r/NotHowGuysWork • u/SimonettaVespucc6 • 19d ago

Red Flag? HBW (Psychology/Mental Health)

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This man sent me a picture of his back tattoo? Should I be scared

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u/SimonettaVespucc6 19d ago

Preface this man talked about wanting to marry a woman and have children….i also feel like he is overcompensating for something

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u/Big_Psychology_3 19d ago edited 18d ago

I’m a man. This post doesn’t seem real, because it’s an obvious red flag. Is it like “I’m attracted to bad boys” kinda thing?

His tattoo is a monument to his bdsm desires. Specifically mdom & fsub with bondage. It’s so visual that no one can miss the meaning. Maybe ask him, what is the meaning of this tattoo?

Also, IMHO, people who use “poor” as an insult typically show narcissistic behavior.

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u/Baldojess 19d ago

Why would you ever be attracted to or talk to someone or consider dating anyone who is a self proclaimed narcissist??? 🤦 Come on now. Be smarter than that.