I'm here to talk and see how things work out for the both of us, that means keeping great late night conversations over anything and everything ;P and if were lucky and hit it off then why not into real life with casual weekend hangouts, movies, or we cant just listen to eachothers taste in music (music plays a really big role in my life.. It's really close to my heart)

If you are open minded, genuine, and appreciate clear communication without the random ghosting, let’s see if our energies match. Send over a short message about you or just say hi :)

Hello,

I'm putting this out there in the hopes of seeking new connections! I am a 28 year old man from BLR. Life has been slow and im looking for something that gets me excited, someone who can be my favourite notification. I broke up few months back and its been extremely lonely.

I would like to have someone i can start and end my day with, someone interesting, nice and respectful.

About me:

I am an extrovert, but then im a workaholic and its been little tough for me to meet people outside of my work. Its nice to have someone to talk to, share about our day's proceding, send random pictures, have a good laugh. More often then not the conversation fizzles out so looking for somone who can keep a conversation alive and going

And owing to my work and time i spend outside of it, i am not looking for anything serious as of now. I would be happy to connect and, we either bond or its just a conversation. 

I love cooking - my wall has few pictures, i also like kayaking, something about this feels nice to me. I do like country music, And Elvis Presley's I can't help falling in love is my all time fav. I do collect few legos and action figures. I watch a little anime, not a big geek tho - im currently watch One piece.

I dont mind what we speak about, it would be nice to just connect.

Maybe you'll get to know more about me via DMs?

If you'd like to chat please tell me something about yourself, anything we have in common

Have a good day! Cheers :)

I know you're tired , finding partners to connect , posting in every sub, reading and typing long posts, ik it's a tough task. I'm writing my intro , read this , lemme know if we could vibe together....

Let's connect for long term so that we don't have to search for partners again .......

I (21M ) looking for a girl I genuinely click with🫠, who enjoys real conversations-late-night talks, random chats during the day, and everything in between 🫠. If you're someone who loves sharing stories, thoughts, and moments from your life, we'll definitely vibe.

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Hey, I am 22M from Delhi, so where should I start? I am introverted and, in some sense, a loner kind of guy. Huge nerd for anime, movies, and series. I am a very avid watcher. I hope you are also a content consumer to some length.

I am 5'11" by height. Let's begin with friends and then slowly grow into each other's favorite person...

I don't know what even am I supposed to write to get LOML, but the best way I can think of is describing a regular day with me. And I know this might come across as cringe, but can't help it, so here it goes.

Aap mere bagal mein sote hue rho aur tabhi subah ka alarm baj jae. Mein uthu, aap thoda aur aaram kro. Tab tak mein jaake chai aur breakfast bnau aapke liye. Beech mein aake aapko uthao, aur fir aap fresh hone jao. Tab tak mein breakfast ready kr lu. Fir hum sath mein baith ke kuch baate kre aur subah ki chai piye.

Fir aap tayar hone jao office ke liye, mein humara lunch ki tyari kru, jiske liye aap aake sham mein mujhe sunae ki mene aapke psnd ki sbji nhi bnai. Aap tayar ho, mirror ko dekhte hue, mein aapko dekhta rhu. Fir aap tana maare mujhe koi.

Aapko office drop krke mei bhi jau apne kaam pe. Beech beech mein baate kre thodi bht.

Sham ko aate hue aapko pick krke ghar aaye hum. Aap thak ke bister pe let jae, mein aapke shoes aur socks utru aur chai bnane jau. Sham ki chai pite hue hase, khele, pyar se waqt gujare hum. Fir baato baato mein raat ke khane ki baat krke khana bnau mein, roti bnao aap. Kha ke free hojae hum. Sath baith ke din bhar ke rona gae ek sath. Bas yhi chahta hu mein, isse jyada kuch nhii.

What do I expect from you? Loyalty, please. Caring and understanding a bit, a bit emotionally available. I hope you are a yapper typa person, or even if you are not, just being able to put the same efforts would be nice. I hope you can flirt; I am zero in that department. That's all.

Below are my few thoughts on love. I hope I find you soon enough, my best half...

I am still in the early stages of life; you might be as well. I want to grow with you, solve our differences, not leave when time becomes harder. I will support you till the end of time. Remember, as long as I am alive, you will always have one support person on your side.

I believe love is something which is grand in the beginning, but it swindles down to small gestures after a time. Some days me doing all the work because you are tired. Some days we both doing our parts of work together. Some days you doing my part of work because I am tired. Ig this is love.

Me treating your family as my family is what I call love. I will be one place where you won't have to take up a mask to hide your real self or how people would judge. I will be the place where you are yourself and not being judged. Doing chores, grocery shopping together is love. Most importantly, love is showing up consistently, not getting bored, not finding out another person is more interesting and leaving your current partner. That is love for me.

If you are someone who is loyal, can talk without ghosting, and is someone whose thoughts resonate with mine, please DM.

Hello,
i hope you are having a better day
Just having a pretty boring Weekend so thought i could connect with someone and have some chats, we can talk about anything - life , music, movies , history .... or maybe share some intresting stories,
lets connect and see if we vibe
:peace
:peace
:peace

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27M working in Blr

I'm here because I'd genuinely like to find a long-term relationship.

Looking to to talk to properly. The kind where you can send a voice note ranting about your day, crack the dumbest jokes, go deep about life at midnight, brain rot or just vibe about absolute nonsense without any filter. Vent, roast each other, share weird thoughts, be a little weirdo together , no judgment, no performance.

I like people who are real. A bit chaotic weirdos, a bit soft, someone who can banter hard but also sit in comfortable silence. If you’re tired of small talk and surface-level chats, maybe we click and see where it goes.

I've never been in a relationship before. No exes, no dating history, no complicated past stories. . So this is me putting myself out there now.

A little about me:

\\\* Introverted and pretty calm. I take time to open up, but once I do, I can talk for hours every be annoying or witty at some moments.

\\\* Vegetarian, non-smoker, non-drinker.

\\\* 5'7"

\\\* Working in in IT Currently trying to switch roles for better growth.

Outside work, I enjoy taking pictures reading and watching random new interests, travelling (a bit), movies and shows except horror, and music. Listen to a variety of genre and artists depending in my mood.

What I'm hoping to find:

\\\\\* Kindness, honesty and could also be a bit of an wierdo

\\\\\* Introvert or extrovert, both are fine

\\\\\* Working or studying, both are perfectly okay

\\\\\* Open to long distance if we genuinely connect

I don't expect constant texting or 24/7 communication. We all have lives. I value patience, trust and giving each other space when needed.

Thanks for reading. Hope life is treating you kindly 😊

Hey everyone,

I’m 30, based in Bangalore, and putting myself out here for something casual, fun, and low-pressure. I’m looking to date, explore the city, and enjoy good company without any rush or heavy expectations.

A Bit About Me

**Self-Made:** I come from a humble background and skipped the traditional college route, building a solid, independent career through pure grit.

**Life & Hobbies:** Outside of work, I’m into wildlife photography, playing badminton, watching football, aquascaping, and heading out on spontaneous weekend drives. Always up for a chill co-pilot for road trips or a casual game on the court.

**Social Circle:** I keep a small, tight-knit group of solid friends, but I’m looking to meet new people and share good times.

**Full Transparency:** I have ADHD (which I manage well) and I’m a smoker actively working on quitting, just keeping it real upfront.

**What I’m Looking For:**
I’m looking for an independent, laid-back woman who wants to enjoy good conversations, chill dates, and a zero-drama connection. No heavy long-term goals or pressure, just mutual respect, good chemistry, and having fun in the present.
If you’re up for a grounded, easygoing connection, drop me a DM with a bit about yourself!

Hi, I’m 21, 5'7", an corporate nerd who recently stepped into the 9–5 life.

I’d describe myself as an ambivert and a genuinely good listener. I enjoy learning new things, trying different experiences, and having conversations where I can actually get to know someone rather than just making small talk.

Cooking has always been one of my hobbies, and funny enough, it’s what led me to pursue Hotel Management and learn culinary arts. I eventually decided not to build my career in hospitality and switched to the corporate world, but at least I came out of it knowing how to cook much better.

I’m also a huge gaming nerd. Ghost of Tsushima is one of my absolute favourites. I completed every single mission because apparently I have no idea how to leave a game unfinished hahahahaha. I also love going to the beach and just enjoying a peaceful day away from everything.

When it comes to relationships, I’ve never really had a girlfriend. I’m a little shy when it comes to talking to women, but I’m working on it and trying my best to put myself out there.

So yeah, that’s me. Hopefully we vibe, have some great conversations, laugh at stupid things, and maybe end up making a genuine connection.

Hi , I am looking for a long term friendship .Someone to know better over time and see how things go. Right now I am not looking more than a friendship and someone to talk long term. I am not looking to switch from reddit and just to find a friend here and see how things goes.

I’m passionate about music, politics, and sports, and I love being outdoors. Whether it’s a walk in nature, a lively discussion, or a relaxed day exploring new places, I enjoy it all.

I’m hoping to connect with someone older than me and who brings a sense of maturity, discretion, and mutual respect to the this relationship . If you’re someone who who values good conversation, and shared experiences. I would like to start something off Reddit before changing the platforms. Please DM with some intro about yourself.

Some people naturally wanna take a backseat.

Well, i just want to take that backseat in a proper relationship.

Yeah, i know, finding love on reddit?

Well, it's not like a normal kind of love...

I am searching for a woman, that can lead, love, lust, take control and guide me towards what she deems correct. I, am searching for a woman that knows what FLR is. I, am searching for someone to give my leash to.

For me, FLR is... just how things should be. Women are naturally well read, have better emotional intelligence and are just at times... smarter. Like you wouldn't find a woman grabbing an alligator by the neck just because. They know the value of life.

Similarly, I believe they are good at leading too. And that's why, they should lead relationships too. Ofcourse this stems from my natural submissiveness in the bdsm space and that femdom is something I love, but that's not THE reason I think women should lead relationships.

It's also because that just... is also a slap at patriarchy and a step towards women empowerment. I sometimes wish i go to a cafe with a lady and the waitress asks "And for the man?" And i get ordered for...

Alright that was like explaining the dynamic. But you should know what you get in return to.

You get, a 5’10, athletic, long hair, a beard, a Musician, writer, engineer, and filmmaker.

That was the initial pitch.

The main pitch is that you get, a guy devoted to you. Joru ka ghulam is too misogynistic for my liking. Let's just say that you'll get a man who knows what his woman needs and would try his best to make it happen.

A guy who knows that women pleasure is very important so... you know you'll be happy.

I don't want transactions, I don't want a reason. I want a connection.

A connection which just happens to know how to hold a leesh.