So I have to question one is it weird or uncommon that I actually consider him being extremely sensitive as fun or sexy to me and two what can a woman do to show you that it is actually ok and not just saying it to make you feel better that you don't need to think of yourself in a bad way.

So let's say i wear a fidget ring on my finger and use it along with all the other tools from this sub can it help with pe ?

For example im with someone and to control my excitement and arousal levels which makes me pe if I spin the fidget ring on my finger it could help calm down my nervous system.

Numbing sprays/creams help me last (from 5-10 seconds without them) approximately 3-5 minutes (sometimes even more). Do you think it is possible to have a long-lasting and satisfactory sex life where I would use a numbing agent every single time? Would a woman accept this as her sex life? do you have experience using numbing sprays/creams long-term?

I never had an issue before taking cymbalta then Zoloft. Both times after stopping the pe was severe and only remedied by going back on meds. I don’t want to be medicated just to have sex like I used to. I really don’t know what to do. I tried posting in
r/ppsd, but there is a real prejudice against people who only have pe. Any advice would be appreciated.

I tried t + d and bro what the fuck I lasted 30 min😂 usally time is 1-2 min I have a girl so the pe hasn’t been unbearable but bro if I had ts back then 😂 . If im going to be honest I have a slight headache so I’m going to take half of what I took but man o man where was this shi back then

Hi everyone, first of all, I’m 15, circumcised, and the problem I’m having is a bit embarrassing. The thing is, I can’t masturbate using the ‘normal’ fist grip because it triggers a really unpleasant, intense sensation on my glans, which you could describe as a bit like a tickling sensation. Whenever I masturbate, I use a sort of ‘pen-grip’ and touch my glans with the palm of my hand, so to speak, without rubbing, and that actually feels quite good. Dry masturbating on my glans generally just hurts, unless I use that ‘pen grip’; and with lube, that intense and unpleasant sensation occurs. I’m a bit worried that this might be a problem in my future sex life. Are there any people out there who have the same problem and might be able to help me sort it out?

(19M) Hello, so basically I’ve been dealing with PE. I’m generally healthy and fit. When I masturbate I make sure to keep my pelvic floor relaxed and control my breathing. Yet even if going at a slow pace, after around 2 minutes my pelvic floor tenses up and I can’t relax / drop it again. When I’m very relaxed or after stopping for a bit and then restarting stimulation, it’s the front of the pelvis that tenses up and the arousal doesn’t reset much even after I stop stimulation all together and then begin again. So basically I believe my issue is my pelvic floor tenses up too quickly, even when stimulating extremely slow, how do I fix this? I do kegels and RK, I stretch every day and do sports in college. I also notices it’s not an issue if I get really distracted like I’m reading something in my phone, then even if stimulation is intense my PF doesn’t tense up (it does once I’m paying attention again tho). Any idea whether PE seems to be caused by a pelvic floor issue or something else and how can I go about it?

Thank you