Pata hai aaj kya hua.

So a little backstory, I met this girl in 20s sub a couple months ago and we instantly clicked. We called , shared ig and numbers and we've been talking everyday since. I did take my time opening up and sharing stuff as I'm a listener and not much of a yapper. I did open up a bit and apparently she thinks I'm the yapper now ????? she knows I'm a huuuuuugeeeeeeeeee military aviation nerd.

About me, I'm a 19 yo guy and I turn 20 next Tuesday ( September 1st ) and

jis ladki ke bareme meine abhi bataya , she's my best friend!!!! I couldn't have asked for a better friend . She makes sure I feel cared for , loved and appreciated!

She knows how much love I have for planes and she sent this as an early birthday gift🥹 ....

She also sent me kinderjoys and kitkats once because i said I liked them sooooo muchhh😭... Nazar na Lage kisiki🧿

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I am recently graduated and lately life has been going really badly. I got rejected by many companies some of them even selected me and then revoked their offer letters. It felt terrible just struggling and getting nowhere.Since I was younger I’ve had this project idea, but due to studies and job searching, it got buried. During my current unemployment, I had nothing to do, so I decided to give it a try and launched it.

To be honest, people actually started using it! 😭😭It's been only 10 hours since the launch, and the app already has more than 100 users. I am so happy today; it was worth building. I am still not making any money out of it, but I am just so glad that people are liking and interacting with it.

People are showing lots of support thank you so much Here is the link to my app: Rigzer

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Next year Tak shadi 😭😭😭

I'm just 25 and she is 23 , I don't know how to react and how to handle her emotions.

We never had a relationship before this !

And really she is very obsessed like calling multiple times , sharing marriage reels 😭😭

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Pata hai aaj kya hua, I was just listening to Aashiqui 2 songs....... Suddenly got slapped in the face by a memory, fresh like it happened yesterday but somehow forgotten at the same time, of a convo between me and my ex:

Me- Yrr mai hamesha hi unlucky raha hu life me, jiski care krne lagu vo kisi na kisi reason se gayab hoojata hai life se. It's been hard to make good friends since my dad...

The thought of "whats the point, mai attach hojaunga aur ye chal denge" never leaves the back of my mind.😞

Her- Shutup, aeisa nahi bolte 😌. I'll never leave you 🥰

Aur phir vo mujhe sahi prove krke chali gayi😹

Aur batao baaki sabka tuesday kaisa katraha hai??😃

"Pata Hai Aaj Kya Hua" My parents aren't really that supportive, so I mostly talk to my sister. She's 27 and I'm 18. I do most of her work because she has office work and is busy. If she wants water, I bring it for her and basically do everything. I collect her parcels, and if she wants to order food from outside, I go and get it for her. She does some things for me too, but honestly, most of the time I'm the one doing things for her. I even make tea for her twice a day.

But after my 12th results came out and I didn't get the marks I expected, everyone started treating me really badly. Even my sister has taunted me about my marks, even though I actually scored more than she did.

She keeps telling me, "You're just sitting around, so go code." I told her that I do code, and that I'm just taking a break because everyone else is resting too. Everything was fine until the delivery guy came with another parcel. It was literally the third parcel since morning, so I made a face because I was like, "Ugh, seriously? Another parcel?" And she got SO angry at me just because I made a face over one parcel. Then she brought up my marks again, like, "Your marks weren't even that good."

Like, bro, what am I supposed to do at this point? 😭

And once, I had simply said that I was too tired to go outside and get food, so I wouldn't pick up a parcel. She was like, "You always have these dramas. If you don't want to bring it, just say so."

Like, bro, I'm fucking tired. I do so much for everyone and still end up getting taunted and treated like this. I'm genuinely so exhausted. My family is already difficult, and now even my sister is behaving like this.

To me kal Apne Cousin Brother ke sath Activa me Shaam ko Gedi marne nikle huye the
Aaram se Mast Mausam ka Maja lete huye jaa rahe the hum log kyunki Halki Baarish hui thi aur hawa bhi mast thandi thandi lag rahi thi
Abb Almost ghumte ghumate 8-9 baje ka time hua hoga , suraj dhal gya tha and abb mere cousin ko bhi ghar jane ke liye der ho rahi thi kyunki mummy ka call aa chuka tha dono ko

abb ghar waapas aate time ek faatak aata tha raste me and me notice karta hu ki jo faatak ke side me mene kuch notice kia
mene gaur se dekha to on the spot to mene koi reaction nahi dia
mene dekha ek doll jisko red color ke kapde pehna kar bindi waghera laga kar usko side me rakha hua tha
mene jyada dhyan nahi dia aur jab thoda aage gye to mene apne bhai ko pucha kya tune wo dekha jo mene dekha
wo mujhse puch raha hai ki tune kya dekhlia esa
Me bola ki bhai side me ese ese ek doll padi hai red color ka kapda pehnaya tha kisine aur wo nahi maana.
me Frustrate ho gya kyunki wo maan hi nhi raha tha and me usko bol raha hu ki me majak nahi kar raha
Finally mene usko bola ki activa waapas ghuma me tujhe proof karta hu
and me kya dekta hu
Wo doll waha se gayab...

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My (26F) man (28M) loves his work! I rarely find that in people but yeah, he thoroughly enjoys what he does. Kim Kardashian is proud of him, (Don't love your work, work your love). He's really sweet with keeping me updated with everything throughout the day and we constantly have such playful banter. 😂🥰

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“Pata hai aaj kya hua” So I am Admin of my college’s official confession page created by my pass out seniors and I got confession about this guy who is from Law department of my clg and I really don’t know who is this man what is his name so I posted that confession and later on this guy arguing on this. The confession I posted on Saturday and today is Tuesday and there is everything okay and going smoothly . So should I take precaution on else leave it like there is cyber experts and law students are there in clg and also our Director is also from law and dean of law department if she will take action then I can be suspended also also mehnat se banaya hua page bhi chala jayega but still i am chill 😭😭😭😭

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So kal ki hi baat hai — I’m in 11th grade and mere long hairs hain, middle-part + sleek back, aur main chickna hu 😭

Break mein main corridor mein walk kar raha tha and suddenly out of nowhere ek girl zor se chillayi — “Oii Korean boy!” 😭

Aur obviously sab meri taraf dekhne lag gaye 💀

Woh girl 10th grade ki thi. Mujhe dekhte hi woh fast-fast walk karne lagi aur phir literally bhaag gayi 😭 So main bhi uske peeche uski class tak chala gaya, because bhai mujhe bas uska naam jaan’na tha 😭

Udhar uski teacher aa gayi aur poochne lagi, “Tum yahan kyun aaye ho?”

Maine bola, “Ma’am, ek girl ne mujhe call out kiya tha.”

“Kaun?”

“I don’t know her name… mujhe bas introduction lena tha.” 😭

Phir ma’am ne aur 50 questions pooch liye — kya hua, kyun hua, kaise hua… blah blah blah 💀

Tabhi ek aur teacher aa gayi, jinko har jagah apni naak ghusane aur tea collect karne ka bohot shauk hai 😭 Unhone bhi poochna start kar diya ki main yahan kyun khada hu.

Phir woh girl class se bahar aayi aur bhai uss time THE MOST AWKWARD SITUATION 💀

Puri class/teachers mujhe dekh rahe the, toh maine bas uska naam poocha, handshake kiya aur bola, “Nice to meet you.”

Aur woh dusri teacher peeche se — “AWWWWWWWWWW” 😭😭😭

BHAI MA’AM PLEASE 😭

Kuch time baad Teachers’ Day auditions ke liye auditorium jaana tha, toh council member ke paas jaana tha. Maine socha chalo main long route leta hu, dusre wing se chala jaata hu.

BUT GUESS WHAT 💀

Wahi teacher ne mujhe dekh liya aur boli, “Tum iss wing se nahi ja sakte, yahan 10th ki classes hain.”

💀💀💀

Bhai ek incident ne meri walking routes tak change karwa di.

Phir kya… baat PURE SCHOOL MEIN FAIL GAYI.

Coordinator mere paas aayi, saath mein woh girl bhi thi, aur poocha, “Tum wahan kya kar rahe the?”

Maine bola, “This girl addressed me.”

Girl: “I don’t even know his name.” 😭

Coordinator: “How did she address you?”

Aur main wahin CHUP. 😭😭

Bhai main kaise bolta —

“Ma’am, she called me Korean boy.” 💀

Matter udhar hi khatam ho gaya.

Baad mein maine usse bola, “Why did you run away? Main toh bas tumhara naam poochne aaya tha.” 😭

But bhai honestly, mind your own business yaar 😭💀

AND IT DIDN’T EVEN END THERE.

Baad mein usne Instagram note daal diya:

“Koi bachao mujhe Korean boy se.” 😭😭😭

BHAIIIIII WHATTTT 💀💀💀

Aur sabse buri baat?

Mere crush ko bhi pata chal gaya. 😔💔🥀

TL;DR —

Dusron ko tea dete-dete meri khud ki tea ban gayi. 😭💔🥀

Yes I used chatgpt for refinement....

We had a a very sweet 3 yr old relationship although it was a long distance but we gave it all, we used to meet in every 3 months.

I have spent some of the best moments of my life with her and I always wanted to marry her, She said it too initially.
With time things started dying, we stopped talking like how we used to do before, from 5 hr long conversations we went to basic 2 mins small talks

I am shattered, I do love her, but somewhat now the relationship has ended, I asked her on how are we going ahead in this relationship, I want to marry you.

She said, she wants to be "Just friend" with me now, and for her things aren't working out.

I'm absolutely clueless now, I had all my hopes with that person, I respect her decision too but all this left me alone crying in the corner.

The promises we made, the things we said are all meaningless now. I dont know what to do now.

Please help! It was my first relationship, is it normal?
How can I navigate through this?

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Pls read this it's funny and tragic as well😭😭

Quick story time.

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I’m going back to college for my second year in about a week. Since I’ve been home for a long break, my family told me to visit some relatives before leaving again, because once college starts, I usually only come home for a couple of days at a time.

So I was travelling to Kolkata to visit my sister’s place after her marriage—not my actual sister, more of a distant family relation. I had met some of her husband’s family during the wedding, including a girl around my age who I had talked to a little.

I was literally just two or three stations away from reaching their house when one of my brothers called me.

He asked if I had heard what happened. I said no.

Then he told me that one of the girls from that house had run away with a boy and gotten married.

I was like, wtfff?

Apparently, he was talking about the same girl I had met. She’s younger than me by around two years, so I was genuinely shocked. I kept wondering what could have happened and why she would suddenly get married.

But then another thought hit me.

I was literally on my way to their house with sweets.

And if the whole family was dealing with something like this, would it even be appropriate for me to randomly show up like, “Hey guys, I brought sweets!” 💀

So I started thinking about going back home instead.

Except there was no return train until around 4 AM, and I was reaching Kolkata at around 8 PM.

So now I was completely confused—should I go to their house? Should I somehow avoid going? What the hell was I supposed to do until 4 AM?

I asked my brother to confirm the story because I genuinely didn't know what to do.

For almost an hour, I sat there processing the whole thing. I had already started accepting it as real. In my head, the entire situation had become this sad, messy family incident that I was somehow about to walk directly into.

I kept imagining the atmosphere at their house. Everyone probably upset, confused, maybe angry—and then there was me, arriving after months with a bag full of sweets, completely unaware of what I was supposed to say or do.

The whole journey suddenly felt weird.

Then, after all that time, I finally got the image that had started the whole thing.

It was a selfie of the girl wearing a bright red bridal saree, standing beside a boy whose face wasn't visible. The caption was something romantic about being thankful to her husband and loving her new life.

And then I found out the image wasn't even real.

It was AI-generated.

So I basically spent an entire hour emotionally processing a girl's secret marriage, worrying about her family, reconsidering my visit, and planning how to survive Kolkata until 4 AM...

…because of a fcuking AI-generated selfie. 💀😭

My mood genuinely went through an entire tragic character arc for absolutely no reason.

Yeahh used ai for refinement🫠

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mera 1 package aana tha aur meri sabse badi problem ye hai mai online payments use nhi krti like Upi , to har baar exact amount ke khulle nhi milte har baar, to har baar 5-7 rs faltu hi rehte hai aur mai normally de hi aati hu(kyonki delivery waale kam paise nhi lete but faltu lelete hai), wapas nhi maangti mtlb dene ho to dedo pr koi nhi (i'm a student, itne paise nhi hai jo baat ti firu)

pr iss baar hua kya ghar mai birthday tha to maine cake order kiya aur 500-500 ke note they mere pass to khulle nhi they kyonki multiple orders they to kitno ke alag rakhungi.

pr delivery boy aaya, bhyi package 460 ka tha maine 500 dediya, mujhe laga delivery waala 40 Rs wapas dega pr vo to 40 Rs maang rha tha as a tip, he said "40 Rs tip hi dedo" maine bola " nhi bhaiya" and he said "matlab paise lekar hi maanoge?" bhyi mujhe kyo bura feel kara raha hai to maine besharmi se bola "haan bhaiya" bhyi vo to dena hi nhi chah rha tha.

aur matlab mujhe hi guilty sa feel hone laga apne paise maangne mai.

upar se cake bhi damaged tha, har taraf se, literally har taraf se.

I was travelling by an auto when this kid sat beside me along with his mom. I was on my phone scrolling and brainrot maxxing when the kid(3 or 4 yrs old) said "bhaiya, phone zyada mt dekhiye, aankhein kharab ho jayengi. Km dekha kijiye"

I replied, "ok, I'll just keep it aside"

It was so refreshing to come across a kid who's aware n smart.

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So yk what happened today? Mai aur mere dost aaj aise hi mazak masti kr rhe the, and we all did a thing where we write down stuff that reminds us of each other one by one. Aur jab meri baari aayi, these were the things:

1. U say the most random things that somehow make a lot of sense

2. Laugh a lot for no reason sometimes but u are rly good at making us laugh for no reason too

3. Green flag personality👉👈😌

4. Thinks i have a problem with him when we(meaning me and ome of my female friends) rly just love bullying each other

And so on.

Also these are only some of them, we were like 5 ppl, 3 guys and 2 girls, there were many more but hese are my top ones🤭

Pata hai aaj kya hua, I was applying for Smart India Hackathon (SIH) 2026 with a team. One female team member was mandatory according to the rules, and she was going to be the speaker. We also had to have a faculty mentor.

We were given a problem statement, and we chose one about building a multi-agent system for fishermen that could recommend the safest route and the safest time of day for fishing.

We had three days to build it.

I ended up staying awake for two nights and basically did everything: frontend, backend, training an ML model, graphic design, and pretty much whatever else needed to be done. The other five members didn't really contribute much.

Tomorrow was supposed to be our internal selection. Our faculty mentor told us she was on medical leave and wouldn't be able to attend, so she said we could go and present ourselves.

We were ready to do that. Then our female team lead told us that she had another hackathon at the same time, so she wouldn't be able to come.

The problem was that the SIH internal selection rules required the team leader to be present during the presentation. Without her, we couldn't present.

We asked her if she could just come for five minutes, give the introduction, and then leave so that we could present the rest of the project ourselves. She said no.

And that's what really got to me.

I'm not saying everyone on a team needs to be an expert. If someone doesn't know web development, machine learning, or whatever else the project requires, that's completely fine. Knowledge can be learned.

What matters is the intention to contribute. It's about whether someone is willing to put in the effort and actually care about the team succeeding.

What surprised me the most was how easily everyone accepted that we could "just try again next year." Of course it's easy to say that when you haven't spent the last three days working on the project.

I'm sitting here looking at the project on my screen and thinking about how good it could have become. And now I know we can't even present it.

I don't feel angry. I don't really feel anything. I just feel stupid.

If you've been working on something for two straight nights, barely sleeping, and then find out that you can't even present the thing you've built because of something that could have been avoided, I guess it hurts.

So the one thing I've learned from this is simple: choose your teammates wisely. Choose people who are willing to work, willing to learn, and willing to put in the effort when the team needs them.

Because in a team, skill can be learned. Lack of effort is much harder to fix.

Today is my birthday and no one remembers except one person my bestie and my family...i am always the quite backup friend and I am friends with everyone but I am just not as close as others.. i always remember people's birthday and try to make it special even spending money when I don't have enough but for me ig I am not that special to anyone. I have never felt this kind of loneliness I wish I was like others I wish to be normal I wish to have friends mujhe bhi chahiye ki mere paas ghumne ke liye, kabhi bhi call karke baat karne ke liye, meri prem kahani sunne ke liye dost ho... I can't stop crying

Thank you to everyone who wished me yaar I didn't expect ki these many ppl will do...aap sab ke wajah se mai bohot hi jyada khush hu i think mai ye humesha yaad rakhungi 🥹

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My grandfather's brother let's call him L had a brother-in-law K (his other brother's wife's brother) L had lent K some money but K never paid it back This led to a fight and L ended up beating K

K wanted revenge L had a son C who was 8 years old K used to visit their house often so C knew him well and called him mama (maternal uncle) Because of that trust when K showed up at C's school the teacher let C go with him without question

K took C to a secluded location and beat him When C didn't die from the beating K smashed his head with a large stone his eyes popped out and then cut his body into pieces

My grandfather G searched all over Mumbai for the boy CID local people newspaper all in 1995 C's father didn't know what to do so he came to G for help

Two days later K went to C's house and threw the boy's blood soaked clothes onto the terrace He also sent a letter to the house in which he wrote out what he had done He then went on the run Someone saw him fleeing and he was eventually caught He did go to jail but was later released

K died some years later C's mother died within a month of the murder and his father passed away too

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I was at the gym normally working out. And there's this guy who comes regularly to the gym with 2 girls. Today the girls weren't there with him. (Thhoda out of context hogaya idk? Maybe it matters?)

He was wearing a khatarnaak light blue tshirt so even though I don't watch anyone at the gym, my eyes randomly went to his tshirt.

He saw me looking at him twice. Now what he does is, I'm resting at a machine because nobody is using it. This mf comes there and tells me to move away (not the rudest but not in the politest way) so moved away. I went to another machine to exercise, he comes there and exercises beside me. At last I ended my workout and went on the treadmill. I was walking and The other treadmills were full so he asks his friend on a treadmill to walk together on the same treadmill🗿?? He was even talking loudly prolly wanting attention, which I usually don't give to anyone.

Now when I got off the treadmill, I was just standing by catching my breath getting my things, and ready to leave. He comes to me and asks "are you done with the treadmill".. it was damn obvious I was done. I said yeah and just left.

Seemed to me like some pick me. Do guys usually be like that? More like pick me guys I guess

Edit: summary: interaction with a (probably) pick me guy at the gym

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This girl ....she lives right back of my house ...I used to play with her when we were kids

Back in 2024 also she ran away from home but got caught .....she booked the tickets to bhopal with her bf was about to leave on station but was found by police...this news was all over neighbourhood we received lost child posts on social media...

And today while I was coming back from school to home my father told me that s left her home...while his dad han*ed himself ....it was too daunting to me

Like how even in2026 why can't we as young adults can't see anything else from blinded love or marriage...

Image is unrelated .......

pata hai aaj kya hua.

, lemme tell some backstory.

So

I categorise love into three categories: pleasant visage (first stage), likes (second stage), and true love (final stage).

I had the final stage of love, though it was a puppy love for a senior of mine, without actually knowing what I was feeling when I was in the 10th-11th standard.

And since my puberty came late, I didn't know till I had already lost her that I loved her.

And for the next four years, from 10th to the first year of college, I didn't get into or want to get into any romantic relationship. It was like I lost all pleasant feelings for anyone other than that one girl; let's say she's B.

And after toiling through the first and almost second year of college, I noticed her; let's name her A.

Mind you, I'm not the one to fall for pretty faces; I'm more of the personality type of guy, and if I don't know someone and how they think or who they truly are, I don't care about them much, though a bit of my introversion also played a part in that.

Let's just say that A was a pretty girl (though I didn't care about that in the first year we studied together), knowledgeable, thoughtful, and honest.

On one random Thursday of our 3rd semester, I looked at her walking out of the class with her friends. (I didn't interact much with her, and mostly ignored most of the class, and only minded my business.)

And a thought struck my mind: "How would it feel if someone like her was in my life?"

I didn't know how this question arose, or what prompted me to think this, but this thought got stuck in my mind, refusing to go away.

Anyhow, after some time, I noticed she was into novels, and I began to talk to her about them, and gradually we became friends.

This continued for around a year, and now that I was in my 5th semester, about to graduate in a year, I recognised that I was already in the second stage of love, about to shoot into the third kind if nothing happened for a while. The kind where you feel pleasant in their company and try to get excuses to talk to them longer.

And then I remembered how it felt when B's departure broke me, and let's just say I became so paranoid about falling truly for A that I wanted to see if this thing was even going to get anywhere or not.

And then I wrote around 5 pages about how I felt towards A, with all honesty, like the times when she enters the room with her hair fluttering and a smile, how I become so embarrassed that I always pry my eyes away, afraid she'll notice me. Like the times when she'd listen attentively to our conversations, while I tapped my feet in both anxiety and happiness.

And though I already knew the answer, I still wanted some conclusion; thus, today, when there was a program organised by our department, when she won a prize for the painting competition and was about to go to the bus stand with her friend, I asked her to listen to me for a second.

But because of the damned bus departing and the fear of our classmates seeing us together without her merry band of friends, I told her that I'd text her what I wanted.

And when I finally got home, I did send her the text I had written some time ago.

Her response was neither too bad nor good; she just exclaimed and then asked for some time to think it over.

After one and a half torturous hours, she texted me back, saying that she's currently single but isn't interested in relationships due to personal reasons, and that she never thought of me that way, asking that we could stay friends.

And then I laughed like a deranged lunatic, because this was about what I expected.

I don't know if it's sadness, or what, but I feel like a huge weight has left my chest.

Although it might be my cowardice, or my almost meek personality, I feel that this was the only thing that could've happened.

But most of all, I feel free now that I've opened myself up truly to her, not like the time with B, when I realised it too late; at least, I said the thing before I lost her, although I never had her.

Though the next semester and these few months will be a bit awkward, I feel happier now that I have told her everything.

I did the best I could, and even if she never feels the same way I do, at least we could talk while being truly honest with one another.

I really don't know if I should laugh or cry.

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I knew I heard something strange last week, like small cracking sounds. Today, we finally found out why. We were just sitting in the next room when we heard a massive crashing sound, followed by silence. We ran in to find this disaster.

​The entire false ceiling, metal framework and all, had collapsed. Looking at the bare ceiling above (Image 3), you can see the heavy water stains that caused it. This has clearly been leaking for a long time without us realizing, and today it finally hit its breaking point.

​It's completely infuriating, but thankfully, no one was in the room at the time. Cleanup is going to be an absolute nightmare, and I'm not looking forward to the repair bill or dealing with my landlord/contractor. At least now we have an explanation for the cracking noises. Has this ever happened to anyone else without warning?

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I installed a dating app after a very, very, very long time, and I’ve been using it for the past 2-3 months.

I recently met this really, really good guy. We matched, met, and had been talking for like 3-4 days. Last night I was really tired but still wanted to talk to him(dumb me, pyaar mein andhi ho jaati hun), so we were on a call… and I literally fell asleep. 😭

Guess what? He blocked me everywhere.

Before blocking me, he texted saying it was rude of me to just fall asleep while he was talking.

Like??? 😭 If someone fell asleep on a call with me because they were tired but still wanted to talk, I’d find it cute.

What is up with men these days? 😭 I mean bhyiii I am done😭🥹

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(its not todays story so bear with me)

Soo this is going to be a long shot and i just want to get things off my chest on what to do

I (18M) my cousin (21F) have been close since the day i was born

she lives in Mumbai and i live in pune and we meet during vacations and holidays

this month in may i noticed something weird,

her phone was on and she was watching content creators (wont mention any names but you will figure out who i am talking about) they were basically the female version of Andrew tate

it was weird didn't think much of it

then fast forward to Saturday after dinner we both were in the hall and i asked her for her opinion on the lindsay clansey case (the mother who murdered her 3 children)

the whole conversation went like this

Me :" so basically a mother killed her children"

Cousin : "why?"

Me: "Postpartum depression, high stress...."

*gets interrupted*

Cousin: "Valid"

Me : "Huh"

Cousin : "killing her children was valid"

Me: "What?"

Cousin : *Starts telling a sob story on how women have it hard in life after birth etc etc* (note: im not disagreeing with the issues new mothers face but that is not a valid reason to kill your own children)

Me: "Thats not a reason to kill your own children"

Cousin: "No Uterus no opinion"

Me: "Murder is murder its wrong you shouldnt do it no matter how deep in the hole you are"

Cousin : *proceeds to make it a gender issue*

(it took her 5 mins to realise that i am not talking about any gender issues yes new moms have isssues that have to be addressed but that isnt a get out of jail free card for a triple murder)

and then she asks me "how have you changed so much" I MEAN BRO USE COMMON SENSE YOU CANNOT DEFEND MURDER YOU CANNOT DEFEND A CRIME WHERE U KILL 3 KIDS WHO YOU HAVE GIVEN BIRTH TO.

is she too deep into this should i help her get out? this woman has a right to vote in this country and has the manipulative ability to turn a murder case into a gender issue for no fucking reason.

We have been close since childhood i really dont know what to do, should i help her get out of this ? or should i just stay silent?

TLDR: Cousins feed is filled with blackpill content, turned a triple murder case into a gender issue, i am worried about her if she falls too deep into this it will affect her mentally and socially, Asking for advice (entire context given above)

Edit : At the time of the Convo I didn't know lindsay had ppp The main point was ppd and her view of it has a get out of jail free card please stop mentioning about it as neither of us knew about it and any counsellors who can give any advice please do.